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How do I fight to keep this woman in my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

27 January 2015 (M) - She was married to her second husband for 18 years. She loved him deeply. She is a sensitive woman whom loves with all her heart. During their union, she had a rare liver disease and underwent 2 liver transplants. The first was rejected. Afterwards, ...

He went from being a jerk to Prince Charming overnight.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Me and my guy live together for about a year. However I was thinking about moving out because We never do anything special and we never go anywhere. In fact it's usually always on his terms on what he wants to do and even when we argue he needs to ...

In a new country for 6 more months and I still don't have friends, how do I combat this loneliness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Hello all! I'd like to introduce myself as a current exchange student in Toronto and I have been here for over 6 months. In 2015 I have found myself without any friends in this city and it's daunting. I have recently overcome an addiction to cocaine ...

Sex has become a no go!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Been with my boyf a year and a half. Everything is great. I love him dearly we live together after recently buying out first home and plan to get married next year. Our only issue ... Sex! For approx the first year of our relationship we ...

Could he like me, or do you think it is something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3592 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Okay, so to begin with I better explain my situation. I have anxiety disorder, and it is mainly social anxiety and this means that sometimes I just can't do something. Like I just physically can not do it. I'm not meant to force myself to do ...

How do you get your confidence back after being in a bad relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I went out with my friends last night and ended up taking some guy home. I've never really liked one night stands and I don't know what I was thinking doing it. I'm feeling pretty bad about myself and kind of like a slut. But on top of that I ha...

My boyfriend doesn't understand that clinginess turns me off!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Hey, so, I've been having doubts about my current relationship. We met on a dating website 5 months ago, and started dating 3 days after we met... In all honesty, I only accepted going out with him because we had sex, and I then felt obligated to. ...

Is it normal to be a female and have male features?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - Hey, so this is more of a confusing self esteem question. It might be that I am over thinking or I really do have a problem. I have features that make me feel as if I were meant to be a boy,but I am a female. I have a vagina, but really small ...

My boyfriend wont be physical with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3594 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - I'm losing all my confidence because my boyfriend never wants to be physical he says that's just how he is, I'm so miserable but I don't want to leave him I'm 8 months pregnant he says he will try more but I feel like it's just pitiness so I tell ...

Does it mean that I have low self-esteem because I'm more concerned about his feelings than my own?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - I am very attractive, but I think I have low self esteem. This guy I like has rejected me several times. It started a few years back when he told me that he was separated, but wanted to pursue a friendship with me. Since, then we have dated off and ...

Its a very delicate subject ......

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - I have a problem with my mother in law who likes to sit on my husbands lap for photos - not every time but just when she feels like it that is what she does. She just gets up off a chair and sits on their lap and this seems 'normal' to them but not ...

Am I wasting my time trying to change him?`

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - I work in a clinical setting and I like to be organised,clean and tidy. My boyfriend of a year is scruffy and doesn't make himself tidy or presentable to see me. He works on his car and house a lot. We talked and csne up with a compromise. In ...

I need a break from him but we live together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - I need space from my boyfriend, but we live together. We've been together over 4 years and moved in together almost a year ago. For the first time in a while, I worked some overtime over the past weekend and have had to work a little later than ...

Should I spend all my money to move out (and become broke), or wait for my dad to give me money?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - I want to thank everyone here that adviced me in the past. I was previously anonema but forgot my password so I had to create a new account. Your words really made me take a different approach towards handling certain situations in my life. I have...

How do I let my boyfriend know that I like it when he looks and dresses a certain way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - I am dating a guy I am not physically attracted to. We were friends for years but lost touch. Eventually we got back in touch recently and he asked me out. I said yes because he is a great guy-sweet, kind, caring, warm etc. I actually can not say ...

Marriage woes after 2nd baby

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

22 January 2015 (F) - Dear People, I would like some advice on some marriage problems I am facing, which have peaked since having my 2nd baby, 3 weeks ago. I am recovering from a brutal c-section - my second - and still in immense pain. Husbamd is generally a goo...

Where do I find the strength to support my girlfriend through her life-altering operation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3597 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - I am needing advice and thoughts on a situation with my partner and I. I am a gay woman in a serious relationship. My partner and I have a wonderful relationship where we are both extremely happy together, have no issues with trust, and are ...

Any advice on how to stop moping around and feeling hopeless?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3597 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - I'm going through a really difficult emotional time in my life. When I'm outside, I'm fine, I'm productive. But when I'm home, I lose the drive, energy and just contemplate on my problems. It's not helping because it makes me sad, torn, confused ...

