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writes:I would like to have your opinion on the fact that the men I fancy tend to be straight and very raerly gay and what does it say that I am into men from the age of 16 right up to the age of 79? Your views are welcome! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI understand what you're saying Tine but I wouldn't make an advance towards a straight guy as I know I would be turned down however on a few occasions a few straight guys I know let me feel and prod their beer belly although I didn't tell them I was gay!
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reader, JustinNki  +, writes (25 December 2010):
 i play both feilds, and i know what u mean, if i were gonna hook up with a guy, hed better be pretty dang straight.
its just your type, u like straight acting guys. nothing bad,
but its gonna be harder to find your type since the ones that are open usually are flamboyant. maybe try online sites?
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reader, Tine +, writes (24 December 2010):
 then i agree with Welsh Uncle Dave, if you want to actualy find a gay partner then the best way to do it is on a gay dating site..
or if you don't wanna take that leap into dating how about just becoming friends through a gay chat room, metting up and maybe if your lucky the person will introduce you to other gay friends and maybe you can meet someone that way?? eyeing up straight men is ok, as long as you won't get disappointed if you make a move and they turn you down..
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (22 December 2010):
have you tried gay dating sites?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSome of the advice given so far is good particulary Tine's but I must say that nightclubs are not really my scene and I am not a big pub goer and I have come accept my sexuality and actually enjoy it, I just haven't felt the need to be open as I want to eye up any straight men I fancy without them knowing!
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (21 December 2010):
 It sounds to me like you tend to go for what you perceive to be more masculine or 'hyper' masculine (the Tom's of Finland type - google it if you don't know what I'm talking about). So, that being said - you need to find a gay bar that essentially caters to this type. Leather, Daddy & Bear bars in particular. If there aren't any that cater mainly to one of these types... then just a general gay bar should do - it's just that finding the hyper masculine type there is a little more difficult.
Good Luck.
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reader, Tine +, writes (20 December 2010):
maybe you aren't going out to the right places to find a gay partner, do you go out to gay bars or is it just any bar in general??
it is such an open range of ages there, so maybe it just the wrong places or maybe it's the more macho straight look your into??
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reader, dirtball +, writes (20 December 2010):
 It tells me you're probably into the macho man type. Being into men in a wide age range doesn't really matter too much as long as you're careful. You like what you like.
On a side note, have you ever considered that you like straight guys because they are unattainable. Perhaps it's because you want what you can't have. Or possibly you aren't comfortable with your sexuality and this is a way to subconsciously keep you out of a relationship. Hard to say based on what you've supplied us.
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