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Archived questions from: December, 2012 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

My girlfriend wants me to meet her online friend from England

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - Hello guys. I ve seen from my GF`s FB page that she sent a message to this guy from England (whom she's never met in person) asking him if hes coming to visit soon and also wrote that its been a long time since they talked. So this guy was introduc...

How can I break it to my friend that the magic is gone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - One of my best friends and I recently decided that there might be some kind of chemistry between us... We decided to go on a real date and see where things went... The date was awful. It was awkward and we had nothing to talk about. I'm not s...

As the man, should I be doing the asking?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - I have a lady in my life. We are friends, good friends and I'd like to be more than friends but it hasn't reached that point. I'm old fashioned. I've always believed a man has to court the lady, that when a man wants to do something, ie go...

Eight months pregnant by him and now he's broken up with me on Christmas Eve. What can I do? LDR and he's in the military. He says I've not given him enough space.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I met this guy almost 12 mths ago, we were in love an every was great. Now I'm currently 8 months pregnant an recently he started talking a lot less, saying he needs space and that i message him too much. Then he then dumped me on Christmas Eve an ...

We seem to get on okay through texting but when we meet up we don't click. What should I tell this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - Alright... Here goes... This guy and I met in our final year of undergrad (two years ago). At the time, I was seeing someone else and I didn't even think twice about him. Last year (last Christmas) my boyfriend and I broke up and I began talking ...

Did I ruin our LDR because I asked her not to be online with others while talking to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - hey frnds my gf and i we live about 4 hrs of drive away from each other and meet around like 2 times a month and our dates are usually enjoyable.. shes 23 and am 22.. she used to work before but not at the moment i.e. stays home all the time and am ...

Her parents are unhelpful and her bi-polar is not medicated as her parents can't afford it. I care about her deeply, but what can I do about supporting her, now that I have less time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - Bit of background information: I'm 18 and about to enter my second semester of college, my Girlfriend is 17 and in High School. We've been dating for over a year now. We started dating when I was a Senior in High School. We saw each other every ...

LDR: Attention seeker? Hypochondriac? Or really sick? Cheated in the past. Am I wasting my time with her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - I've been dating this girl for a while now. Today makes it 5 months. She's in a different country from me, so there's the first problem of distance. However, we try to overcome it. First of all, I found out she had sex with a friend of mine, ...

LDR help needed please? How do I break up with my LDR?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Our relationship became a LDR since 4 months... Growing apart from my bf of 2 years: we are at a point where we barely talk now and my feelings for him are not the same anymore. In the beginning I was writing to him every day and we would sky...

Eleven months later my ex made contact. Is he trying to reconnect? What's my next move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4345 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Hey guys, I'll try and keep this as short as possible but two weeks ago my ex contacted me after us not speaking for 11 months. I deleted his number so I didn't actually know it was him but we were together for 2 and a half years. To be clear, he...

As it's her home area shall I ask her first where she'd like to go on our first date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - So I think I might be into this girl. After we get back to college from Christmas break, I'm gonna see if she wants to go out. Where we go to school is her hometown, so she has her car, and she already has her favorite places, and knows everywhere...

I am struggling to move on without closure

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - How do you move on from a relationship without closure? I was with a wonderful man who treated me well for just over 2 years. It was long distance for the majority due to his work but we always ensured we'd see eachother twice a week. He treated me ...

Why is my wife's family and my wife keeping big secrets from me? Why is my wife saying she loves me when clearly saying otherwise to others? what are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - Hello, My wife and I live across a ocean! She is doing her post grad studies back home and I am working in Europe. Two months after I left for work and medical reasons (operation) my wife started seeing some guy. She had told her friends th...

How do I go to see him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4347 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Hello everybody :) First of all im really happy to have found this website because i realized i am not fully in control of my relationship problems.Here is my little story and my questions. I've been with this amazing guy in a long distance r...

Long distance relationship revolving around sex good or bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Hi, I have a man I met on this blogging website. Naturally people tend to meet kindrid spirits there. I met a man and we both wanted to meet so bad. So we did and hit it off hard. Now we are in a long distance relationship, from florida to idaho...

Is it reasonable that I expect, and I am waiting for him to make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Three months ago I met a guy and we both are in love with each other. Though we live quite far apart we have met a number of times to spend time with each other but we haven't yet been intimate. We talk to each other daily but my problem is t...

Why is this guy ignoring me? We had a great 3 days together. I know he has a Gf.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - I had a great time with a guy for 3 continous days. It wasn't supposed to be a date but we met for a lunch at 1pm....and the date ended up 3am! It was not supposed to be a date as he was leaving the country and he already has a girlfriend. How...

