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female
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41-50,
*ibob
writes:Hello,My BF is currently very upset as he's facing many problems. I try to stand by his side as much as I can. When we met, he was constanlty chatting with me. Well, we live in different countries. Yea I know these kind of relationship has very little chance of working but he told me that he'll do everything he can to make it work. So, in the begining of our relationship, messages on Watsapp used to flow abundantly between us. He recently came to visit me in my country. I thought that this would bring us closer. Well, now he barely chat with me. It's always me who chat with him. I see that he's online often even late at night yet he does not even say a hello to me. It's true that he's having big troubles but all the troubles he's having is the result of his own actions. Now, I barely hear him unless I chat with him. For me, no matter how big your problems are, this should not prevent a person from keeping in touch with the person you claim to love so much. I don't think he loves me as his actions don't show me that he does
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (29 January 2013):
 you are right he is not as into you as you are into him.
His actions show it.
STOP rowing the relationship boat and let him do the work. You will find he fades off into the past.
what happened was he was in love with the idea of you and when he finally got to meet you, he realized that it's not going to work and he is too chicken to tell you.
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