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writes:Three months ago I met a guy and we both are in love with each other. Though we live quite far apart we have met a number of times to spend time with each other but we haven't yet been intimate. We talk to each other daily but my problem is that the guy rarely expresses his feelings. Up to now he hasn't said anything or asked me out but that is what I'm waiting for. This other time we travelled together and he tried to kiss me but I just couldn't because I don't consider us a couple.Should I keep on waiting on him to say something or should I just move on and be with someone who can open up to me?
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reader, Madalo 1 +, writes (26 December 2012):
Why do you have to wait for him to say? Ask him what he thinks of you, and if he thinks you guys can have a relationship.Him trying to kiss you really doesn't say how much he feels about you,it might have just been the moment. At the same time you might lose out if you just move on without asking him how he feels when he might want to make you a gf.Stop playing the guess game and ask him. You might also want to tell him how you feel about him, and see how it goes.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (26 December 2012):
 How do you know that this guy is in love with you? Has he told you so himself? You say that he hasnt even asked you out yet and that's what you're waiting for, then how can you be sure that he loves you?
In any case, if you talk daily then you can always ask him sometime about how he feels about you. Does he consider you as a potential girlfriend or does he just see you as a friend? Take it from there.
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