I've been flirting with guys the last 6 months. Should I leave my husband and start afresh in a more meaningful relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I met my husband when I was seventeen and married at 21. Now 28 with a child I am so unhappy! We argue a lot, over stupid and small things! I will admit I am bad tempered and may indicate things! Sex life gone down to a point I ask and be let ...

Thank you Dear Cupid. This is a WONDERFUL site. You showed me good directions when I was lost.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I just want to say thanks to all the wonderful people at dear cupid. Since from the beginning of the you have shown love and good advices. Mostly thanks to the wonderful founder of dear cupid. Its so good to know that there's someone out there who ...

I can't stop snooping on my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - I can't stop sying on my bf's social networking mailbox and phone! We got together in summer and he lived in states, we were casual but as he was travelling around europe, he decided to come back and see me again, i told him as long as he ...

I want to break up. What he is doing is very wrong. What can I do and how do I deal with his threat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - Modnote: One this first occasion only your text speak was tidied up. Do NOT submit in text speak again. I need your help. I have this bf who I only know him through chatting He claims that he love me so much and that he's ready to get married to m...

How can I ask my LDR about his reluctance to find time for me without me sounding clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - hello guys, happy holidays! anyway having this things in my mind is really confusing me, i really dont know if this could be a problem, or im just needy and demanding girlfriend, here it is im with a amazing man right now were been 3 years kn...

Boyfriend is getting paranoid and insecure since our relationship became long distance. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for six years since high school. We went to the same uni, however I'm a med student so I'm doing my placement near my uni (Cambridge), my boyfriend has graduated already and he's back in London, we're finding it difficult ...

My LDR girlfriend wants to see other people. I feel that she's playing games and sending mixed messages. Any advice/ thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

22 December 2012 (M) - Dear cupids, I need some reassurance on my thoughts. Here's my story. I was in a LDR (couple of hours away) for the past 3 years and we began to fall apart last few months. We visited a lot and had the utmost respect for each other. Loved each o...

Boyfriend finished it because we're going to uni soon and he doesn't want to get more attached. What should I do and how do I get over the heartbreak?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4351 days ago

22 December 2012 (F) - Hey. My boyfriend broke up with me last week and my heart is so broken. He said as we're both going off to uni soon we'd have to split up at some point anyway and he thought we should do it now as he was already getting 'too attached' to me. I ...

My LDR seems sweet and gentle. I'm a virgin. Last night I found out he's into sadistic/masochistic sex. How do I deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - I'm going to try and keep this as brief as possible. Last night I learned that my long-distance boyfriend is into sadistic/masochistic sex. I'm really surprised, because he's a really sweet and gentle guy. I'm a virgin, with zero sexual activit...

Should I confront my wife or am I being paranoid about her possibly chatting with other men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

21 December 2012 (M) - We have been married for 5 years. Unfortunately live in seperate locations because of work(different continents !) We are committed to getting back together physically in a few months(move work location). My predicament is this, i believe she ...

My long distance boyfriend says maybe we can be together next year

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

20 December 2012 (F) - hi, ive been with my partner for three years, and earlier this year we lived together for six months, however due to finance and issues we had to but a ldr. but we have stayed together during everything. however after three years of waiting for...

I made a mistake and told my long distance love some negative things out of emotion and too much wine! I'm visiting him now and want him to give us a chance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

20 December 2012 (F) - i made a mistake by telling my long disatnce love negative things out of emotion (and too much wine) that led him to believe we broke up. i am here with him now and the day after i arrived we discussed it more clearly. he said after i said those ...

My boyfriend and I are both very outspoken. Will we be alright living together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

19 December 2012 (F) - well, my boyfriend and I have known each other for 1 year and been together for 6 months, i meet him right before moving back from a other state. we have a good relationship we get along very well. we are currently live 9 hours apart, we are ...

Haven't heard from her for 3 days, Is my Girlfriend breaking up with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4354 days ago

19 December 2012 (M) - my long distant Girlfriend of a year have been going great...when we are together we are so happy with each other, we had our bumps in the road but we always manage to work it out, but 3 weeks ago she was being moody for no reason but I found out it ...

How can I make him care about me and miss me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

18 December 2012 (F) - This guy and I have met 7 months ago. It's a long distance relationship. We've fallen in love, and even talked about getting married in the future. I told myself not to get too attached to this guy, because I went through a really bad traumatizing ...

Boyfriend's recent temper issues are making me question my relationship. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

18 December 2012 (F) - Hello there, I'm having an issue with my Boyfriend that he is not yet aware of, and I don't know how to bring it up. We have been together for two and a half years, and I love him more than anything. We are in an LDR and see each other fairly...

