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Archived questions from: February, 2014 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I am in a long term relationship but having lustful thoughts of another!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3918 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - I have been with my bf for 6 years. I've been happy but over the last year I have started to have lustful feelings towards a male friend. I wouldn't want to date him and I would NEVER cheat. But what does this mean? Does it mean that I don't love my ...

I want my ex back but he's not interested. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - I still like my ex but he does not want to get back with me. We are both in our thirties, and our relationship was very complicated. He had kids, I have a child, ex-partners etc etc ......it was very difficult at times for us to be happy. We live in ...

Should I back off and forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - About a month and a half ago, I was at a local bar with my best friend and his younger sister and her friend. One of their guy friends came over to the table. I will call him Michael. I had seen him around before and thought he was good looking but ...

Is she not interested? Was it too soon to tell her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

27 February 2014 (M) - Hello cupid Well, I am pursuing a girl for some time and dating for 3 months . Well, the other day I met her and told her how I feel about her ( i am attracted to her and why i like her) and she seemed shy for a moment and then she was very co...

Dumping on a girlfriend for a man you hardly know!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - My american friend (girl) has been planning to come over for a ages and so I invited her to stay with me for a few nights. She's been texting me on her progress with planning her trip for months and I got my spare room ready for her, booked a ...

Am I being unfair or irrational about his apparent lack of interest in making time for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - My LT bf works long hours, every week day and then has to do work from home at the weekend. As a result, we don't spend a huge amount of time together, usually 8.30/9-10.30 (bedtime) a few days a week and then a few hours on and off at weekend. I ...

How can I help my colleague and friend? Afraid she's having a crisis and may lose her job.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - Hi, I have a frienship question. I work with a woman who has, over the years, become a friend. Though we don't really socialise outside work, we do confide in one another when we go for lunch etc. I am fond of her. Her home life has spirall...

I feel intimidated and insecure due to boyfriend's female friends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for just under two years and we had a distant relationship for the majority of that time, although we lived within half an hour of each other for about six months. Just over a week ago we moved into a flat together. I ...

I want this new relationship to go well. How do I make it work? Because I push people away to keep them at an emotional distance from me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (M) - in my group of friends i always tend to be the one who comes up with the funny and clever comebacks insults and jokes mostly because i try to keep people at an emotional distance from me while still being "part of the group" (im actually very nice ...

I have never had anyone really love me, I feel rejected and alone!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - I am a gay female, I am not "super frilly or girly" but I am feminine and am attracted to the same in women. Im not the stereotypical gay female, I'm not into the gay scene due to not so good experiences in the past with nasty women. I...

He doesn't know how to have a conversation with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - I've been seeing a male friend for a few weeks. I think he's a lovely person... he admitted he has feelings for me last weekend and he said he wants to be in a relationship with me in the future. The only problem is, I'm confused as to whether I ...

Why is he acting like this? A late mid-life crisis?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - ok so theres this guy at work and usually i just say hi then carry on with my work. like i dont pay him much attention recently every time i walk past him he'll pretend to punch me(without making contact) /lightly punch my arm or like pretend to ...

Why am I kept separate from his friends and family after dating for over a year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating over a year. Ive only met his mom once, 2 of his friends once and that was a year ago when we first started dating. He doesnt take me around anyone for whatever reason because he says im boring. Our ...

I am friends with a guy but it's too soon after my recent break up to take it further. What can I do? I don't want to lose him as a friend or potential partner.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - I broke up with an ex about 6 weeks ago and for the past 3 weekends I've been hanging out with a male friend. He's been wonderful helping me get over my breakup but last weekend he began dropping hints how he thinks I'm "wonderful", he said loves ...

How can I get the conversation away from these topics with these people??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

24 February 2014 (?) - This may seem like a weird question but I need to ask. I have a couple of friends, (not close "see all the time friends") that I see ever few 4-10 months or so, usually for coffee/lunch. After the initial "hi how are you, whats up", etc etc the...

He lied to me about being married and now I feel wrecked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Hi, I met this guy who seemed to b really nice he treated me pretty well I don't know he was a married man, we had sex a couple of times but within 3 months he felt like he needed some space to study about a month, I felt hurt like i was gonna a ...

I've come out as gay, but don't know where to go to meet girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3922 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - I’m twenty year-old college student whom ‘came out’ as gay last October. Initially, I felt great about this as I could finally talk honestly with my friends and be myself. However, as the months drag on and I still haven’t met any girl I like and ...

