A
female
age
26-29,
*athix
writes:Hello everybody :)First of all im really happy to have found this website because i realized i am not fully in control of my relationship problems.Here is my little story and my questions.I've been with this amazing guy in a long distance relationship since July 2012. I am finally old enough to actually have a chance of meeting him. I am getting so involved in his daily life, we are sharing almost everything that happens. Lately i've been involving myself emotionally so much i began being a little too sad. Too much of a cry baby so to say. He has been running through some problems and i can't help but feel away and useless.I listen to him and try to help with advice. I want to help even more but due to some personal problems i can't. All i have is my hard work which will allow me to get to him. And prefferably next summer. ( the only way being me working extremly hard to win a contest)This is one of the problems :i began stressing over everything,from lack of money to this weird idea in my head that since it's his first relationship he might not want to stick to it forever. Perhaps he would want to meet other people too, right? I know he loves me i feel it but i have this little tiny constant idea.Another one is that he is jealous i had a irl boyfriend before.And it kind of hurt me when he asked a little bit more about that.And he reminded me of that recently. How can i make him understand it is rather uncomfortable for me. I do understand he is curious and all but why would he care since i absolutely have no interest or bussiness with that guy anymore. And i certainly never compared him to anybody not even in my thoughts.Hmm something else would be oh of course: family. How in the world do i manage to go overseas to him, when my family would be like " How do you dare leave your relatives behind?" How do i overcome this?Thank you :) !
View related questions:
jealous, long distance, money Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (26 December 2012):
 You are 16/17
you say the only way you can go see him NEXT SUMMER is if you win a contest. THIS is NOT a PLAN. This is a hope and a dream.
I can tell you that probably by next summer you will be done with this LDR boy.
He's not a couple of hours away by car and you are still a teen and you've never met IRL.
personally I think it's nice to have friends online like this but I would not call him your boyfriend nor would I cut yourself off from local boys who may want to date you.
|
