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writes:my long distant Girlfriend of a year have been going great...when we are together we are so happy with each other, we had our bumps in the road but we always manage to work it out, but 3 weeks ago she was being moody for no reason but I found out it was her monthly thing at the same time I had my Grandma funeral which I felt like she needed to be there for me but eventually she came to her sense and help comfort me and talk to me everyday but now after my Grandma funeral 3 days she hasn't said a word to me...I ask my Sister to text her and my Girlfriend reply back to her saying she did text me but I honestly never got anything from her and she said she havent got anything from me either...she then told my Sister in her text that she dropped her phone in the rain and its been acting up, her phone does have problems but the weird thing is my Sister can text her but Girlfriend cant text me, I dont know what to believe, but I emailed and called my Girlfriend but she never picked up or respond back to my email I dont know what going on, her uncle did passed away during the same time maybe its affecting her...so I ask my Sister to text her again and she didnt even respond back to her...well Im thinking maybe she is afraid to hurt me and the only reason she was nice to me was because my Grandmother passed and now the funeral is over she is leaving, I dont know...I been trying to contact her but still nothing, what should I do or think? maybe she is upset and thought I was ignoring her when she didnt get my text when really I did...my Girlfriend has insecure issues and can be upset because of her past experience...I dont want to break up with her for no reason, I would atleast like to know what is going on? Im trying not to over re act and end up regretting it...let me know what you think?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (20 December 2012):
 I'm confused because your post lacks punctuation and is very hard to read. Let me see if I got it...
Your GF hasn't contacted you back, but responded to your sister. Then your GF's uncle died so that could be the reason she hasn't contacted you. She's currently not answering any contact from you or your sister.
I'd give her some time to process the death in her family and let her call you. You've ccontacted her a few times, so that's enough for right now.
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