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Archived questions from: January, 2013 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

LDR has me not feeling as attracted to my b/f as I used to

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I have a boyfriend of 3 years and i love him dearly, we used to spend a lo of time together and even lived together for 6 months at one point but for the last 12 months we have been in a long distance relationship. we stay in contact and mana...

What's the point in telling a guy you've fallen for him when you have no intention of taking things further?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

31 January 2013 (M) - Hi people, i'd just like to ask opinions on this matter. Basically I'm a 29 year old single male whose not going out of his way to look for a relationship, but open to one if the opportunity presents itself with a worthy candidate. A bit about my...

I'm worried that my Bf is getting tired of me. He's even said he does not feel he "needs" to see me. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I have been really worried about my relationship lately, and really need some advice. I'm worried my boyfriend is getting tired of me, or if this is just normal for a relationship as it goes along? I don't know what to do. help please! I'll try...

Why do I feel so depressed after he made an offer to let me watch him have sex with his future girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, before anyone jumps in and bash me for being immature and naive and stupid, I do hope you can understand that I only came here and ask for your help because I'm desperate and don't know where to go to so please try to be ...

How do I tell my girlfriend her house is nasty and I wont eat at hers again until the roaches are exterminated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - Should you tell someone you love they are a slob and should do much better about being clean? I'm lesbian and coincidentally my girlfriend is too. Anyways I've recently just begun visiting her home after 3yrs making arrangements to meet up or visit ...

LDR makes me feel insecure. How do I get over it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship with my current boyfriend and we talk everyday. As far as looks go, I consider myself to be attractive, and I believe we are very compatible personality-wise, and we have many similar interests. We've been ...

Are long distance relationships all about the sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - I'm just gonna go right out and say it... are long distance relationships just about sex? I mean, if you meet someone online and see them, say, a couple of weekends a month... and it takes around 3 hours to get to them and you're paying for the ...

Did I over-react? I thought we had a connection. Maybe not? I feel he's messing with my mind!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - Hello I just wanted some views on my situation. I met a guy on holiday and we kept in touch. I went back to visit him and we spent lots of time together. I met his family and his friends again. When we were apart we always have arguments ov...

Your thoughts on this? He's verbally abusive, spends time online gaming and watching porn. Have to ask him for his % share of bills. Is this relationship working or is there an answer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - hey guys i am writing this because i am at the end of tether with this man who is supposed to be my husband. We have been married for 4 years and it was long distance. I moved to the US about a year ago and since coming here my relations...

Should I remain a friend to my ex, or should I leave him alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Should I remain a friend to my ex, or should I leave him alone? BACKGROUND: My ex-boyfriend and I dated for three years in university then broke up. Before we split up we never fought. We are both down-to-earth and had only dated one...

Is 22 too young for a man to really settle down? Do we know each other well enough to make this decision?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - I am 21, I went to school with this guy, that we will call GUY. So..we have texted and talked via facebook/text for a while, off and on, but for these last few weeks we have talked heavily. All day everyday. We can't hang out at this moment ...

Am I over-reacting? Should he have left me alone? Was I right to refuse to go to a place where I'd be the only woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - So here's my story. I'm visiting my fiance where he stays due to work. Yesterday he wanted us to go watch soccer at his friend's place (actually home boy), I refused to go because I don't know his friend's friends and I was going to be the ...

Everything was fine until my first love put a hold on our relationship, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4344 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - Everything was fine until my first love put a hold on our relationship, what do I do? I've been with my girlfriend for just over one year, and it's my first serious relationship that I've been in however I now need some advice. We're both from ...

Should I give up at the last hurdle of 5 year long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4345 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - I have no idea what to do with myself. We live in different countries in Europe. When we first met nearly 6 years ago, he promised me [m24] he would be there with me after we finished university/college. At one point I just wanted to dump it all a...

How can I stop hoping my ex will get back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - I met the girl of my dreams last summer. We hit it off quickly and it wasn't long before we changed our status on facebook to 'in a relationship'. We live in different towns, but would meet up a couple of times a week. Then we stayed at each other's ...

I don't think he loves me because his actions don't show that he does

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4344 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Hello, My BF is currently very upset as he's facing many problems. I try to stand by his side as much as I can. When we met, he was constanlty chatting with me. Well, we live in different countries. Yea I know these kind of relationship has very lit...

My boyfriend has been nothing but a model b/f but I want to breakup with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - I have been in a sort of long distance relationship with a someone for over 2 years now. (It's sort of long distance because we're near each other in the holidays but we go to different unis). Anyway he's this great guy, and my best friend, and ...

