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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

My story of how karma really can bite you. And why empathy is important in relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Well basically I am 14 years old and i would like to share a story which really really changed my way that I view the world and why you shouldn't take people for granted. All names included in this stroy are made up ones. I had a friend n...

Its been 5 years and I'm still not over my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - After 5 years I am still not over my ex. I miss her like nothing else and it's eating me alive: I have had heavy depressions over this. She was the womkan of my dreams. We always stayed somewhat in contact until a year ago I cut of all contact: ...

No more erections!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - For emotional reasons, I believe it's best that I stop having sex. I'm wondering if there are any techniques that can train you to never have an erection again, like pinching your skin very hard each time you get an erection. Would there be an...

Bed bug problem! My boyfriend doesn't believe he has them even though I get bitten!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I have a unique problem. My bf wont support me on bed bug problem and its causing great strain. I mistakenly bought a used mattress a little while back and i started getting bitten all over. I sanitized everything in my place but then I think one ...

Is it normal to urinate in the bath and shower?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - How many people urinate in their bath or shower? My boyfriend says everyone does and expects me to trust him if we bathe together. What shall I do?...

Anyone have experience with erections barely sufficient to achieve vaginal penetration?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Has anyone been with a guy aged about 36 who at best could achieve only a "fat soft" barely sufficient to manage vaginal penetration on a regular basis?...

Can anyone advise on what we are doing wrong and how to get back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Hi All, I am in dyer straits... I feel I have no where to turn to or have a shoulder to cry on... I have been with my husband since I am 17. We are together a total of 11 years and married for 3.5 years. He lost his mother to cancer at a young age ...

Why do guys find it easy to orgasm, but many women never do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - You always read about women having problems with this. Yet never any guys. Why is this? Is it because it's more taboo if a women does?...

I feel like I am taking 2nd place to his smoking weed habit. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend used to be a heavy pot smoker (i'm talking daily) and and gave it up for about 7 months as he knows im not comfortable with it. However, about 3 months ago he relapsed but i only found out as I caught him lying. Since then he has said ...

I want a baby but my bf wants to first better financial situation. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Im 16 and lost twins 4 months and i was 5 months pregnant, it was the hardest thing ive ever had to go throu but my boyfriend was really supportive. after just getting sorted about forgetting loosing my twins ive started to really want another baby ...

Irregular periods are making me nervous about having children in the future, what should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Just want some readers opinions on this. I've been tracking my menstrual cycle and in this year alone (2011), ive so far had 6 periods. Obviously this is different to the 'typical' woman who may have 1 every month or so. It's making me nervo...

Do I confront, support him, or walk away? My married lover confided he has started meeting men for sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I need some support! I have had a relationship with a married man for many many years we are very very good friends and occasionally we have sex too which is like the icing on the cake. His wife is sick with MS so please dont criticise me for see...

Trying for a baby and nothing the doctors are doing is working...advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I really want to have a baby. I have been with my boyfriend now for 2 years and I have had no luck. I did have an unsuccessful pregnancy in the past with a previous boyfriend. I was pregnant with twin girls for 5 months and had to deliever them ...

My boyfriend is abusive. Help, what do I do? Because I'm falling hard for my boyfriend's brother.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Ok. I am in a situation that I really badly need help with. I have been dating my current boyfriend for 2 years now off and on. The first year was terrible. I always caught him talking to his ex girlfriend. He was telling her he loved her and that...

He's cheated on me over 12 times and gave me a STD. How do I cope with my hurt and the feeling he's going to do it again and soon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I've been with the same guy for 4 years we have a baby together but in the past 2 years he cheated on me over 12 times. One of the times he gave me an std I found out from his sisters friend because he gave it to her as well. Another time a girl ...

Can someone give me some techniques to just accept compliments with good grace and not feel so undeserving and overwhelmed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I have a really difficult time accepting compliments, and people think I'm stuck up because of it or I seek attention - but really with anything, grades, comments from a professor regarding a great paper I wrote - it all overwhelms me so much and ...

How do people cope with multiple family pressures and still cope? Where does one go to for helpd?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - After rewriting this 5 times I've just decided to be blunt. I'm feeling really down. It's been gradually progressing for a while now, starting off when I lost my nan 4 years ago. I was really close to her and I was devastated but I've never been...