Not sure if I'm bisexual or just bi-curious!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - I am really confused about my sexual orientation. I have liked guys for all my life. I feel attracted to men and sometimes in a sexual attraction,but I was always uncomfortable with the idea of sex whenever it got to where me and a guy were alone. ...

Even if I started something with this co-worker it couldn't last. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Hi, i am so disturbed because I like this guy very much.we started out as friends but he took it to another level by really engaging with me, getting at a very personal level.I have a partner but my relationship with him is not strong.This guy on ...

Should I tell my boyfriend that I'm a lesbian and get this over with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Here goes. I've been abnormal from the get-go, okay? All of my friends would blabber on and on about the floppy-haired fellow down the hall while my thoughts gravitated towards the lunch menu. I never seek out any boys myself, but I'll be damned if ...

Big Girl with Low Self Esteem. And I just lost my virginity to my married friend. What should I do now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - I’m sort of a big girl who has always had a very low self-esteem because of my size. As a matter of fact, up until a week ago I was still a virgin at 26 thanks to my insecurities. I’ve been best friends with a guy since high school that I’ve alw...

Teen guys: how to 'read' a teen girl who may have a crush on a guy. Tips

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22 February 2014 (?) - you know you like her, but you don't know if she likes you? well, no you don't, because she hasn't told you, because girls are quite shy about the topic of love. she may however, give you hints and signs. sweaty palms means she likes you. if she ...

Missing absent Bf. Have feelings for unavailable new guy who I work with. What to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - Hello Aunts, I am so sad tonight. My boyfriend and I were together for two years. There were some problems with our relationship but overall it was a good one, a beautiful one. I never once doubted his love for me, and even our "fights" we...

She's confusing me... where do I stand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

21 February 2014 (M) - I am really feeling confused with this girl. I sometimes have the impression she likes me, but I also have the impression my mind is playing tricks on me. I will begin with a small summary about me: I am a 29 yo guy who has little experience in lo...

Have I said too much too soon? Or should I be more frank with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - I am 24 years old and I struggle to act interested in guys. I have friends who are so full on with guys and scare them away that i try my best not to be like this and act uninterested usually. I work with a guy I really like who is professional but ...

My crush has an incurable illness. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - So, the guy who I'm interested in announced to the class that he had an incurable illness. He told us in november, and it's now February. I'm still not over it, and every day, I just become more and more in love with him. The day he told us, I sp...

Should I bake and take him a cake?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - I am overcoming a long, co-dependent relationship. I have looked into my childhood with help of a counsellor and I understand why I was co-dependent. In order to change and move on I've had to not only look at co-dependency in my past ...

Should I have moved in on her that night?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

21 February 2014 (M) - So I started talking to this girl like a month ago. We only started hanging out because there was a party and she wanted to go, ever since then she barely texts me or wants to hang out, we both just text each other when we know there's a party. ...

My friend seems to need to compete with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - I have a very good female friend who I am very fond of but she does seem to need to compete with me. I don;t know if this is a sign of jealousy, but she was at my house as I had invited her for tea and she suddenly said she needed to leave. I ...

My husband only sees me as a 'wife,' not as a friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - Me and my husband recently got married and recently I feel he has stopped seeing me as just his wife rather than wife and best friend. Whenever we do ANYTHING fun he calls up his buddies and invited them to join us. For example, the other weekend ...

If she isn't hiding anything, why the secrecy? Why the distance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

20 February 2014 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 months. Our relationship has been great and really seems to have a potential future, but my girlfriends behavior troubles me... Yesterday she mentioned that she was out with a friend. I'm not one to pry, ...

Help! Guy's actions towards me are confusing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - Hi guys There's this guy that keeps sending me mixed messages. A close friend of his hinted me that he has a thing for me but whenever I try to make a flirty move he backs off and tells me hes tired or its been a long day and cuts the convers...

Almost certain she does like me and I like her. But what can I do? She became distant after discovering her friend likes me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

20 February 2014 (M) - Hi everyone I need some help. I met a girl at college and we got on really well we'd talk outside college quite often and she'd even text me when I was at work asking how it was going. Then she found out that one of her friends who's in our fri...

I have 2 ongoing crushes, but I want none. How do I sort this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid Hey I'm 15 years old and still in high school and I have boy troubles. I have a crush on this boy (let's call him G) and I never felt this way about a guy before, because all the other guys in my school are jerks! The weird thing i...

