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writes:Okay sooooo am i overreacting? Or has something seemed to happen. So this guy and i have been bestfriends or at least thats what i always thought thats what it was but he told me the other day that he just called me that cuz he was "in love" with me.and didnt want to scare me. Well we started dating a while back and things were amazing at first. He was super sweet super silly. Would always argue i love you mores. But lately it seems like hes more interested in a stupid video game and getting high then anything else. Seems like only time i can get his attention is if i offer something "sexy". Ive tried explaining to him how i feel and he says im making a big deal out of nothing so my big question is am i? Or has something happened to our relationship. Weve became engaged and im just scared hell end up leaving cuz im "high maintenance" help please...
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (12 June 2015):
 You're engaged to a worthless junkie drug addict and you're scared that HE'LL leave you?!
Now I've heard everything!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2015): YOU'RE ENGAGED!!! Seriously?!!
To an immature video-junky pothead???
How many red-flags have to go up before you notice them! You're stumbling over deal-breakers like a blind-goat in a mine field! You're too young to get married on top of that; or you'd make better choices!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (11 June 2015):
 Perhaps it would be helpful if you understood that, when a guy sez he is "in love" with a girl... MUCH of what that means is: "I like to have s*x with you...."
Now, that that has calmed down... YOU are expecting him to behave as if he is "in love" with you.... BUT he doesn't understand that.... and thinks that you are content to put out for him.... as you did previously....
A marriage isn't going to change a darn thing... but WILL make it more difficult to get away from this cretin....
Think twice before you proceed...
Good luck...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (11 June 2015):
 You are scared that HE might leave? Seriously? He is just having you around for the sex... You are not even a priority, gaming and drugs are more important..
Honey, why would you get engaged to this guy? Are you either desperate for a mate OR do you think marriage will change him some how OR LOVE will change him?
You are too young to settle for this kind of crappy onesided relationships.
YOU are not getting much out of this relationship SO why stay?
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