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Archived questions from: March, 2014 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Why do guys ask for my number but never call?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

31 March 2014 (F) - Everytime i go out dancing with my friend (girl), I meet a really cool guy we have a good time, and at the end of the night they ask for my number. I give it to the ones I like, and they always end up not calling/ messaging. I'm sick and tired o...

My internet friend doesn't like me the way I like her. I am heartbroken.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

31 March 2014 (?) - Ok so I have this Internet friend. I really like her a lot she is really pretty even though others don't think so and shes super funny and nice and likes a lot of the same stuff as me. I finally got the guts to tell her. She has a girlfriend already ...

How did my close friend manage to keep all this to herself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - I can't understand what happened on saturday night with this girl i'm friends with, i've known her three years and never seen this side of her!! She's always been a confident, talkative and happy girl. We're on the same course at university and I...

I think my vulnerable friend is being taken advantage of

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - This woman was previously abused in a very long term marriage. (slapped around then forcibly Raped on her wedding night by her husband.) He abused her in many other ways as well. He made her feel guilty and took great advantage of her. She is n...

Is it time for me to leave these friends behind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

31 March 2014 (F) - My closest girlfriends and I are a group of four. A couple weeks ago, girlfriend "A" messaged us asking to hang out that upcoming Saturday. "B" said OK and I asked "when and where?" However Saturday came and gone with A and B both having both seen ...

How do I rescue this friendship without crossing the line?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - I have a female friend who is in a relationship with a good male friend of mine. She has been a great listener when I have a problem and both her and her partner are valuable friends for me. The problem I have is that I have been single for a lo...

He was the perfect friend, I fell for him, now he's engaged to someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Hi everyone , im on my phone so Im sorry if it doesn't make sense or there is any spelling errors. Ok well there is this guy, who in my seems so perfect and I've known him for a while (over 10 years, he was 6 years older.) we get along well , i...

Have I lost her friendship? Should I give up or contact her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3888 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Hi,- sorry for rambling on a bit but this is really badly playing on my mind. A few months ago I wrote this question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-best-friend-has-changed-for-the-worse.html I just don’t understand why I can’t get over ...

Do you my find it appropriate for a woman to sit on your husband's lap?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - My husband and I were with friends last night. We were playing a party game and my husband drew a card which made him "Santa Claus." Two of our male friends sat on his lap as a joke and I also sat on my husband's lap. But then one of our friends ...

Problems with boyfriend, Facebook, and other girls.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and when we first started dating he would put stuff on his facebook without me having to ask him. But now it's like a war. I feel like its not fair to me that his ex's got sweet statuses and got to be his ...

A true friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Hi Any advice/support would be grateful. So since my friend got herself a boyfriend (they have been together over a year now) she just does not bother with me or any of her other friends. This is going to sound pathetic, but she used to...

Why can't I get over this offensive incident?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

30 March 2014 (M) - I took a tennis class and this pretty woman walked up to me during the first one and said, "Hi Bob! I lost your e-mail address!" I replied that it was no big deal and I'd give it to her again. She then said to me, "Err, no, that's okay," etc. I wa...

Will alcohol make you have sex with someone of the same gender?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Will alcohol make you have sex with someone of the same gender? Will you completely forget or not realize it happened the next day? I feel guilty a tipsy friend came on to me hard. I had zero intentions of having sex with her but it happened. I felt ...

Are adults too busy to make new friends these days, do we not even try anymore?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Do we not see those that are alone and may need a new friend? are we so suspicious of someone making small talk or being friendly, say when we meet them, that we ignore them for our own friends? or our own lives, family etc etc. Many ppl have bu...

He was more supportive before the FWB started

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - First I live in a foreign country and in a small town and luckily for the past five years I have had a male friend who I have spent a lot of time with. In the past I have helped him with many things and last year when my Mum was diagnosed with ...

I feel he has been rewarded for leading me on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was with my boyfriend for 9 months. The relationship ended because I pushed him to move in with me and he was clearly not sure. I was patient but then he decided to end it with no reason as to why. He never formally did this - just ...

I'm annoyed at my B/f and his family's attitude especially when they know about our financial situation. Given this scenario, should I just not go for his mom's birthday dinner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - I was invited by my boyfriend to join in with his family on Mother's Day as its also his Mum's birthday same date. I've known my boyfriend for 18 mths he is 39. I have met his Mum maybe three or four times and she seems nice so I agreed. However ...