Can't see my LDR and sorely tempted to cheat

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

18 December 2012 (F) - Hey I'm a female currently in uni and also in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend back home. Recently I've been so lonely and sexually frustrated due to not seeing her and I'm tempted to sleep with this other girl who is interested in...

LDR dumped me. It was Very sudden and I'm devastated. Do you think he has another girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F) - I have just been dumped by my boyfriend, we were in a long distance relationship. He said " i dont love you anymore and im sick of waiting for you to relocate to me"...the thing is it was only two days ago when he said "i love u, miss u and ill ...

Why is he so grumpy at me all the time? Need some advice on how to open up to him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 December 2012 (F) - Hello, so I am in a long distance situation. We've been 3 years together but he lives in another country. We met when one time he has holiday here in Singapore. So everyday talk Skype, phone calls, and we had schedule visit soon. Next year. ...

Any insights please? Is he trying to let me down gently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

15 December 2012 (F) - Confused. I have been seeing a guy for a few months, trying not to get to serious about it as i wasnt sure if it would go anywhere. I'd be happy to explore it however, if it did. Things were going well, or so i thought. He left the UK for home...

LDR but I want to have sex! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

14 December 2012 (F) - I have a boyfriend,i truly love him and he luvs me too,we are both virgins and we're planing to spend our life together...the problem is that we are in a long distant relation,recently i started feeling very horny,cant keep ma mind off sex,i really ...

I want my relationship to work, but I also want my life to take off finally and I keep thinking that if I wait one more year maybe he will be ready to move with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

13 December 2012 (F) - I just pasted my 2nd anniversary with my boyfriend and I have been feeling like I need a change of scenery. I brought this to his attention and he is not ready to go any where. I considered Illinois cause that is where my mom is and the rest of my ...

How faithful can a girl can be in a LDR when temptations are everywhere?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

13 December 2012 (M) - Hi, im in a ldr for about 7 months and we both are in love. due to our job and school compromises we wont be able to move together until in 2 years or so. so far we have been seeing each other every two months and will be on the same basis, maybe ...

What will I do if he ends up in Jail? What I should do right now given the situation?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

13 December 2012 (?) - To start off with, I'm a nineteen year old girl dating a nineteen year old male. We've been dating a little more than ten months now. There has never really been a fight between the two of us either, we get along quite well. Anyways, like all rela...

The only way he'll let me break up with him is if I tell him the truth!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

12 December 2012 (F) - So im kind of stuck in a pickle. what do you do when you dont want to hurt someones feelings, break them by telling them the truth ? That after 4 years of dating you went away alone for acouple months and in just 3 months felt happier with someone ...

Boyfriend Watching Porn In A Long Distance Relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

12 December 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years now from opposite sides of the world. We are both 18 and we have not seen each other within the last 3 years. Everything is great except for the fact that he watches perverted things like women ...

Do I have any chance of winning her love back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4361 days ago

12 December 2012 (M) - Do I have any chance of winning her love back? I met this girl in the final year of school, she was the most mature, independent and beautiful woman I had met. We dated till the end of school and then broke up because we were moving to differ...

Fading feelings in a LDR, maybe he's not my true love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

11 December 2012 (F) - Hi, ive been dating this guy for a while and we love each other but we've gone long distance for four months now and although we talk about marriage and spending our lives together, lately my feelings have been fading, i just don't know with him ...

Something feels off - should I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - hi, everyone, just sumthing im worried about but in a way not that worried... about just over to yrs ago i met a guy off plenty of fish the dating website, and kinda just hit it off from texting and ringing anyway last early december we finall...

Is it best to just forget this guy? I know I deserve better

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I am legally separated from my husband and will be going to be divorced soon. I have made plenty of friends online for the last 3 years. One of them, a guy and I have become quite close. We have been chatting on skype for 2 weeks. There was a l...

I have some regrets about my LDR. I think I give too much. How can I overcome these feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - Im in a ldr with a wonderful girl and we love each other very much. When i met her i was pursuing my dream job, having job interviews etc. When things got serious and we became exclusive she had to go back to her country to complete school ...

LDR of 3 years--she sent me fake photos of herself from porn sites! Why did she lie to me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

8 December 2012 (M) - I feel like such an idiot. I've been in a long distance relationship for more than three years. I'm in the UK and she's in Australia. We met on the internet, but quickly moved on to talking on the phone, and we'd talk for hours every day. For v...

Am I texting too much? Do my old classmate and I have a budding LDR or not?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - I recently saw an old classmate on FB. He graduated 79 and I 80. So he sent me his number and I called well at first it was merely to just chat with the guy that caught my eye way back when but I was with my boyfriend who later became my husban...