Should I take off 2 months to be with my LDR husband or not and make him wake up and realize he needs to end the distance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4346 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - Hi dear cupids, I am in a long-distance marriage. In the past 2 years I've managed to take a few months off my job in order to fly abroad and be with my husband- i didn't get paid during those months off, but I got to spend time with him which was ...

It seems that my Boyfriend of 18 months is not longer interested in me. What can I do to get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend lives far from me we have been dating for one and a half years. But now he’s not responding to my messages and he's always busy to talk to me. Now we only talk through social networks only. It seems to be that he's no longer inte...

Why isnt he making any steps for us to live together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - Hey dearcupid.org,this is what bothers me...I ve been with this guy 4 long in distance relationship,and this year it will be 4 years that we re doing it... Last year we were supposed to start living together,n me to move to his country,...

I'm married but it's a LDR. I cheated with a friend who's also married. I don't want to break up our marriages. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - I need some advice. I've been in a long distance relationship for about 5 years. We've seen each other every 5-6 months for about one or two months. Got married a few months ago and now living apart again. This will keep continuing for a...

Why has my older LDR friend started being distant? I feel like he is giving me the "cold treatment"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - I am just very confused right now. I met a guy few months ago who is a bit older than I am and he seemed to be really interested to me. Initially, I was not into him but after going out with him and I got to know him a bit, I started to like ...

Out of the blue he says he loves me but can't be with me. I don't know what happened!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - i met this guy on a dating site.we are talking by mails and on the phone before to meet 5 mnths ago.was a romantic trip.after that we met few more times.he wanted me to be a part of his life and share everythings with me.met me with his friends and ...

He's in and out of my life..he only appears when he wants to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - Hey friends! so here's a long story and i beg your patience and advice. I'm a lil bit puzzled by one guys behaviour. To clarify everything i should tell our "love"story. We've met each other by accident, coz two young Germans (about...

I'm worried that I'm leaning too much on my boyfriend and he should be out having fun

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years following a long friendship and we are very much in love and looking into moving in together after in finish uni (he is currentrly in a graduate position). I haven't had it easy in the last year or...

Do I need to get over him? It wasn't meant to be something serious

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4350 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - I know this will sound a little pathetic considering my age, but here it goes. Last year I went to a sort of convention, and I met a nice guy. He was kind of cute, but I knew I'd only see him on those two days or so, and I didn't think anything...

I really don't know what to do about my boyfriend: depression, year abroad etc.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, i'm in a massive dilemma about what to do about my boyfriend. We've been together for just over two years now. We've had ups and downs, had two brief breakups in the past but we're back together and we're as happy as ever. We've alwa...

Partner's mother belittles me. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

22 January 2013 (F) - Hi everyone , I'm in a long distance relationship, we see each other every 2 weeks or more . The problem is his mother, she belittles me quiet a lot, she talks to me as a child and i am finding it really annoying now . I told him how I felt in a ...

Is he too comfortable with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (F) - hello so my question is that normal ify boyfriend masturbate in front of me while were making love, cause i feel uncomftable looking to him ? we are ldr so im might been shy to express myself in bed with him...

He broke up with me over text, when 4 days before he was telling me how much he loved me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 January 2013 (F) - I need help. I'm falling to pieces. I dated this NAVY guy online for 5 months before we met. I was skeptical at first, didn't want another dead end relationship. I told him I wasn't looking to get serious, I just wanted to chat and get to know ...

Am I being reasonable fearing our LDR? Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4351 days ago

21 January 2013 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles I recently entered a long distance relationship and I'm worried. The thing is, I'm scared, really scared. I've been in a long distance relationship before but the distance wasn't so great you know? Now I'm so much more furthe...

My boyfriend doesn't show me any affection. I've tried everything to improve myself. What else can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. He's in the military and is divorced with 2 kids. After a year of long distance relationship, I decided to move in with him. I am having the hardest time not receiving affection ...

What is the difference between gut feelings and anxiety regarding cheating in a relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Dear all, Can anyone please give advice from experience about the difference between gut feelings and anxiety regarding cheating in a relationship? I've been with my BF for over a year now and I've had a bad feeling about his female work co...

Is he just trying to delay things more? I wanted something more permanent. He's got excuses ready (for why not) and I'm sick of it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4353 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is 49 and I am 43. We have been dating for 2 1/2 years. We have for the last several months spoken a little bit about getting married. We each have houses about 40 miles from each other, dogs, kids, jobs, the usual. It is ofte...

