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writes: Hey everyone,so the guy who I've had a thing with for awhile, a very long while actually(two years almost), is coming home from college for the week. I wanna see him so bad, but at the same time I don't...I'm not good enough for him and it hurts me so bad. We would be officially together, but I said no. Only because I know he could do better and I don't want him to be stuck with me. Anyways, I am so scared to see him, I feel like I look even worse than I did when he left. I thought since he was going to be so faraway for college, we'd stop talking so much and I'd be forced to lose my feelings, but we still talk everyday and I still like him just as much as I did.. I don't really know what I'm asking for here, basically do you think I should see him? Sorry for the rant...feels good to talk about it finally.Here's the [other] issue...soo this guy is coming home from college in like a day. we usually text everyday and he's been counting down and telling me how many days it is until he comes home, but now he hasn't texted me for like four days and he comes home tomorrow...and we're suppose to see each other. God, I miss him...why isn't he textiing me anymore? does he actually not wanna see me, even though he's been so excited up until now.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (23 November 2011):
 oh honey, you are only as bad as you think you are
HE asked to be with you and you said no because YOU think he deserves better.. what he can't make his own choice?
you are so great and powerful you KNOW what he wants and needs better than he does???
not only should you see him you should tell him how you feel that you think your not worthy...
stop hiding behind "I'm not good enough for him" and live a little.
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