Should I tell my friend I've fallen for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

19 February 2014 (M) - I have recently fallen in love with this girl who is 3 years older than me. We have known each other for 9+ years. Her brother is my best friend. When we were younger, we were like brother and sister, now we have switched to being close friends, ...

Shut my friends out because of my relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - Since getting with my boyfriend in August 2013, I've hardly seen my friends. I used to see them almost every weekend, we would go out and have drinks and have a laugh. I miss some of them alot but I'm too stubborn to admit I've been in the wrong as ...

Mixed signals from girlfriend's best friend.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

19 February 2014 (M) - I am getting confused by a girl I have feelings for. I told her a while ago I really liked her and asked her how she felt she just said I'm a no go area. She likes talking to me but says not about that and we should forget about that, but looks at...

How do we get her to back off already? She's not really a mean, vindictive person but she is sure causing a lot of trouble!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - This sounds snotty, but there's this girl who is constantly trying to butt in to our group of friends even though we try to give her kind hints that she really just doesn't fit in. At first, we tried to give her a chance. She sat down with us...

Bi Male Attracted to Straight Male

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

19 February 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a 19 year old bisexual guy with very few friends, and the friends I have are all straight guys. Recently, I have found myself very attracted sexually and romantically to one of my straight friends. When we'd drink, we usually e...

My self-esteem issues are getting in the way of my life! Advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - Hey Guys! Little situation I need some help with and your input would be great. I am a 17 year old female, and I am currently at college and I have Bipolar as many of you may know. Before I share my problem...

Husband has many female friends. They don't want to be friends with me, just him. Am I overreacting in being upset?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - My husband got a lot of female friends that called him at least 5 times a day for advice and to talk, he told me to talked to them cause they are nice and he wants us to be friends too but when I tried to reach out for them (add them on Facebook) ...

I got involved with a male colleague who's not single. Now he's cut me out of his life. How do I move on and forgive myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - Hi all I'm not asking for niceness but I feel extremely low. I stupidly fell for a guy that was attached, we were good friends and he helped me through a lot of personal stuff, he was with a girl he bought a house with. He told everyone at work...

I feel stuck and I would very much like your advice on how I can improve the quality of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

18 February 2014 (M) - I don't know where to begin. I feel empty inside. I don't have any friends and I've only been with a girl for like a month back when I was a freshman in college. Back when I was younger(I am 25 now), I use to blame all my problems on my identity as ...

My friends want to move abroad without their young-adult children

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

17 February 2014 (M) - Am interested what you think of this situation. Some friends of min are bith 52, and have 2 kids: girl of 18 and boy of 20. The parents want to emigrate from england to spain on a permanent basis. The kids dont want to go with them. But the p...

He goes to his friends first, does it mean I am not as important to him as he is to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I want to know what this means, or what others think it means. When I have a difficult time, or something troubles me, my boyfriend is the first person I go to. It is from him I seek comfort. He knows all my secrets. That is the kind of relationship ...

Am I being unreasonable in not wanting my BF to go a festival? He went last year and lied about having girls in his tent.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of almost 3 years went to Leeds festival last year. He went with his single lad friends - I had no worries as I trusted him and only asked he called/text me when he could and no girls in his tent. It went pear shaped - I barely heard fr...

Was it wrong to accept an expensive gift from my male gay best friend? I think it's made my boyfriend jealous or uncomfortable.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - My gay male best friend whom I have known for a year recently took me out for my birthday. He took me to a restaurant that neither my boyfriend and I can afford, and also gifted me a Burberry scarf ($400 value). I had already known which ...

I don't see my boyfriend as long term material and I wonder about my ex FWB. Any ideas what I should do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about a month now. Actually, we have dated before, over a year ago and it lasted about 10 months back then. We remained really good friends while we were not together, even though I was dating someone else. Afte...

He said he loves my company, but I think I'm in the friend zone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - Hello dear Aunts and Uncles, So, i have recently met a new friend (about a month ago)... The thing is i like him as more than a friend... the other thing is i don't know if there are any chances he might like me back... The night we met he gave m...

He bugged me and bugged me for a nude picture and I never gave in, but I want what we had back! Advice, please!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - Alright so this isn't really a question but more of a combination of a question and a rant. It might be really long but I really need help with this. Its kind of a long story so last year was my first year in highschool. my first seme...