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Archived questions from: November, 2016 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

How do I get over my former friend's betrayal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

30 November 2016 (F) - Hi, How do I get my lying, cheating friend out of my head?? I was conned and lied to by a girl I thought was a friend of mine just so she could take my ex (we were on a temporary break)! I totally trusted her but she ended up ruining my life, wi...

I asked him to remove my pics, he said he did, but he hasn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - Good day, So I've been friends with a guy for roughly a yr plus. He is cool. We talk relationships, future jobs etc. I like our friendship but he wants more and I could tell because he does these things like always tagging me in stuff, texting m...

We are both still married. Should I get involved with my married friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - Hello everyone, Over the past few years, I have run into a lot of issues with my husband and have discovered that the large bulk of our problems stem from some physical and mental health issues which cannot really go away. This has taken a toll...

He told me that he is falling in love with me but is he just trying to get into my pants?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

27 November 2016 (F) - I've been friends and getting to know this guy for a month now. We hang out and he messages me everyday through text without fail. So two days ago we were texting because both of us were about to go to bed, before he says goodnight he say...

Is she jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

27 November 2016 (F) - Hello. First of all, I have a friend and she is a lesbian. We still hang out with each other. I kind of like her but I didn't show it to her cause I don't want to break our friendship. One day, when she surprisingly visited me in my house, we hang ...

I just want things back to normal between us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

27 November 2016 (F) - How do you make a situation less awkward? About 3 months ago I got with a colleague and in short, he was an idiot about things and very misleading. He's clearly in the wrong and has never apologised or addressed the situation, but that's besides ...

Uncertain if he's interested

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

27 November 2016 (F) - I became interested in my friends best friend and I didn't talk to him much because he was always hanging around my friend. We were both getting pretty drunk and told my friend I was interested in him and I think he told him that and he started ...

Do I wait for him to come round? Or do I let go?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

26 November 2016 (F) - Could do with some insight here into my situation. I call it a situation because it is not nor never has been a relationship. and my female friends and male friends are offering conflicting advice. so I really am lost. I have a long-term friend...

Can't fathom the girl

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

26 November 2016 (M) - My girlfriend's brother's girlfriend often pops up on Facebook and talks to me, asking questions and generally being friendly. However, in person, she is very cold. I have only met her once for a week as she lives in the USA and after a year of ...

Why is my married former lover so jealous now that I've moved on to someone available?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

25 November 2016 (F) - I'm doing my best to move on from the MM that i was dealing with. He wants to be friends and i first i found it difficult but since i was able to get some distance due to our temporary separation i decided to give a friendship a try. I also have ...

I'm straight and not interested in my female friend, but I'd like to maintain our friendship. Can that still happen after she admitted romantic feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

24 November 2016 (F) - I used to have a female best friend, who fell in love with me. Trouble was, I'm straight and had a boyfriend. She got very jealous, and I spilt up with my boyfriend because I felt our friendship was nore important, which made it worse, because I ...

What does my best friend want from me? He is married but keeps asking for a secret relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2918 days ago

24 November 2016 (F) - He is married for 7 months. And he wants me to be in secret relationship with him. We are close friends since very long time and back in our college days we used to like each other not genuinely but just like crush on each other. We got so ...

My friend has blown hot and cold for three years. What is going through her mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2918 days ago

23 November 2016 (M) - This happened a while back. In fact, it's kind of been something that's happened over the years. At the age of 18 I had a part time job at a restaurant and was acquainted with a girl there my age. I wasn't at all attracted to her but she seemed very ...

How much should I be involved with friends' love life?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

23 November 2016 (M) - As I grow older I recognise things that make me hurt and angry. One of those things that trigger me is when good friends stay friends with people I dont think are nice people and are mean, Another is friends dating people i dont like, also when ...

How do I turn down friends that wish to date me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

21 November 2016 (F) - Ok my problem is pretty simple - I am recently out of a long term relationship and since I've been single, a few guys I know (old work colleagues, classmates etc) have contacted me via Facebook and asked me out. Unfortunately I've not been attracted ...

Why does she call me daddy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2910 days ago

21 November 2016 (M) - I have a friend who is from South East Asia. She is 4 years older and I'm 25. I've known her for like 2 years now. She's always had this name that she calls me, I guess it's in her native language because I don't understand it. Recently thoug...

Our online relationship ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

21 November 2016 (F) - I met this American guy online since August 2015 and we met in a famous dating site. Btw, I’m Asian and 23 years old and we are of the same age. First, it was just purely a friendly chat of random stuffs (we chat almost every day as long as we are ...

