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writes:Hey! A month ago, I moved into a new town and a new town implies a new gym! I'm gay and I'm okay with it...The thing is, in the new gym, the trainer is really hot although he's kinda old (nearly 50). I feel like he's looking a lot at me but it's not very clear...I decided to try to send him signals, so I went to the gym wearing a jockstrap under my pants. He definitely saw it but never talked to me about it...Am I imagining all this because he's hot or is he just shy and I should take the lead... Thanks for answering cause I'm so confused and I would do so much to get this guy right now...
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (30 December 2010):
 just get talking to him- i'm gay and jock straps dont really do anything for me. a conversation with him will let you know if he likes you. when you are talking to him look for lots of eye contact and smiling, possible eyebrow flicks also (where the both eyebrows go up for a split second).
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reader, onyx95  +, writes (29 December 2010):
hmmmm. well lets see. i think what you should do is not just suddenly walk in and star making out with him or something like that. move slowly into it. ok so he is a trainer. ask him for help on something and start by asking simple questions that could lead to him telling you he is gay( if he is) if so go for but if that fails take a change and take the lead.3
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): Well, it's hard to answer this. Considering your sexuality, are you sure he would be the same or close? If he is than maybe you should start a simple conversation, talk and just go from there. You can't just jump into things simply because someone is hot, you want to start slow and make sure they feel the same as you do before you give off the wrong feeling.
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