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writes:I've know this girl for 3 years now as she is on my university course. We've always been friends and hung out a few times outside of uni. However about a week ago I went to hers to have a movie night, it was really nice and we spoke for ages and stuff before she gave me a lift home as I don't drive. When I got home she was messaging me saying she didn't want me to go and that she was initiating something etc. and I said that I would've have stopped anything and that I would like something. We had another night and this time we were cuddling which was the best I've felt in years and we kissed and then kissed more throughout the night as she stayed over. We then did a few more bits of fooling around and then just basically wanted to be around each other. She then went home to see her family and friends and shes been very blunt and barely spoken to me. But today she was back and everything seemed okay again we hung out and did work but I felt like I wanted to hug/kiss her goodbye but then again I felt like I'd have made it awkward cause we haven't spoken about what we want etc What do I do so I don't feel awkward to kiss/hug/cuddle her?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 November 2016):
 Ask her out on a date. Tell her you like her. I think she needs reassurance from your end as she has already made it clear what she wants. So bite the bullet and ask her out for dinner.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (8 November 2016):
 WiseOwl said dude...
She was blunt and barely spoke to you because she gave you a chance, and you did nothing with it.
When a girl lets you know she does not want you to go...Well...I means she want to stay and PLAY... With her.
You are turning her off. As wiseowl said...Man-up.
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reader, N91 +, writes (8 November 2016):
 I'm a bit confused as to why the main point of the question is how not to be awkward when kissing?
If you like this girl, ask her on a date and move things forward with her. If you both like each other then things like this shouldn't be awkward.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2016): Does she have to hit you over the head to let you know she likes you? She has exchanged kisses and affection.
Man-up and let her know what you want and that you're both on the same page. She's blunt with you, because you're acting more like a boy than a man. She feels like she exposed feelings and you're acting scared. You're making her feel like she's making a fool of herself letting you know how much she likes you and willing to explore something more with you.
You don't have to rush into anything, but if you kiss and make-out with a woman, and truly like her. If she lets you know she likes you; she has to get some positive feedback.
Be a man and tell her where you stand.
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