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How can swingers so easily have sex with someone they don't love?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3269 days ago

30 June 2015 (M) - I hope this doesn't sound silly. I'm just curious. I know there are people that enjoy sex without love and those that can enjoy sex ONLY with love...or at least feelings for their partner. I'm just curious about swingers. Do you think they can ...

How can I resolve this problem? My trust in him has gone as I have a suspicion that my husband may have taken nude pictures of me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3397 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - In the past my husband has snapped pictures of me in the shower and changing. I told him to delete the pictures each time. I have told him he can't take nude pictures of me without my consent. This all started after we got married. Recently...

Am I nitpicking or are these various issues, such as her very bad breath, deal breakers in our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3436 days ago

30 June 2015 (M) - Hiya Agony Aunts. There are a few things that nag at me about this girl I just started dating, and I'm not sure why. As y'all are likely older and more experienced than I am, I'd like your perspective. We started dating about 3 or 4 week...

How do I let my husband know that he doesn't need to hide things from me? I'll always be there

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

29 June 2015 (F) - My husband of 15 years has been having some health issues lately. It all started suddenly. He was feeling tired and his energy levels were low. He went to see our GP and got home disappointed. Apparently she only gave him some basic blood tests and ...

I didn't care for g/f getting heavier but suddenly our sex life has become awesome. Have I conditioned myself to like her body?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3436 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - Hi. I'm in a bit of a strange place with my love life and wondered what people thought. I've been with my girlfriend for coming up to six years now, 3 of which we have lived together. I used to absolutely love her slim, toned figure but after we ...

My friend is heart broken and I don't know how to help her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3436 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - Hi , Its been one year since my best buddy has fallen love with her colleague.Beside that her colleague has a girlfriend with whom he wants to get married. She knows it but can't help getting depressed about it.Beside that her colleague tells ...

I know he's my ex. So should I be wanting to know all about his current life and what he's up to? How can I move on and not obsess like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - How do I stop being suspicious about what this girl is doing with my ex? My ex left me after a year, for another woman, 2 or 3 months back. It hurt me terrible and my ex stopped speaking to me over it. The thing is - I can't stop obsessing ove...

Are my reactions to his actions enough to call me clingy and obsessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Am I being paranoid and clingy? My bf of over a year and I recently got into a long-distance situation. Getting used to the distance has put considerable strain on our relationship as he is more extroverted than I am. He's always been a bit of a ba...

Things seemed fine, then he blocked me. Should I just continue on with my life, and if he ever returns then ''so be it''?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - I've been talking to this guy and we really hit it off. We went on a few dates and immediately had a connection. He met my family and they liked him and we planned for me to meet his family next. As we got closer, we talked about more serious thi...

Mismatched libido. I feel she thinks her needs are more important than mine. I need help. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

27 June 2015 (M) - My wife won't come on to me! We are the same age and for years we've only had sex once a month. I've always been the first one to initiate sex. If I don't initiate the sex we won't have sex. I've tried waiting patiently, I've tried explaining...

After sex: is it even normal to still cramping up for an extended time?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Okay im going to ask very bluntly about this. When I had sex with my finance and he layed me down an held my legs up while going in he kept hitting something that kinda felt uncomfortable like hurtish . After the sex I started getting cramps w...

I lost it. Smashed a glass coffee table top. Was I in the wrong for anything? What should I do in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Hey all... got a dilemma in my almost 3 year relationship. When I first met him I fell in head over heels love with him. We had the very best relationship that made people jealous seeing how happy we were together. Until months went by and I fo...

My beloved girlfriend died in a car accident. How do I move on from this? Would she be at peace with me moving on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

26 June 2015 (M) - Hello. I loved a girl who I was going to get married to very soon. Recently while on a trip with her mother. They met with a car accident on their return. Unfortunately it was a major accident and it led to her death on the spot and her mother...

Trust is an issue. How do I just be laid back and learn to let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3436 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - I'm struggling and trying really hard to trust my boyfriend. I am by nature a suspicious and paranoid person.. I don't really trust anyone and have never been in a relationship where I didn't snoop. My ex of 8 yrs used to laugh at me when I went ...

I just want someone to tell me if my feelings are justified?!! Or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and things have never been perfect from the start but I chose to ignore the first warning signs. We met years ago then lost contact and started talking online again 3 years ago, we decided ...

Advice on getting my lover back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

24 June 2015 (M) - Hey everyone, this is my very first post and I would like advice and tips on how to get a long term ex girlfriend back. My best-friend of 4 years, girlfriend of just over 2 broke up with me over a month ago and I would like to get back with he...

Is this stress I feel and the emotional shut-down I experience a normal reaction to the trauma of seeing my friend pass away in an accident when I was a child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3444 days ago

23 June 2015 (M) - I am from a small town. Many many years ago I was not old enough to go to school. I went with my mom to get my older brother. We picked him up and and were heading home. My brother's best friend used to ride his bicycle home everyday. My br...

