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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

I'm so scared! I don't want to be a lesbian, but I'm not sure if I am one or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - i think i might have HOCD (homosexual ocd). im so scared of being a lesbian. i would rather die. i just recently got over my hocd when i found a MALE crush. ive never had a crush on a girl. im not romantically attracted to them. however, ive known ...

5 year relationship, I don't think she's who I thought she was

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - i have been in a 5 year LDR relationship with my girlfriend and am starting to have doubts about whether or not we should stay together. We met only get to see each other every few months, so it took me a while to get to know her. She is a great ...

Should I even be considering getting into a LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - Aunties! It has been over a year since my last post on here. It has been a great year of finding myself. Been single for well over a year have dated a couple of guys but nothing serious. As the old year comes to its closure and the new year is ...

Disturbed by my pedophillic urges, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm on the upper end of 16-17. I'm a pretty screwed up person in general... but I'm going to ask about one problem on this occasion. Should I be disturbed by pedophiliac urges? Yes, okay I probably should be... stupid question. I would ...

I'm a lesbian left with a broken heart... and I just came out to my parents I NEED HELP PLEASE!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - two years ago i met this amazing girl, online, she liked me, and she showed me that she's interrested in having a relationship with me. i was interrested too... she was so cute and an amazing person.. or at least that's what she showed me so i a...

I can't tell if the art instructor is gay, how do I approach him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - So, I am 20 and gay. And I am in what might be my last year in community college. I am an art major, and I know the staff in art department at my school pretty well. I am friends with the head of the department, and we're pretty close. Anyway ...

I know we need to break up but I'm having trouble coming to terms

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - I have been in a gay relationship for over 6yrs like any relationship it was going through the best phases of its life but I decided to move away from him cos of my job but touchwood most seems to have worked out well even when we decided to see ...

How should I start off telling him that I'm gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Hi, I've got a friend that I'd like to "come out" to. He's a really nice person and probably the best friend I've ever had. I trust him fully, but there's just one problem. I don't know what his opinion is on gay people, and I'm a bit parinoid abo...

I confessed my sexuality to her and haven't heard from her since, should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - ok. im 17 year old female virgin, i have been questioning my sexuality from a young age, about 11. i dont want to have these thoughts but i dont think anyone ever does really do they? i have been kinda tryin to tell my friend for the past 6 months ...

My girlfriend's mother still won't accept our lesbian relationship after five years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm a 21 year old woman and have been with my girlfriend for nearly five years now (on and off). She is from a very close family and her mother wont accept us. This means at christmas time for example (when we are both home from uni), that ...

Is he just shy or should I take the lead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Hey! A month ago, I moved into a new town and a new town implies a new gym! I'm gay and I'm okay with it... The thing is, in the new gym, the trainer is really hot although he's kinda old (nearly 50). I feel like he's looking a lot at me but it...

I wonder if I should have broken up with him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I just broke up with my man after 6.5 years together. We are both gay. I'm still pretty raw over it. I'm not sure who was at fault me or him. I do know that drink had alot to do with it. He has found a new friend and lifestyle which no longer ...

Had sex with straight best friend, VERY confused!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1055 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - Hey, Firstly this is gonna be really long, but i need help because this is really confusing me! Im 17 and gay, my best mate is the same age and straight. He is very much the typical straight guy and would never involve himself with anything that wou...

Help!!! He's playing me, I know... but I love him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - To put it simple i'm in love with my best friend, again! i have known him for quite a while now. After a few months of knowing him i became attracted, but ignored this and that soon moved onto hardcore crush mode. Then i couldn't stand to be a...

He thinks if he's around me his "cover" will be blown

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - so, i like this boy. we've been friends for about a year and a half. were both in the closet. i told him through facebook messaging i like him and he never replied (that was like a year ago) so its been a while. but after i told him, hes been the ...

What kind of toys do I buy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - I discovered i might be gay... I've read on many websites that i should try to penetrate my ass by myself for my first time but i dont know wat kind of toys to buy and is there anything else necessary...? Isnt it weird a young guy like me going into ...

He's playing me, I know, but I love him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - to put it simple i'm in love with my best friend, again! i have known him for quite a while now. After a few months of knowing him i became attracted, but ignored this and that soon moved onto hardcore crush mode. Then i couldn't stand to be apar...