Why is she acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

28 March 2014 (?) - hey cupids, i'm having a terrible time with 3 of my best friends, and i need your help. so i've got 3 best friends at school, let's call them, bron, chlo, and harl. recently, )two months ago,) chlo became friends with this guy, let's call him dan. ...

Feeling fed up. Job going no where. Haven't met "The One". Has anybody experienced this situation and have any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, just looking for a bit of advice. I'm 26 and just feeling really fed up with life. I spent 5 years in uni and trained as a teacher but I currently work as a sales manager. I didn't love teaching and jobs were few are far between ...

Can I never trust a guy after this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Please help me. In January I met a guy in Facebook and we both started chatting. After few days of chatting we both exchanged our contact number and he started calling me. After few weeks we decided to meet at one of his friends home. We both wer...

I'm worried I should have given it more time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - I met a guy and we dated for 3 months and it was amazing in the beginning he chased me took me to places I met all his friends. The only thing was that he ended a relationship for 2 years and after 3 months she started to date his friend so that ...

My husband has confessed but my best friend says she can't remember!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - While I was pregnant my husband and a argument and I've since found out that he went to my best friend one thing led to another and he gave her oral sex, she tried to give him it but he says it didnt happen as he couldn't get an erection, is this ...

They're getting married in nine days and I KNOW he is cheating on her!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - One of my lifelong friends is getting married to the man of her dreams in 9 days. They have been together 4 years and have a daughter who is just 6 months old. This morning I've found out that he has been having an affair. I don't just suspect, I ...

She said she was straight but I'm starting to wonder if she secretly has feelings for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - basically I've been living with a bunch of friends for 2 years now. We all knew each other for an additional year before that. At the start of that year when we all met one another, I openly admitted that I thought this one girl in the group was ...

What should or could I do, without ruining our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3892 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Hello. I'm 23, and for as long as I can remember I have never had any romantic feelings for women, but ever since I have got closer and closer to a girl I work with, it's getting more and more harder to pretend those feelings aren't there. She ...

Don't have much of a life at college ---how do I meet friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Hey I need some help. I'm a young woman who is in college. I know this is embarrassing but I don't really have any friends and not much of a life either. I guess my college isn't really the best place to meet people because nobody really interacts ...

What is small talk? And how do I deal with a nosy private teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - I seem to have a problem with people who I do not consider friends, like colleagues and my private language teacher who insist on fishing for answers about my activites. I thinkk I understand the difference between small talk; the weather etc. ...

Falling in love with one of my best friends. How do I manage this without ruining our amazing friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - I think I'm falling for one of my best friends. Admittedly I was interested in him when we first met. We started out just running together after meeting at school, and I originally thought that was a precursor to something more, but nothing ...

Do folk think the likes me or not? How can I show him I am interested ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm feeling confused over a man I have knew for a few months. He blows hot and cold! I see him once a week at church, Some weeks he is great around me and comes up to me and chats away, putting his arm around me,rubs my arm, flirts ect a...

When do I know when he wants to become official? What are the signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - I need some help haha. I have been seeing a guy for some time now, we constantly text all the time, and we have also spent some time together. I asked a couple of weeks ago what was happening between us, he told me he wanted a relationship however ...

Should I stay friends with him after this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - I meet a guy from a group just after xmas last year, like a hobby group, we meet up on Sunday morning every week.we added each other on fb not long after we met, and we have been chatting everyday, early February he told me he's in limbo from a ...

Do you think I've subconsciously been making female friends to fill the space that my girlfriend usually occupies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

24 March 2014 (M) - So me and my girlfriend recently started university at the same time but we are doing different degrees. I barely get to see her as her schedule is so busy which is tough as i used to see her basically every day at school. I've been making new ...

I'm so worried I could not sleep .........

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - What is happening? I've still not heard from him:( I'm worried? I spoke to my boyfriend saturday afternoon and he said he was going to take a nap he will ring me when he wakes up. He didn't ring me in the evening, I tried to call him but I ...

Is he playing games or is it all in my head? Does he like me or is he being EXTREMELY nice?? IDK. Help!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

24 March 2014 (?) - Im female, 19, and a college freshman. I have an issue with teacher crushes that i never acted on until this year. My drum instructor and I didnt have much of a relationship at the beginning of this year. Lets just say he was a cocky jerk. He a...