I only lied to avoid a fight. She's aggressive and doesn't trust me. Should I break if off with her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I'm an insurance agent by trade and I sat down with one of my girlfriends friends. I sold her a policy. But recently my girlfriend called her up, and asked her if anything is going on between us. I think it's inappropriate, along with her constan...

Birth Control pills to control Period. Opinions please?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I've recently decided to go on the pill, not for sexual reasons, but because the pain of periods is unbearable, and I'm always such a mean, cranky person when I'm on my period! I want to get something to either reduce or get rid of (4 periods a year ...

Is something changing in me? Am I losing my girlfriend? What is wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - I am in love with my girlfriend and I can't imagine life without her, but recently I have been noticing another girl, whom I declared to be one of the most beautiful girls I had ever seen many times but never actually felt anything over her. However ...

How do I get peace of mind about my friendships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I realize that this question might be dificult to asnwer but thanks if you can. I am really a caring person and don't ever want anyone to feel the way I feel, but sometimes I feel all alone in the world. A series of people who I really liked a...

I love my B/f, but is it enough when you feel you're a burden to the person you love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - ok, ive been with my bf for 3 years. First off we are complete opposites. he works alot and is very social and outgoing whereas i work part time because of my health (doctors dont know what i have, i have headaches 24/7 for 14 years now) so after ...

Has anyone tried HCG diet drops?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I am wanting to try the HCG diet drops. I was wondering if anyone has tried them before? did they work? where is the best place to get them? I want to get as much information as I can because it seems to be really good....

How effective is a condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Hey everyone just want to know how effective Condoms are? I have recently had the implant in my upper arm removed after 3 years im getting it back in soon, But just for the time being is it ok to use condoms ? Any advice is very grateful thank ...

Pierced tongue and oral sex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4778 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I got my tongue pierced about 2 and a half weeks ago. I didn't get it for the reason that most people assume (oral sex) but rather because I've wanted it forever and love the way it looks (I've already gotten it pierced and I'm not really interested ...

My g/f wants to diet but I'm afraid she'll go back to old ways of binging and purging

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - My fiance is becoming increasingly unhappy with her weight. She isn't fat at all, but she thinks she is. She is 5'11" and weighs 140lbs. She's actually quite slender. But tonight she had a really bad break down about it and decided to start a ...

I'm obsessed with my boyfriend's ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - i started dating my current (and first) boyfriend 7 months ago and everything's great - we love each other a lot, rarely fight, etc. issues started coming up however when i found out that he lied about several random and unimportant thin...

Do you think he could have cheated on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

28 November 2011 (?) - hey everyone I have bi polar disorder and depression and anxiety issues and paranoia...(yeah I know its a big nice gift right?) anyways...I am engaged to my fiance (obviously thats why hes my fiance lol) but lets see...a few months back I found a ...

Spotting before my period is due and definitely not pregnant....is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I have been on the pill for 10 months, never missed a pill, take it at the same time to the minute, but every month before my period is due, i have brown spotting and then my period follows as normal. i have been to the doctors and they advised to ...

I'm still living with the "ugly-younger-me" mentality even though I've now grown to be this gorgeous woman.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

28 November 2011 (?) - I have serious body image issues. It all spawned from chronic low self esteem, depression, etc... I used to be fat and ugly and guys and girls would bully me over it.. Until one day I blossomed, and I'm what people call "gorgeous" but I genuinely do ...

My wife called me weird for shaving my pubes. I would like to try some new things. I am incompatible with my wife.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - Hi, I am a male, 51, married with 2 children (early teens). I am a late developer sexually (I have a tumor of the pituitary gland which slowed me down for years - it was not discovered until I was early 30's although it had been there for many y...

I left him because he was depressed and unfaithful. Now he wants me back...what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I recently brokeup with my boyfriend of 2.5 years. Actually this is our second breakup because last year I ended things when it felt like he really just didn't want to be with me anymore. But to my surprise he said he felt the exact opposite and ...

Is this just mild, controlling behavior or something else?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

27 November 2011 (?) - My bf of 2 years is really a sweet guy but he has this very mild, controlling behavior...For instance, if I ask him if we can get something to eat he will say "no, we just ate" or "no, have patience." At a restaurant, he controls what I eat and ...

My boyfriend has trouble staying hard, how do I help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - My bf, which I have been with 4 months now, has trouble staying hard when we have sex. Most times he will get hard for a few seconds but at that point I am not wet yet so I have to get lube and by the time I lubed him up it just goes away. We tried ...