He was in a FWB a few years ago with an older woman. How can I get over my disgust at what he did in the past?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - My 27-year-old boyfriend went through a really rough time in his life a few years ago, which led him to make a huge mistake. He let this woman (10-15 years older than him) to throw herself at him and spend money on him just so that she could have ...

Is it time to break-up? My Gf is always sad. But now her depression is affecting me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

21 January 2015 (M) - Let me start out by saying my girlfriend is depressed, I believe. And it is staying on me. A little background on me that may be relevant is that I am a 20 year old engineering student. I am a relatively level headed person. Basically on a ...

My boyfriend is ruining our relationship with video games. How do I get him to stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 7months, and we are in a long distance relationship. We see each other for 2 weeks a month, so we get to see each other as much as we can. Things were going fine, but he is very addicted to video games, and he's 27 ...

My boyfriend is struggling with depression and it's putting a strain on our relationship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. For about a week and a half my boyfriend has been experiencing depression. He's lost all motivation to do anything, has lost all interest in things that he was originally interested in and says he's just been ...

Is my girlfriend out of line in her comments about mental illness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - I've been with my girlfriend 2 and a half years and honestly some of the things she does and says take the absolute biscuit. Yesterday we were speaking about mental illness, I have confided in her before and gotten the same reaction, in my ...

How do I pick myself up? I've been through a lot and am facing an operation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - Hi there I have only posted in here once before. But I need help again as i don't know what to do. My last post related to my ex husband and me leaving him. Well I did eventually do that, but now I want him back.....WHAT you must be thinking...

Can my girlfriend overcome her troubled past enough for me to learn to trust her again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

19 January 2015 (M) - To give a quick run down on the situation, my girlfriend of now over 6 years and I have been through some horrible times. I will preface this by apologizing for the length of this, there was a lot to say! Firstly let me give you the ru...

My beautiful little dog just died and I feel lost

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

18 January 2015 (M) - Hello, My little dog died last January 9th and I feel terrible, guilty and extremely lost. I really need some help because I feel terrible and I don't know how I am going to get over this situation. I try to rescue stray dogs to then find them a ...

I went to club to just have a good time, still guys look at me wrongly.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - I went to a nightclub last night. I had a really awesome time with my girl friends. But all of a sudden our enjoyment got lessend due to guys coming and approching us. The guy who approched me took me to his circle of friends and it was three guy...

Alternative to engagement rings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - Hello everyone, so I have been with my boyfriend for some years now and we have talked about marriage. He has already asked me if I would like to marry him (he's asked several times). I said yes each time except once (as a joke because he already ...

My girlfriend misses her friends and family but I don't want her to leave.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

17 January 2015 (M) - I've been with my gf for four years and i love her alot. I'm 31 and she's 26 I met her when she came to my city to see her dad and she decided to stay to be with me which is what i wanted too. We have a difficult relationship - she misses her ...

Scared to tell her I really love her. But if she sees me as just a friend then how will I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3602 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - Okay, so I am one of those people who try all time not to catch feelings for people, because I know how it can hurt, but I can never see when its coming. Well, I have this friend on a social network, and I've never met her in Real Life, but I kn...

I'm already shaky and nervous about meeting his family, shouId I tell him I can't go or push myself to get over my nerves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3602 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriends sister and I have never got on. We knew each other at school and we just never clicked. I have known her since I was about 6-7 so I know that we won't just become best friends suddenly. I have accepted how close she is to my boyfriend, ...

My fiancee seems to not try to impress me anymore or even bother having sex with me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3601 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - Im getting married in a year and a half to my fiancee. We have an 8 year age gap and I love him very much. With the past month though I feel I am cracking up.I'm not sure am I just over thinking or what but I feel he is letting me down alot. It all ...

I can't get myself to study, about to fail, help everyone !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

15 January 2015 (F) - Hello everyone, before I start talking about my problem I would like to thank you for taking time to read this and answer me. I’m a medical student, which has always been my dream since I was 5 years old. Always being that straight A’s sma...

Whats the point in talking at all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

15 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend hates conflict and talking about "stuff" that might involve emotion. We used to go through a "talk" once a week when I suffered from anxiety. It would end up me crying and him really angry because he said he always felt as though ...