Hard to read the sjgnals

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

20 November 2016 (M) - Dear aunts and uncles, I have a lady fried with whom my relationship was completely platonic.I found her attractive when we first met and she is a good person. We hardly communicate and when we do it's about work related stuff. In the past week, o...

I feel strung along. How do I let go of him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

19 November 2016 (F) - Hey, okay so, I have been talking to this guy for 3/4 years who I met at college. We have met a handful of times but we haven't met in over a year but we still text, all day everyday and have done for 3/4 years. If we go without one day without ...

My girlfriend is flirting with my best friend and I'm worried about what will happen

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

18 November 2016 (M) - I have a problem...my girlfriend is flirting with my best friend..i know they don't have nothing right now but they are too close to each other...and they hide things to me..it hurts because they think I'm the bad guy..it just that it hurts to...

Which should choose to attend? Tribute band or the comedy? Both on the same night.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

18 November 2016 (F) - Can anyone advise me on which show to go to tomorrow?. There are two great shows on tomorrow night in the same city. One is a comedy show. The other is a tribute band to a band that I like. I have seen both of them before. I will be going wit...

I really like him but I fear rejection. What can I do? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

18 November 2016 (F) - Modnote: two almost identical questions combined. ................................... dear cupid, ok so there is this guy that I really like he is a grade bigger than me, he used to like me at the beginning of the year (I could tell from the cle...

Is this normal? Should she keep some distance between her and the ex's family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

18 November 2016 (M) - Started a new relationship with an old flame from my past. we are into our 6 month and very into each other. She now had a small child for a ex boyfriend and the ex is very unstable. lately the ex,s brother has started to show up visiting, at ...

What kind of game is my friend playing? She plays hot then cold

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

17 November 2016 (F) - Any idea what my "friend's" game is? She blows hot and cold. One minute she is all over me, asking to go out for a drink and a catch up, coming round to my house for a drink, next minute she cuts me dead and I hear nothing from her for age...

What is wrong with me I want a relationship but I don't want sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

17 November 2016 (F) - Hey Cupids,I'm still a young woman who is truly in to sex with men but I have been single for years and now I want to get into the dating world but not ready to have sex with anymore.I'm ready to travel and just do me but I do feel lonely at times ...

My ex friend is giving out my number to everyone until I apologize

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

15 November 2016 (M) - On Halloween I had a falling out with a couple friends when I got kicked out of a frat party for not paying to get in and they ignored me for the rest of the night. For a couple days after that I was angry at them and just completely ignored their ...

For me, its not "just a kiss"!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2924 days ago

15 November 2016 (F) - Hi I could use some help. Recently I've just started to doubt a lot of things regarding myself and my future, but this one's going to be about a guy. So there's this guy that im really interested in at work. Infact, I'm possibly falling in love with ...

Why do I have mixed feelings about my friend of 20 plus years who wants a relationship with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

15 November 2016 (F) - My friend of 20 plus years has a plan to come and visit me. We have been crushing on each other for years now that we have come in contact with one another on Facebook we really want to see each other. We talked about being in a relationship but...

Facebook jealousy is making me resentful and bitter

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

14 November 2016 (F) - I saw a question posted a while back similar to this, as I seem to have the same problem. I recently had to deactivate my Facebook account because everyone posting constantly about their wonderful lives is making me really jealous and resentful of ...

I just want to be his friend, but he is taking it slow ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

14 November 2016 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles I met a guy a couple of months ago. We hit it off quite quickly and there is obvious chemistry between us. However, he is very hesitate to allow me to get close to him. I know there is not any one else. I know he has only...

Any advice on how to have conversations with people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

14 November 2016 (F) - HELP! I get so anxious whenever someone starts a conversation with me. Being around people I am totally fine with and I can handle a little bit of a small conversation, but I have issues keeping the ball rolling and I freak out whenever I shoul...

Should men in committed relationships be following bikini models on Instagram?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - I wanted to know if it's right for a man in a relationship to have Instagram followers ( him following women that are models on Instagram) lately I noticed that a lot of my male friends who are married or in relationships are always folling these ...

Can I ever get my thoughts under control?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - I wanted to write this to see if anyone has had any success in dealing with this or if there is no hope for me to resolve my issues. I have been in therapy and with medication since I was young I'm 31 now. I was diagnosed with OCD at 12. The last ...