My friend thinks I'm pushing him away. How do I salvage this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - okay, its a pretty complicated case. so guy a and girl b are very good friends and over time girl b starts falling helplessly in love with guy a. at first she thinks he may have feelings for her, but now guy a has a girlfriend. despite all this, guy ...

My boyfriend told me I'm no longer included in our group vacation

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - So I am with my boyfriend for over a year , and its your typical relationships with petty fights about jealousy and everything, but we do have a good relationship. Over the last few weeks, he has changed in some ways, like always saying before he...

Is this okay to keep going to lunch with this guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - I need advice and opinions on how this situation looks from the outside looking in. The last job I had there was a guy (the boss of my boss). One day he asked me to go to lunch. While out he asked what my story was and if I was married. He is ...

In love with my best friend. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

23 March 2014 (M) - I am in love with my best friend and it's starting to tear me up. I'm mostly all for truth and confessing, but this case is a bit different, so I'm going to start with the back story. We've known each other since summer 2012, after meeting on...

How should I apologize to him? I wrongly listened to a manipulative ex-friend. He was not in the wrong.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - Hi there. I have never felt this guilty in my life before, which is why I want to seek help here. So, there is a guy in my new organization who likes me. It's been only a month now, when I joined a new job. He is different in all the ways. He comes...

Do I keep my feelings to myself? Or tell her that I like her?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

23 March 2014 (M) - There is a girl that I really like. She is kind, caring, extremely intelligent, very hard working. I had asked her out when I first met her to get to know her but she turned me down because she had a boyfriend. The reason I wanted to get to...

My current boyfriend versus. my ex... help!!! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - Hi, just going to skip to the point realy, My ex-boyfriend- i still have little feelings for him,but they aren't as extreme as some people think, i don't know what to do though. We hardly talk anymore and i'm still in teenage years so you kno...

She's leaving in two months and I'd like to be more than friends with her before that happens, but things are moving very slowly!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

22 March 2014 (M) - I've recently been on 3 relatively great dates with a girl I met online who is visiting my city for the next 2 months or so. However, it's moving a lot more slowly than I am used to -- I usually date more sexually aggressive girls because I feel ...

Is this his way of asking whether I'm single or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - I know this guy from a book club, we used to meet about 5 years or so ago. We kept in touch through e-mails. We're continents apart and whenever he writes or I write back, he addresses me like so: Dear Miss/Mrs.Name... he insists on using this we...

Are my friends right? Is my boyfriend not treating me right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - Dear Cupids out there, I really really need help :( please help me ...This is going to be a long post.. But I'm really lost at what to do. Ilove my boyfriend very much. And iI'm quite sure he loves me tpopular. He tells me he loves me. Ho...

One or two of my friends have started organising social events without me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - dear uncles/aunts; I find myself getting slightly frustrated with some of my friends. Would like some opinions. I meet varied people from all over, travelling, work, hobbies etc, and every now and again I really meet someone I grow close to. ...

Should I be upset at my boyfriend for sending my friends on facebook friend request?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - Hello I was wondering am I being silly, jealous or insecure? Should I be upset at my boyfriend for sending my friends on facebook friend request? Is this normal? He doesn't know them and I dont see the point.But could i be harboring feelings of ...

It hurts me to see my 2 friends together even though I love them both

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3896 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - Okay, well I have two close friends I love them both I dated both I still like both of this one's a boy the other a girl the boy asked if he could be friends with her as his friend I was okay with that but now... they like each other and everyday ...

Is my friend looking for a certain answer about our mutual friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

20 March 2014 (F) - my friend has been making weird references about me and our mutual friend, and I'm a little confused by his behavior. yesterday he suddenly brought this up: him: You still like ____ huh me: ____? what about _____? him: You still like him? ...

My boyfriend is tired of my friend and her lying cheating boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - I don't really know who to ask about this so I thought id give this a go. I've got a close friend who has been seeing my boyfriends friend for about a year on and off. He has cheated on her and messed her around numerous times and he was expect...

Best friend going out with the guy I like and now I feel jealous

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - Basically I fancy this guy in my class, I have done for a while. 3 weeks ago my best friend told me she also fancied him. I like to keep myself to myself so I hadn't mentioned I liked him but we texted and flirted quite often. He asked her out a ...