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female
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26-29,
*arn Olive Rive
writes: okay, its a pretty complicated case. so guy a and girl b are very good friends and over time girl b starts falling helplessly in love with guy a. at first she thinks he may have feelings for her, but now guy a has a girlfriend. despite all this, guy a and girl b truly care about each other and always argue like a married couple. the catch to this is, they are parted by religion, which is probably why guy a chose not to be with girl b. now their friendship is at the very edge as guy a thinks girl b is pushing him away. what should girl b do ???
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reader, Darn Olive Rive +, writes (24 March 2014):
Darn Olive Rive is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank You so much for the response Aunty BimBim :)
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (24 March 2014):
If guy a wants to be showered with affection girl b should tell him where to go, ie to his girlfriend. If he is now saying girl b should have mentioned she liked guy a before he got a girlfriend, girl a needs to recognise guy a is playing games with her head and stop feeding his ego.
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reader, Darn Olive Rive +, writes (24 March 2014):
Darn Olive Rive is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the response. However it is guy a who initiates the arguments. he wants girl b to shower him with care and affection, and claims that girl b should have told him about her feelings before he got into another relationship. how does girl b hold on to this ?
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (24 March 2014):
Girl b needs to accept that whilst some friendships last a lifetime, some have use by dates, and if guy a's religion is a very important facet of who he is and where he sees himself in this world, she needs to accept that!
Girl b also needs to accept guy a has never done anything to suggest anything but friendship was on the cards, and maybe guy a did not see the arguing as being of a marital nature, but more of an argumentative nature, and would prefer a more peaceful life.
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