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writes:I have been in a gay relationship with a lad for 10 months, and 3 days ago he came to me saying he didn't think it was working anymore, he was worried he would fall out with me and that little things really annoy him.We agreed to continue our relationship till new year, though technically we have split now. I don't want to loose him, we have been here before, and when we are together things are different to when we are apart.I don't want to loose him, i don't feel we are bad enough yet, is it right for us to spend these few extra days together? even though we have decided its for the best? If we get together there is chance we will end up back were we started.help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): ok just an update from me... (the one who asked this)
We have ended, i hate it but we have ended. We were going to meet up to officialy split, but is there a need now? we still talking about meeting on thursday..
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reader, tnfljam  +, writes (26 December 2010):
Why do you guys want to stay until the new year? If your going to split, the sooner the better. The few extras days wont do anything but make it linger on and eventually hurt you more in the long run. BUT you sound like you want to work on the relationship, so you need to communicate with your significant other and tell them how you feel. Express your annoyances and concerns and see what they have to say back. You both have to be willing, it cannot work if its a one sided relationship.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (26 December 2010):
 hi
what little things annoy him? is it anything you could or would be willing to change as you are saying you dont wanna lose him? stick with him, see how it goes but keep in your mind that you might be on borrowed time with him. if you do end up splitting up and you wanna talk, please feel free to contact me, though i hope it doesnt come to that. if it only litle things that annoy him about you, remind him that no one is perfect!
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