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30-35,
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writes:Okay first off let me thank you guys for taking time out of your day to listen to me ! Well me and this girl let me call her A and my name C. Okay so i started talking to mid december and we had a blast talking to one another and even see each other everyday and she told me a couple days ago how she hated when i had to go to bed but loved when i message her everyday. Yesterday she told me something came up and was going to delete her messages and i couldnt believe she said that ?? And even disconect her phone yet she pays for her cellular service ???? And today when i checked for messages from her she had changed the photo of her hugging some guy. I felt hurt and all i wanted from her was the truth and now i feel disrespected as a human being :( Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (18 January 2013):
 Here's my "take" on this....
Young people (you are one of them) are in that stage of life wherein they are meeting and interacting with one-another, and developing their educations and interests... and life is very dynamic. AND, this will continue until you get to be an old buzzard (like me).... after which, you will be sufficiently set in your ways to not be adaptable to anything new!!!!
It "sounds" like this gal that you fancy may have had at least one other guy on the line.... and she took to him rather than you.... Really, "no harm; no foul" on her part... it's just part of growning up....
For YOU, I'd spend 'way less time trying to determine (and define) who was being "respectful" toward me... I disdain to hear that... since it implies that people really don't give a darn about one-another (they exhibit "disrespect"), when, I think, it's mostly all about the dynamics of life, is not a "personal statement" about you, and has nothing to do with "respect."
Good luck......
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reader, CMMP +, writes (18 January 2013):
Sounds to me like she was already in a relationship and her bf caught her flirting with you. Hence the changing of her picture to her hugging him, so she can "prove" she cares.
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