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writes:I'm a little confused. I've always been interested in girls, ever since I first started finding myself liking someone. But I met this one guy recently and I feel things about him that I've never felt for a guy before. I know people would likely just tell me it's just my age; that I'm still young and my sexuality isn't set yet. But I know I've always been a lesbian and I still don't find guys in general attractive. It's just this one guy makes me feel different. I don't understand it, and I'd appreciate some help figuring out what's up.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 I wouldnt worry too much, i am a lesbian and always have been but over the past 5/6 years there have been a few men that i have liked for different reasond, mainly they were caring sensivtive guys which isnt the norm in my opinion, but it hasnt affected who i am. I think nobody is 100% gay or straight and i really wouldnt let it bother you too much
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reader, rivi  +, writes (15 December 2010):
Well I would just say why worry ?
If you're attracted to one another and want to take it to a physically intimate level [ ?that's what you mean, right, by 'feelings I haven't had for guys ' ? ] just go for it and don't even bother thinking about whether this re-defines you as 'straight' or 'bi'.
Just enjoy for what it is or becomes. Nothing to stop you falling for a girl next time round.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): Maybe he looks like a girl, or has feminine-like qualities, i.e. he seems caring and considerate. I knew a girl like this once. Said she had been a lesbian all pf her life until she met HIM. That he was the one who'd "finally" turned her and whatnot. Turns out this boy cheated on her many times for over a year. Hope this isn't Diego's girlfriend.
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reader, TheFallBackGurl +, writes (15 December 2010):
 hello im a lesbian and this has actually happened to me once lol i hated him at first cuz he rode the same bus as me and always stole my seat that went on for 8 years then one day out of the blue we hung out and things were different so we hung out even more then next thing i know i was dating him but it wasnt that i was attracted to him sexually or anything he moved me in a way that i didnt understand well to make things short we dated for a week and now hes one of my closest friends i learned that the reason i was attracted and moved by him was because he didnt care what people thought of him and i was kinda jealous of that at the time i was scared of coming out as a lesbian i probly shouldve said that earlier lol but i dont know if this will help but i thought id give it a try GOOD LUCK HUN HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT FOR U
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