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writes:Okay im going to ask very bluntly about this.When I had sex with my finance and he layed me down an held my legs up while going in he kept hitting something that kinda felt uncomfortable like hurtish . After the sex I started getting cramps where he hit at yes I did cum a lot but I dont understand.What did he hit that made me cramp up an feel uncomfortable . ?? Is it even normal to still cramping up for an extended time?. Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 June 2015):
 When you're on your back and he holds up your legs, he thrusts deep. It's a position that allows for about as deep thrusts as you can get (depending on the shape of the penis). Often, if a man is a bit too long for you, it will hit too far back, thus hurting. You just got to tell him that that position doesn't work for you. At least go slow if you're in that position and it feels uncomfortable. Going slow allows him to control his thrusts more, so that he doesn't go too far in.
Cramps are normal. Often, women experience cramping after their first time having intercourse, for the exact same reason: they've been "bumped" somewhere that's not used to it.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (27 June 2015):
 He probably hit your cervix. THAT can be rather painful, and something he NEEDS to hold back with he is NOT drilling for oil.
IF your fiance does something that is "hurtish" (as you call it) while having sex, why not tell him, hey that is NOT pleasurable for me..?
I think the combination of pounding on the cervix and the orgasms made your uterus cramp.
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