Boyfriend asked for undetermined break!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

19 January 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, i don't know how to deal with my boyfriend. There is something that happened to my life and i told him exactly what happened the whole truth, but however i wasnt comfortable telling my family yet, i grew up in a family where we weren...

I'm confused by her actions. Would you describe her actions as disrespectful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

18 January 2013 (M) - Okay first off let me thank you guys for taking time out of your day to listen to me ! Well me and this girl let me call her A and my name C. Okay so i started talking to mid december and we had a blast talking to one another and even see...

The more I try, the more I think he will hate me. How do I handle my depressed LDR boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - how do you help someone you love that seems depressed? im in a LDR at the moment with my boyfriend and whenever we talk on the phone etc he can be lovely and cheerful one minute but if i say one thing wrong or something he doesnt like he will get...

Cheating lying ex still calls me up - why???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - So i'll start from the beginning. we met through the internet... sounds dubious. i wasn't sure about it myself either... but we did have mutual friends in the real world so it made it a little easier to connect with each other. we hadn't met but ...

Should I break up with my LDR partner whilst visiting him, or on the phone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - I've been thinking about breaking up with my bf for a while now. We've been together for over 2 years, and while there isn't anything specifically wrong, and we get on great, but I just don't feel right about it, and I know I dont want to be with ...

I don't want our last two awkward meetings to be the last memories we have of each other. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 January 2013 (F) - So my story happens on New Year’s Eve. (back ground info) I am 21 and my friend is 18. We have been neighbours for most of our lives. We were very close as children and I have great memories of being with him. but we grew apart when I was a teenag...

Boyfriend is blowing hot and cold. If he's unhappy, why doesn't he end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 January 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, I have a boyfriend of nearly three years, and unfortunately with money issues etc we are long distance for the moment but want to move in together when we save enough. However whenever I talk or contact my partner he seems v...

My BF blocked my Facebook since I posted and blamed on a sexy photo of an entertaining girl whom he often visits her page. Am I nothing to him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

17 January 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. My long distance BF often visits a Facebook page of a sexy young girl working as an entertainer by showing body in bikini in sexy ways. I've known there are some sexy young girls on his page so far, they are working for a small Asian ...

Should I leave my girlfriend because of my insecurities?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 January 2013 (M) - I have been asking for advice regarding my ldr before, so this is not the firts time im posting, i tried to post a while ago but it was rejected due to lack of information, so i will try to give as much info as i can keeping it short. I have a l...

How can I tell this girl who I've kissed that I think she's the one? Trouble is it's now a LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

16 January 2013 (M) - Hi im 14 and live in one place in my state but there is this girl who I like but she lives in another place in my state. I don't know how to tell her my feelings, especially that she's the girl for me. But the major problem is that we've kissed b...

I cant count on my boyfriend anymore, what should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

16 January 2013 (F) - Hello, Please advise me since Im very nervous because of my boyfriend's behavior..he is almost 11 years older than me, never married and lives in germany since he was 13. he left his country at the age of 13 to join her mother in the USA but coul...

Crush central. How do I get to know him better? And he's joining the army soon. And I'm moving far away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 January 2013 (F) - I'm in my last year of high school and i realize ive got it sooo bad for this guy in my grade. We don't have any classes together but when he talks to people I know everything I need to know. He's not like really good-looking, he's not popular...

Do you think he really does just hate technology, or does he not care enough to stay in contact more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend used to text loads and basically stay in touch loads when we were first going out, but these days it feels like he forces himself to contact at all? He says he hates texting and doesnt really like phone calling or emailing much ei...

How do I convince my LDR ex to try again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

13 January 2013 (M) - Hello, I was dating someone in a long distance relationship but she called it off months ago. The fact is we really like each other so have kept in touch as friends. I have been very patient and only recently discovered the real reason she wante...

Anyone been in a relationship with a Bf in Turkey? I'd like to help him get a Visa to visit me here. How could I help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - So me and my turkish boyfriend have been going out for just over 5 months now. I met him back in august when i was there on holiday and spent a month with him, I then went back in December to see him again for just over a week and I met his pare...

Troubled relationship: What's the best way to handle my guy and this immature guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - PLEASE HELP!!!! It will be four years this year that I'm with my current bf...in distance relationship. We've been madly in love since we met last fall I was supposed to move to his country and continue university there but since we didn’t mana...