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writes:Dear Cupid,I am a 19 year old bisexual guy with very few friends, and the friends I have are all straight guys. Recently, I have found myself very attracted sexually and romantically to one of my straight friends. When we'd drink, we usually end up in the same bed together, and I really enjoy being around him. I've even had very sexual dreams about this friend. Should I tell him that I am attracted to him? Reply to this Question
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reader, GUYSCW  +, writes (11 March 2014):
Hey bud.
I would suggest that you suppress those feeling for him and keep it a secret.
If he founds out he may either terminate the friendship or he might just slowly drift away.
Try and preoccupy yourself by getting to know new women in your area, attending interest groups or community events may be a good way of finding a match.
I know this sounds tough, and wasn't the answer you were looking for, but I believe it is the best course of action.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (19 February 2014):
 IF you tell him you are attracted to him and he's straight it may very well end your friendship. Many men can't handle being friends with homosexual or bisexual males. It's not fair but it's true.
And what do you think telling him will accomplish? Do you think if you tell him you will get him to experiment with you?
I'm bisexual and currently married to a man and I do not share my girl dreams with my friends that are part of my life. That would make them uncomfortable to be around me.
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