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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hello cupidWell, I am pursuing a girl for some time and dating for 3 months . Well, the other day I met her and told her how I feel about her ( i am attracted to her and why i like her) and she seemed shy for a moment and then she was very composed and collective. She talked generally but only hint I could gather was : 'she takes her time to knowing a person and she knows I'm patient so its good'So I think she meant , it's still too early! Am I right about it or she's not interested or just wants a friend instead?I know she's been hurt in past so she's very prudent. Do you think I should wait for her and continue know her better for a relationship or only see her as a friend ?
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reader, brock24 +, writes (17 March 2014):
It sounds to me that she is interested in you like you said, she just wants to get to know you better. I wouldn't take it as a bad thing, just enjoy getting to know eachother, and who knows it could be the beginning of a beautiful thing! ;)
Best of luck!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2014): If she has been hurt in the past, it is likely that she just wants to keep things slow and simple. Don't jump to conclusions about her only wanting friendship. It sounds as though she wants to continue your relationship but slowly and gently.
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