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writes:hi! my bestfriend and I recently ended our year long silent war (ignoring each other) she was the one who came to me 1st. I really want to go back to the way things were before, but I don't know how to approach her. what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2015): Reconciliations and reunions make me happier than anything that can happen between two people who had a falling-out.
You were apart for a year, so you've grown a little over this time. You may not be able to just pick-up where you left-off. So don't try.
I recommend you go over, just tell her how much you've missed her; and how sorry you are that anything ever came between you. Tell her you love her, and give her the warmest and longest hug your heart can give. Less spoken of the past the better. You're starting fresh, and it's like a brand new friendship. The old friendship died with the disagreement. You're looking forward, don't look back.
Good luck, my dear!
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (20 June 2015):
 "I'm so happy you came to me first and I really want to go back to the way things were before, but I don't know how to talk to you about it. Can we talk and renew our friendship? I missed you so much and I want us to be friends again! I'm looking forward to seeing you! :)"
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (20 June 2015):
 You print out a copy of this submittal... then walk over to her place.... knock on the door... and when she answers, show this to her..... give her a hug, and say: "you know, Sister, I am SOOOOO glad that you had balls enough to re-open the door between us... because, I swear, I'm so dumb I would have let us stay apart and fume, FOREVER.... Thanks"....
That should get the wheels rolling again...
Good luck..
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