My Boy Friend wants sex but I want kisses too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - My friend and i have been messing around for about two years now. I'm bi. We both have had girlfriends in between us fooling around. i really like him and feel like we should be together. We have amazing sex. But he doesn't kiss me. i mean it's not ...

Is he serious in his long term commitment to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - Alright, so I'm kind of stuck on what I should do, so I need some advice. I'm a 25 year old gay male who has been in a 4 month long relationship with a guy who I met on a hook-up site over the summer. We decided to start dating and I've been pre...

She's my best friend, but not my GF now. How do I move on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - I guess I am here to try to mend my broken heart. I was in a long distance lesbian relationship with my ex for four and a half years. We hardly ever fought and I thought we got along really well. Yes, we were very different in our interests, b...

If we get back together will we end up where we started?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

25 December 2010 (M) - I have been in a gay relationship with a lad for 10 months, and 3 days ago he came to me saying he didn't think it was working anymore, he was worried he would fall out with me and that little things really annoy him. We agreed to continue our rel...

I think I'm a lesbian but won't be accepted by my peers

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - I'm a 22 year old and I think I'm a lesbian. I never had any type of.dealings with.a female but this is something that is constantly on my mind. It's to the point where I sometimes watch lesbian porno wishing it was me. But I'm afraid I won't be ...

Situation leaves me at wits end. My 8 year gay marriage failing, partner cheating, and care for adopted son

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

25 December 2010 (M) - I am in a bad situation-help I am a gay male who is in a gay marriage,for over 8 years. Just recently he started cheating on me. I followed him to a bar. His new friend was there they were kissing, very passionately. I walked up to them, and left. ...

How do I approach this person - I don't know if he's gay

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

25 December 2010 (M) - hi, i feel kinda odd asking this but i really fancy someone i don't know very well, but it's not like any normal crush. i work in a bar and he always catches my eye and then one night out i bumped into him and i felt that there was more than just a ...

I thought my mom would understand when I came out to her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

24 December 2010 (M) - I just came out to my mom because I thought I was ready. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months the first ever person I had been in a relationship with and I needed to talk to her about it. I thought she'd understand after all she's liberal ...

Why do I still feel love for him?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - Hi I guess this is a question asked so many times on here but it is still a big thing to me so I appreciate everyone taking the time to read and advice. I will start with the main problem and then tell the details of the story. I still se...

Is it a bad idea to make a move on her at this stage of the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Hi everyone I have posted here before but now a different issue has shown up in the same matter. I am posting this here cause it has been spinning around in my mind for weeks now and I am not able to find any answers. I would like to know...

What is a guy to do when he dates to find companionship, but can't commit because of baggage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - Someone I know, who likes me a lot, but currently has a boyfriend, is still trying to get close to me and doesn't seem to want their boyfriend so much as me... and while I've already told them we need to just be friends, the whole of a conversation ...

In need of flirting techniques.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - hey, so heres my "dilemma" if you will i used to play straight, but now i'm "out" now, but ive only upfront and told my friends, not everyone in my college knows if im gay, but they dont know if im straight i need to know how to flirt with other...

I just can't keep going through life being heart broken. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - I have this problem, For the last year I have been messed up by a load of different guys. It even got to a stage somebody said to me that they wanted a relationship with me and that they loved me completely and then took it back the next day. Af...

He doesn't know I'm gay and neither am I clear about his orientation. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (M) - Right now, I'm typing this with a miserable and lonely heart and I really need help and advice. So basically there's this guy which I like and I can't stop thinking about. I've known this guy for about a year and we're friends. He doesn't know I'm...

I'm gay but desperately need to be straight

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

22 December 2010 (F) - I need some advice about my sexuality. I'm an 18 year old girl and I'm gay, but I desperately try to be straight. I don't have a problem with gay people and I'm not homophobic, but I was always raised to believe that men end up with women and ...

How to confuse another guy into wondering if I like him or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - So I'm in college, and this year, within the first two months, my friend told this guy that i like him. The thing is, when she told him that, I actually didn't like him. However, now I'm growing more attracted to him daily. He thinks/knows i like ...