Is it normal to be depressed when I can't see my boyfriend and friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - I always feel sad when im not with my boyfriend and want to be with him all the time, ive just hurt my foot and been on crutches for the last week (im off them now) but i couldnt get around as much or get go anywhere without my friends, so i didnt ...

I want to go to the gym but there are too many guys and I'm afraid they will stare at me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - dear cupid, i have really been wanting to go to the gym so many times its not far from where i stay and though there are not so many equipments a few of the ones i need are there but my only problem is that im shy the gym is mostly attended...

What is wrong? I feel I'm closing myself off from others. I can not understand why this is happening.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - I just don't know what's wrong with me.For a while now,I've felt so down,tired and so very,very sad.There's no reason for it,nothing's happened to me.I'm just so sad. I feel like closing myself off to everyone and just disappearing into my own worl...

I love him. How do I cope with him? Or even move on from my married boy friend, who cheated on me, AGAIN?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - hello aunts, i am still obsessed with my married boy friend who cheated on me 3 months ago. Since then i have been living in tears as i love him so much. I know he is bad, but i cannot make up my mind. He cheated on me even before and i forgave ...

Is it just sex to him? Or does my ex really want us back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - my exbf broke up with me 3 months ago. Tuseday morning he sent me a message said he wanted to talk and apologize, and he insisted he's not drunk. so we went out and grab some coffee that night. and he apologized to me about what he did before a...

Inside, I identify myself as a woman-I'm confused! How can I find someone who understands me as I really am?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

26 November 2011 (M) - Ok so new at this. Not sure if this question qualifies for this site but here goes anyways. Basically I'm 34 years old and on the inside I Identify as female. So transgender I guess. When I was younger I ad lots of accepting friends. Long blond hair ...

I wanted to ask his advice on getting a tattoo. But he didn't want to know. Is he just being mean to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - So I've been talking to this guy and everything seemed Like it was going good until today . I texted him and told him I was watching this movie and he said lol I have fun and then I told him it's weird and I need his help he said wish I could ...

I've been a supportive husband to my EXTREMELY accident-prone wife-what are my options in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - In 15 years of marriage,( second marriage for both of us ), my wife has been sick or injured more times than I can count. Car wrecks, falling down stairs, back injuries, broken legs, hips, collar bones, arms, wrists, and even a concusion that res...

Advice on surrogacy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - My wife no longer has her womb, but still has fertile eggs. She has three children from a previous marriage. I have no children and so much want one child. We are not rich or anything, and have researched surrogacy. Are there any agencies or ...

Health problems and being teased about it. Please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - This is not a question about love or anything but I could use the help. Sorry for the length of it in advance but please!! When I was little my bestfriend’s brother had this friend who was horrible, he always picked on me because I have red hair ...

How can I best support her? She says she feels smothered. Now she only wants companionship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - I'm a 56 year old male in a relationship with a 54 year old divorced women. She was raped repeatedly when she was 15 , by her step father. She also suffered other trauma through the years. Ex husband hit her with a belt, ex boy friend infected...

Want to take pride in being myself and increasing my self esteem. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - I have had self esteem issues since the age of about 12, and even though they have improved i still get so down about them and convince myself alot of the time "i'm not good enough". It doesn't really help that there are few people in my life who do ...

Why do I feel so depressed and sick at times? What can I do to overcome this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - please help any advice or if you know why im feeling like this etc, but i have had drepression on and off and this year felt worse to the point of going to the doctor and i now see a counsellor which is good. im not working and living at home but i ...

Finally decided to take control over my health but people around me are not helping!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I was wondering if you could help with with an issue I have been having. I have finally decided to take control over my health, and wish to start eating much better, exercising, with the goal of getting fitter and losing weight. ...

I am so scared to see him, I feel like I look even worse than I did when he left!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4784 days ago

22 November 2011 (?) - Hey everyone, so the guy who I've had a thing with for awhile, a very long while actually(two years almost), is coming home from college for the week. I wanna see him so bad, but at the same time I don't...I'm not good enough for him and it hurts me...

Does the contraceptive jab protect from STI's, does it hurt and should I tell my mum I'm having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - i have asked my mum to book me an appointment and she has...the appointment was for me to get the contraception impact done. I am having in up in my arm on thursday, but my mum asked why i wanted it :\ i said to her that i cant handle having periods ...