My friend thought I was in pornographic pictures.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - MOD NOTE: I believe the asker has a male friend who is close like a brother. They are both married. Her friend ignored her for two weeks, and when she insisted he say why he sent by text pornographic images which he believes to be her. He is ...

How do I make my husband notice me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (F) - My husband and I have been married for just over a year and together for 4 and I need help trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong. My husband spends all his spare time with his friends. He hangs out with them every single day. I hang out with my ...

I really want this girl. How can I get her interested in me? What do I need to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

13 November 2016 (M) - Alright there's the same girl from my last question and I've been chasing her for the past two months now. I asked her if she liked me the same way I liked her or not because I couldn't tell and not even her friends at school knew if she liked me...

I'm really attracted to my friend, won't cheat on my partner so how do I handle the attraction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2926 days ago

12 November 2016 (F) - Hi, I have myself a very loving boyfriend, we are each others rock, and best friends, enjoy food, and home life, and hobbies together, we help each other to work through any stresses and fully support each other as much as possible in all we do. I...

My relationship seems to be breaking down, and I think I'm having a quarter-life crisis over it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

12 November 2016 (F) - Long story short, I feel like I am having a quarter-life crisis. I turned 23 this year and although I am in a good career already and finished university, I have become paranoid about EVERYTHING. From the way I look to the friendships/relationships ...

I want to tell my crush how I feel, but I'm afraid of losing his friendship. Do I speak up or let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

12 November 2016 (F) - so ive been friends with this guy for about 4 years now and we were kind of interested in each other at the start but i started dating his friend and since then we've both been in and out of relationships but we've become best friends. i guess i...

He says we won't work as couple but still contact me. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

12 November 2016 (F) - Hi. Would appreciate a bit of advice please. I was seeing a guy for a few weeks, it has all been very intense and fun. I struggle with insecurity, and it rose its head and he's run a mile. We have decided to stay friends, and when I hold ba...

The girl I love, loves my best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2929 days ago

11 November 2016 (M) - So I like a girl in my school, and were both sophomores. I've liked her since freshman year and I have tried literally everyday to ask her out, and now she has a boyfriend. I would ask her out even if she had a boyfriend but a problem that I have ...

How do I tell her I'll be there if she wants to be more than friends

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

11 November 2016 (M) - Hi all, I'll try to keep it as short as I can but, this might get quite lengthy. So, sorry about that. Let me preface this by telling you that my first serious relationship ended about a year and a half ago (it was my fault), though we still c...

Why won't my friend give me a chance?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2928 days ago

9 November 2016 (M) - Hi I am a 52 year old man who has been in love with a female friend for 20 yrs I have helped her through many rough times. she does know how I feel but says she doesn't know why she won't give me a chance I know I would make her and her Childrens ...

Am I confusing love with sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2932 days ago

9 November 2016 (F) - I'm in love with my best friend. We have been friends for years and have slept together on and off for a while. Am I confusing sex with love. Should I tell him?...

My inability to interact with others is making me very lonely

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

8 November 2016 (M) - Help please! I am very awkward around people and have trouble with keeping eye contact.i have a tendency to sweat profusely and stutter when I speak. I think I offend people when I don't look at them or say hi but really I'm just terrified of min...

How do I know which one is right for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

8 November 2016 (M) - My friend and I have been friends for 9 years now and we didn't start out as friends when we we're younger. He use to bully me a lot since we lived next door to each other. He is bisexual and I'm don't know if he's interested in me or maybe I'm ...

What to do so I don't feel awkward kissing/hugging her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

8 November 2016 (M) - I've know this girl for 3 years now as she is on my university course. We've always been friends and hung out a few times outside of uni. However about a week ago I went to hers to have a movie night, it was really nice and we spoke for ages and ...

I cheated once on my husband with a friend I like the attention but feel guilty

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

7 November 2016 (F) - I know my hubby for 18 years of which we married for 10 years. Although I came close to cheating on him, I didn't actually ever kiss anyone (French kiss). I was so proud of this as most of my friends have cheated on their spouses. That was up until ...

I'm more emotionally attached to my b/f than he is to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

7 November 2016 (F) - HI, I dont know why I have this sad feeling that I am more emotionally attached to my bf than he is. We are together for almost 3 years, we dont live together but we are very involve in each ones lives..that is what I think. He has some problems re...

I know she loves me but she will not be in a relationship with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

7 November 2016 (F) - She has bI am in love with my best friend and i have told her. She said no to being in a relationship. I told her i cant be friends with someone i am attracted to and that we should stop seeing each but she refuses to go out of my life I know s...