Dating for three years and no sex despite my efforts to initiate! Why isn't he interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - Hi. I have a question about my relationship with my bf. We've been together for almost 3 yrs now and we rarely ever get sexually active. We haven't had sex yet. Neither one of us has had it before and when we try we don't get very far. He is 27 and ...

Would you date someone who was missing one of their hands?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

22 June 2015 (M) - My continued dating adventures have recently led me to confront this issue. Would you date someone who was missing one of their hands, and why or why not? I'm interested in all perspectives. ...

My boyfriend's parents aren't taking proper care of his little sister and I'm worried he may try to gain full custody of her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - Hey everyone, This isn't a typical dear cupid topic, but it's about my boyfriend and his relationship with his family so I guess it's something.. Anyway. My boyfriend(20) of 4 years is seriously considering contacting social services about...

Depressed and way behind the average 21-year-old. How do I fix my life/stop beating myself up over past mistakes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - [Mod note: user's own title] I've pretty much wasted my life from 16 to 21 (possibly all my life) largely due to issues from emotionally abusive family. Anyone know how to stop "mentally beating yourself up" over lost time, esp. when said procrast...

We've been having arguments over silly things. Is it frustration that could be causing me to get angry so quickly? But if his cousin speaks badly of me should he speak up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - Okay, so I haven't used my dear cupid a little bit over a year. I first got it when I was in 8th grade or a freshman; when I was in my first serious relationship. I had put some stories on how I was pregnant at 16 and so forth. Anyway's, ...

My friend says it's emotional blackmail. My mother says breakup with him. He's my first ''proper'' relationship. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3445 days ago

21 June 2015 (F) - So I've been in a relationship for 2 years, I just turned 17 and I have known him for goodness knows how long, we went to primary together and I know people say going out with you best friend never work but I genuinely thought we did, until the last ...

Will I get pregnant if we cuddle and bath together? Is it Ok to do such things before marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3445 days ago

21 June 2015 (F) - My bf agreed not to have sex before marriage but told me he is interested in doing things with me like covering my breasts with cream and then licking it off by himself,cuddling and bathing together. Is it okay to do such things before marriage...

How else do teens manage stress?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3446 days ago

20 June 2015 (F) - How else do teens manage stress? Being stressed isn't fun. It can be caused by a number of things from exams to hormones. However sometimes the bed thing to do is just let it go. Lie down on your bed and let the world go. Think about other things- ...

How do I approach her to resolve our dispute? What should I say or do? She and I fell out and have not spoken for a year

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3447 days ago

20 June 2015 (F) - hi! my bestfriend and I recently ended our year long silent war (ignoring each other) she was the one who came to me 1st. I really want to go back to the way things were before, but I don't know how to approach her. what should I do?...

Why did my husband react so strongly to my remarks? Is there more going on that I'm not seeing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3447 days ago

20 June 2015 (F) - My husband and I went to his brothers house for a small family cookout, and of course they were drinking. That was not a problem. My problem was that he was in the corner with his nephew and his nephew girlfriend and they were talking about going to...

Sibling rivalry? or self esteem issues? I appear not to matter to my parents

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

20 June 2015 (F) - I am not sure whether my question is about sibling rivalry or self esteem but here goes. I have always found life difficult, often feeling like I can never have long periods of happiness in even though I do try and remain positive. As much as pos...

Is my boyfriend obese?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3446 days ago

20 June 2015 (F) - I'm currently dating a 21 year old man who is 6 feet and two inches tall, and weight 123 kilograms. Is he obese? If he is, is there any problem in marrying this person?...

How can we save our relationship? He's controlling, has a temper, takes me for granted and he's not the man I fell in love with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3448 days ago

19 June 2015 (F) - Hey there, I hope this won't be too long but I'll give a little back-story. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and I used to be crazy about him. He was in the military for the first 3 years, then moved back home and found a job - it was our ...

What can I do about guys at work who are bullying me and treating me differently?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3448 days ago

18 June 2015 (F) - Im a black woman who is not mixed. I have an online job and white guys are bulllying me. They know what I look like and they refuse to answer questions directly from me instead they relegate a woman to do this task. Sometimes during n...

I think he's clear of drugs now, but what would be signs if he ever started using drugs again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

18 June 2015 (F) - Recently my BF of three years told me that he was a cocaine addict and has been drug free for over 20 years. I do not know what the long time effect of cocaine has on the system and are there things I should be aware of; possibly mood swings, ...

How can I provide appropriate support for my cousin who is autistic?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

18 June 2015 (M) - For once, this question is not about me! My cousin is 33, she's autistic and she is with this guy who takes her money and is working his way through her ISA's. She has lived with him for 3 or 4 years now, she doesn't have a key to the house, has t...

