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writes: What would you make of this comment made by my husband. My husband and i were joking around and he commented that if he had some slave girls they could 'fully turn him on before I entered the room'. I didnt say much about it at the tme but cant help feeling a little hurt by this comment especially since in the past we have had a few 'issues with his constant ogling of women when we are out (something he seems now to have a handle on). Our sex life is good,and I have talked to him about ways to spice it up but we both seem pretty satisfied in that department. It seems to me that he still wants something more in the 'visual department'. Porn is absolutely not a place I will go as I find it VERY offensive...If it is the case that he is not satisfied with me I would rather leave the relationship than stay where one of us is less than 'fully aroused'. I really do everything I possibly can to satisfy him but his commet makes me think maybe thats not enough for him. What do people think????
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (28 October 2006):
 How fun, your husband has given you a fantasy to play with. This is a wonderful sign of the sexual closeness of your marriage. You should share your fantasies with him.
So what to do? surprise him and become his fantasy, try a costume, word play and certain sexual techniques. Some men love the princess Leia slave costume or you could make-up your own, it doesn't really matter, go naked if you want. Figure out your character and what she would say and how she would approach him. Don't break character, yet keep words to a minimum allow his mind to fill in the blanks. A simple thing to start with is when a 'sex slave' gives a sensual massage. If you're limber there are a few techniques to stimulate a man using your mouth both hands and feet to give him the feeling of multiple women on him.
Try out sexual things that your character would do that you would not. Most importantly remember this is just a fantasy have fun with it.
Sex slave is a very common fantasy and fun to play both ways.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2006): I too would be upset if my fiance said that to me, but as two were joking around, maybe he only said it as a joke and probably expected you to say something similar back. Or maybe he was expressing a fantasy and wanted you to contribute to it, what you'd be doing.
I suppose the only way you're going to find out is to ask him what he meant by it. It's the only way to be sure.
Good luck x
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