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writes:Okay, so to begin with I better explain my situation.I have anxiety disorder, and it is mainly social anxiety and this means that sometimes I just can't do something. Like I just physically can not do it.I'm not meant to force myself to do anything as it can lead to me having panic attacks. Which means that I won't be able to say or text anything that may lead to people taking the piss or being really nasty. Sometimes it's something stupid, for instance I couldn't ask someone to be removed from a control assessment so I just sat there and had a panic attack.Anyway, there is this boy in my year...He's sometimes really nasty to me, and has actually caused one of my panic attacks before - as when someone says something, I get really upset and anxious that it means something deeper and it makes me have a panic attack - as he sits in front of me in Chemistry (which was have on a rota kind of thing) , and when I say something to the person next to me, he sometimes glares at me and has occasionally mocked me when I got an answer wrong. Now we have moved onto Human Biology and I don't sit near him, but I had a panic attack at the end of the lesson and he looked at me, almost like he was concerned? He has a bus to catch so obviously he walked out the room, but he looked kind of scared. I know that most people are scared when someone is crying and can't breath but he looked like he actually cared and he hasn't ever been like that before. But the real weird thing started last week. We are both in Year 11 - and we both took French. We are sat in tables and his table is diagonally across the room from mine and if I turn my head slightly, I can see him. I've caught him looking at me numerous times in each lesson (we have two a week) and when I look at him, he looks away. I don't know, it could be something stupid but I just wanted other opinions on the matter. He really has to turn his head to see me though, because I'm at like a 50 degree angle from himSo I don't really know what to think. Do you guys think he likes me? Or something else?Thank you in advance for your replies and I'm sorry this is so long xx -ChestnutHorse1
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reader, Midnight Shadow +, writes (27 January 2015):
 50 degrees isn't much of a head turn. Maybe seeing you have a panic attack (been there) just made him unsure about you and he probably doesn't understand anxiety disorder, so it's confusing to him.
He may or may not like you, but you'd have to see a cognitive behavioural therapist and doctor, to ease your anxiety disorder, before trying to date anybody :)
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