My husband does nothing all day, How should I approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

17 June 2015 (F) - I have been married to a great man for 11 years, he is a little older than I. He retired from work about 2 years ago. Ever since he retired, he has been home all day everyday not doing much of anything at all, except watch tv. I don't think it's...

What is a better option ? Freezing eggs now or wait for ivf with the right guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

16 June 2015 (F) - Hi I'm just trying to prepare for my future and I really want a baby in the next 5 years maximum no later than that. Having not met my soulmate yet im thinking is there any point to freeze my eggs now? Or i heard that ivf works great a few of m...

Am I justified in feeling really worried that this secret will get out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3452 days ago

15 June 2015 (F) - The other night I fooled around with this guy who has a gf and I feel so guilty. I don't even fancy him at all i was sooo drunk I know it's not an exuse but I never usually get that drunk and I'm absolutely disgusted in my self now and can't stop...

Do I just try to ride this out? Is it me who's causing him to change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3452 days ago

15 June 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has started a new business in the last 6 months.he works 5.30am to 9.00pm Monday to Friday with a bit of a break in the afternoon. And works half day Saturday. I understand that he's tired but in the last week or two he has become m...

I'm moving to a new city, but have depression and social anxiety, how do I make friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3452 days ago

15 June 2015 (F) - I'm self employed and earn enough to be able to move to my dream city soon. I'm really worried about making friends there though. I have good social skills but dropped out of uni a few years ago and have pretty much stayed at home working, with ze...

My husband is drinking again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3447 days ago

15 June 2015 (F) - My husband is at it again, I had gotten our grandkids for the weekend, he stays out all night Friday drinking, then blames it on me, just cause it is his family he feels he can do that, if Idid half the things he do to me he would be upset, iI'm ...

My husband doesn't want to move back home, are we headed towards a divorce?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3453 days ago

14 June 2015 (F) - My husband and I live apart and he does not plan to come back home. What is going on? Should we just get a divorce? It all started when my husband got out of the military and was in search of a job. His job took him overseas where he reside...

Am I being too harsh getting annoyed with my fiancé's bed-wetting and his behaviour when he is very drunk?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

13 June 2015 (F) - Am I just being over sensitive? My fiance and I do not go out very often, mainly due to finances, but he does get to go out more often than I do. I don't mind this as I am a bit more of a 'home' person. However there is something about his beha...

Had a weird dream. Does anyone know about dream interpretations?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

12 June 2015 (F) - Hello. Does anyone know about dream interpretations? I had dreamt about having sex with someone other than my boyfriend, and was really getting into it, then after it happened, my boyfriend was yelling outside drunk and ran to the guy to beat him...

He seems more interested in a stupid video game and getting high, I only get his attention when I offer something "sexy"!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

11 June 2015 (F) - Okay sooooo am i overreacting? Or has something seemed to happen. So this guy and i have been bestfriends or at least thats what i always thought thats what it was but he told me the other day that he just called me that cuz he was "in love" with ...

Dealing with body issues, advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

10 June 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, I could use some advice. I am a young woman who has been dealing with body issues. I was morbidly obese through out my entire teenage life. I was also diagnosed with a hormonal condition that makes me gain weight. Anyways, I am ve...

My dear friend's life is spiralling out of control. What is possible, out there, to support her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

10 June 2015 (F) - I have a close friend of 42 who is incredibly unhappy in her ten year relationship. She suffers with anxiety and depression caused by lack of intimacy with him and long term frustration. I dont know how to support her anymore. They stay toge...

Are we just wasting our time by staying together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

10 June 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, Let me start by saying I love my man. Love him, very much in love with him, and I don't doubt he has the same feelings towards me. We just don't have sex, which hurts on so many levels. Allow me to offer some background infor...

What can I do about feeling so confused? I think I've outgrown my partner.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

9 June 2015 (F) - I need some opinions on my relationship of about a year and a half. I used to adore my partner but now I just care for him more as a friend. He seems lazy and slobbish lately, which of course makes me feel terrible but it also makes me want more...

How can people in the UK locate care places for elderly persons with alzheimer's disease, if they have no money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

9 June 2015 (F) - hi im really worried about my mother in law. I think she may have alzheimer's disease and but hope to find out soon. she is very hard to look after. my partner and myself are always round there for a few hours each day as she lives alone and ca...

She's asked me twice to take her to the hospital, but something doesn't seem right!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

9 June 2015 (M) - So this girl I've know for a couple of months has asked me to take her to the hospital now twice in a span of about 4 to 6 weeks. She'll kik me out of the blue telling me to take her but then apparently she turns her phone off because my messages ...

I need help leaving this married man. I just can't do it!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

8 June 2015 (F) - I have been here many times before. I am the loser who is in love with a married man. I know I need to leave but I just can't find it in myself to do it. I know he doesn't love me. He told me. And he told me he will never love me. I have ...