Her lack of sexual desire has me wondering if I should break up with her.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

13 January 2015 (M) - So Ive been with this girl for over 2 years now and nearly everything is great with her. We moved in together 6 months ago and we still get on really well and I love her very much the problem is her lackof sexual desire. She has admitted she no ...

My boyfriend has shut me out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

13 January 2015 (F) - My bf has been sleeping in the spare room for a few days and he's shutting me out ,I feel so alone ,he is dealing with a berivement his uncle died ,we live far away from his family and friends and I know he wants to be there am I being selfish I'm ...

I feel like my father's verbal punching bag. So how can I get through this? Still saving to leave home.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

12 January 2015 (F) - I'm 20 and I'm stuck in a situation where I've been emotionally abused by my dad for a few years now, even though it's not that he wants me out of the house, he just uses me as a verbal punching bag every other day. It just comes naturally to him...

Have the tingling of I new outbreak. Could I have infected him due to oral sex we had last night?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

12 January 2015 (F) - Ok I woke up this morning with the familiar tingling pulse of a cold sore. I've always gotten cold sores but much less frequently as an adult. My boyfriend has never ever had one. Any way my predicament is that I performed oral sex on my boyfri...

What can I do about my insecurities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

12 January 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, just would like some advice about the situatuon im in basicly me and my bf have been together 3 years and becausr of my insecurities I feel like im ruining the relationship a little as I dont feel goid enough. I no alot of people have ...

My jealousy and paranoia will ruin the relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

12 January 2015 (F) - Hello. Maybe I am just crazy but here is my dilemma.... My boyfriend works with all women and his clients are all women. How do I ever get over my insecurity of these women? I know he wants me and needs me. And he isn't looking for anyo...

He says I leave him stressed and sad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3607 days ago

11 January 2015 (F) - Of late my boyfriend have been complaining that i am a bitter person and i carry so much negativity around him that i do not make him happy anymore.He says that when i see him i leave him stressed and sad.What should i do to change that i do not ...

Recently broke up. He has health issues. He's retreating more into his "man cave". Any suggestions on what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

11 January 2015 (F) - Hi there, my ex boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me for the second time. We were in an overly committed relationship. He has a couple of mental conditions on his hands that he hasn't dealt with before the start of our relationship tha...

Its only been five months but he is pushing me to move in

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

10 January 2015 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. I am 32 and he is 37. Both of us never been married without children. He is being kind of pushy lately about us progressing forward. Meaning wanting to move in together, looking for rings, and talking ...

I don't think my teacher likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

10 January 2015 (F) - Back in September, I began a beauty course at a community college. I do enjoy it, but it has become apparant that the teacher dislikes me. I thought perhaps I was being over sensitive, but my classmates have noticed the way she speaks to me with ...

It seems that everything I do is pointless

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

7 January 2015 (M) - I am not okay with myself. I've been told to be positive and that the situation I am in is not the end of the world by many people but it doesn't help. My Mother and family tear me down at every chance about how much of a failure I am and ask how am ...

My boss is verbally abusive, but I really need my job

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

6 January 2015 (F) - My boss is verbally abusive towards me during my training/probation period. We had a conversation about me not taking my lunch break, and I wanted to know if I will be paid for it. She stated no, and I asked her if I could leave early to compensate ...

How do I tell my dad I am pregnant?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

6 January 2015 (F) - This isn't a relationship question but I was hoping someone might be able to give me some advice. I'm 17 yrs. old and a senior in High school. Over the weekend I found out I was pregnant. I live with my father, my parents divorce was I was 9 and ...

I still feel there's something he is hiding. Was his reaction normal after my accusation of infidelity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3612 days ago

5 January 2015 (F) - Married for 14 yrs..we have 2 kids.. I love my husband and I want to grow old with him. He loves me too and he loves our kids and family. Yet he has cheated on me in the past with escorts.I forgave him but never forgot. Everything was going smoo...

Hurt by snide comments. Been losing my cool lately over the slightest things. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

5 January 2015 (F) - Hello all, I need some advice I have been losing my cool lately over the slightest things. I live with my boyfriend and his family at his parents home. his parents are alcoholics and argue and yell often and the house is almost always a mess....

My first love was an online facebook crush. But now, depressed, I'm having trouble forgetting him. How can I get over him and concentrate on my real life new boyfriend? .

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

5 January 2015 (F) - i am a 19 year old girl. I'm in a relationship with a guy for one year. I'm not able to forget my first love which was on facebook.that guy used to flirt with which i took seriously we were friends for three years . when i confronted him he said...