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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend used to text loads and basically stay in touch loads when we were first going out, but these days it feels like he forces himself to contact at all?He says he hates texting and doesnt really like phone calling or emailing much either, so i rarely get an email or text but he does call twice a week.We are in a long distance relationship at the moment so we dont see each other like we used to, but i try to keep everything together as much as poss. I dont hound him but i thought he might want to stay close.Do you think he really does just hate technology, or does he not care enough to stay in contact more?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (15 January 2013):
 He didn't hate technology when you started did he?
So what has changed now? IF you were NOT LDR and he was texting a lot before he moved (or you moved) and all of a sudden he hates technology... something is up and your radar is sensing it.
My husband when we were LDR (we were LDR to start after we met at a conference) will not text. Was not much for phone calls... but would email a bit...
ONCE we got serious the phone calls started. but he never likes to text. getting a text from my hubby is a rare treat... he hates texting...
but technology... email, computers phones... those are all things needed in life in general now a days...
again if he was doing it and now he's changed... something is wrong somewhere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2013): If he hated technology he would have been this way right from the start, not just recently. If I were you I would stop texting/calling him as much for a bit. Let him do some of the work...
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reader, CMMP +, writes (15 January 2013):
A little of both is more likely than anything.
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reader, cmarieky +, writes (15 January 2013):
I honestly think the flames have died down and you're not that exciting to him anymore. It's somewhat normal after about six months to start giving each other a little space. However it seems u guys are in a long distance relationship, which means u can't spend a lot of time together like a traditional relationship. I think him saying he doesn't like technology is equivalent to saying I don't want a long distance relationship. Seriously listen to his statement, pls don't proceed further with this guy. I see a heartbreak ahead for u bc he isn't willing to put much effort into contacting u.
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