I don't want to give up on this, I want to work through it. But what now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - I have lived a heterosexual life and just came out of the closet a few years ago, not knowing I was even in. My experience so far has been quite challenging. I have a question but not sure if it's just the relationship I'm in or if it's me. I've...

How do I get him comfortable so he can tell me how he feels?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - Hi! i need some help. i am in highschool and i love my friend. we have been friends for about a year though we don't talk too much. we are both in the closest. he is gay, please just believe me when i say that hes gay. after about 4 months of knowi...

Help her to deal with my past...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hello! I'm new here and looking for some advice. To start, let me fill you in on my past. I am a 23 year old female living in the south. I grew up around a lot of drugs and sex was glorified in my family. I didn't really have any rules at all and ...

The men I fancy tend to be straight and very rarely gay - why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - I would like to have your opinion on the fact that the men I fancy tend to be straight and very raerly gay and what does it say that I am into men from the age of 16 right up to the age of 79? Your views are welcome!...

Is it a good idea for me to tell him about my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

19 December 2010 (M) - I am a senior in high school; I just transferred to a new school for their fine arts program. I recently came out as pansexual to most of my friends at school. Through some friends, I met a very cute guy. We have gotten to know each other very wel...

Unrequited love for best friend of the same sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - Hello there. A brief overview: I am 18, female and very much in love. With another girl who may or may not know about this. My feelings for her have always been there, burgeoning and intensifying all the time, really outstripping all other trifli...

He doesn't want to spend christmas with my family...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

19 December 2010 (M) - My boyfriend has recently decided that he doesn't want to see his family anymore. They won't accept him being gay and after years of making an effort and trying to forget it, he's had enough. So with Xmas coming up, he won't be spending it with ...

In love with my straight best friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

18 December 2010 (M) - So I am extremely confused... I have been best friends with this guy for about 10 years. We do just about everthing together and we both really value the time we spend together. We are also currently room mates... We have become extremely close an...

Do I like boys or girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

18 December 2010 (M) - hi i'm 25 and love having sex with girls wether it be a relationship or one night stands i've had several girlfriends and love the emotion of falling in love.... when i'm not having sex i masturbate 3-6 times a day but heres the problem i find the ...

She dropped me like that after she found out she was pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5087 days ago

18 December 2010 (F) - Okay, so me and this girl have been seein eachother for about 3 months but during this time we both were currently in a relationship with someone eles, and we still are. But I recently found out that she is pregnant by her bf and I'm devastated and ...

Should I reveal to my straight friend that I am interested in a possible sexual relationship with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

18 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, my female friend and I share the same interests, beliefs, opinions and understand each other without saying. I consider her as my very soulmate. Lately, I felt something that goes beyond friendship. I desire to be with her, start so...

I love my best friend with all my heart but he doesn't feel the same

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5087 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - So whats been going on is i love my best friend. i really love him with all my heart, more than i could ever express in words. but, he doesnt feel the same.. i have talked to him about it, he said im too much like a brother to date.. We have had sex ...

He says he's gay but, I think otherwise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - there was a guy in my life before he told me he was gay but i didnt believe him, he was so nice to me and brought med out in his car he had this cool car with tinted windows but nothing happened between us but he is such a lovely guy was he telling ...

Am I just his backup?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

16 December 2010 (M) - Hello everyone, I am a mid-20 year old guy who has never been in a real relationship (kissing, etc,) with either a girl or a guy... however, I have been aware over the past several years that I am primarily attracted to men. Over the past...

Is there a chance we can be more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - Situation: my friend and i are really really close. by the way we are both lesbians. we share common things: music, food, places, hobbies, likes, dislikes, etc. i met her sophomore year in high school. but we got closer during senior year. we ...

Am I bisexual, bicurious or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - 4 years ago when I was a freshman in catholic high school I had a huge crush on my computer teacher. Yeah I know it's common and wrong but and wrong but I felt attracted to him. When sophomore year came around I became attracted to one of the girls ...

Why is it that I find this one guy attractive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I'm a little confused. I've always been interested in girls, ever since I first started finding myself liking someone. But I met this one guy recently and I feel things about him that I've never felt for a guy before. I know people would likely just ...