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writes:hi i'm 25 and love having sex with girls wether it be a relationship or one night stands i've had several girlfriends and love the emotion of falling in love.... when i'm not having sex i masturbate 3-6 times a day but heres the problem i find the majority of the time i think about guys, i've never admitted to being bi sexual and still not sure if i am or not?, but i always end up finding my self fantasising about playing with a guys penis or rubbing mine on his and giving oral sex, i've seen hot guys at the pub or at the beach with no shirt and got home and thought about them while masturbating, i get horny when i see hot girls but when i see hot guys i get so toey and find myself with a massive erection and thinking bout what their cock looks like, is this wrong? A few times myself and a friend have wanked eachother off had oral sex and even ejaculated on each other, during it feels great but after weather it be playing with my mate or fantasising it feels wrong.....So...do I try arelationship with a guy to find out and keep it secret from my mates? And how du you tell a boy you 'd like to take him home without getting your head punched in?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2010): sounds to me that you like both boys and girls. it probably feels wrong because you think its wrong, when really its perfectly normal. don`t think your weird or a bad person cause of having feelings for the same and opposite gender .
my advice is to go to a gay bar, you`ll probably find some very good looking men there.
because from what i read it sounds like you are more attracted to men than women.
you could try having a relationship with a guy if you want to.
at the end of the day, its your decision .
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (18 December 2010):
 go to a gay bar and chat a guy up- easiest way
try it out with someone you aren't friends with as experimenting with friends always leaves a dirty after taste in your head no matter how fun it is in the moment.
try getting to know some gays guys and see where it goes from there. you might like it and clearly you are getting the urge to explore so put yourself out there
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2010): Hey bud, First off all were kinda on the same boat here and it kinda sounds like your bi sexual wich is fine dont lisson to anyone that says you can only like one gender because thats not true you can be sexualy attracted to both but perhaps attracted to one more than the other, the reason you feel weird after playing with your friend maybe because he is yyour friend you may feel better doing things with a stranger youll never see again, in sumary you like both guys and girls and thats perfectly fine it might take some time to get used to those sort of acctivitys with men dont let the strange feelings get you down do what you like, do who you like that is XD I made a Joke XD
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (18 December 2010):
Sounds like you're definitely bisexual and possibly feels wrong because you haven't accepted it it.
I think you have to accept your bi first before telling mates and if you find having a relationship to find out works for you then go for it.
As for looking for a guy to take home, simplest option is to go to a gay bar/club.
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