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writes:My friend and I have been friends for 9 years now and we didn't start out as friends when we we're younger. He use to bully me a lot since we lived next door to each other. He is bisexual and I'm don't know if he's interested in me or maybe I'm dumb. There is another male friend that seems interested in me and flirts with me. I knew him for 3 years now and they seem to compete to be the best in my eyes. What should I do?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 November 2016):
 If you have to think about it then neither off these guys are for you. Remember just because you are single does not mean you need to settle for someone. Enjoy being single and go out and meet new people.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 November 2016):
 I agree, neither is a good option.
One have been your friend for 9 years and nothing has happened so far, so why now?
Second one, been a friend for 3... and still nothing either.
Flirting doesn't always equate romantic interest, some people just flirt as part of who they are, female friends are GREAT to practise your flirting skills on.
I'd look elsewhere for a BF.
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reader, PhiliGirl  +, writes (9 November 2016):
 Defiantly don't date your friends. It always ends in disaster. If it doesn't work, then its awkward. If it does work, then there is a 3rd wheel. Anyway you look at it, someone gets hurt. I agree with Denizen, Mr Right is still out there. Done ruin friendships on a "what if" or "it could work".
Hope this helped.
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reader, Aimeexxx  +, writes (8 November 2016):
it's completely up to you but saying they need to fight for your affection makes me think you don't love either because if you really loved one you would know it and I'd ask her to make sure they do actually like you because you can never tell
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reader, Denizen +, writes (8 November 2016):
 These two don't seem the right candidates for your heart. By all means go out and enjoy yourself with them as friends. I think Mr Right is probably still waiting to make his entrance into your life.
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