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Archived questions from: February, 2013 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

My friend thinks this guy is too old for me but I could see him being my FWB

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - A few weeks ago I went to the pub with my friend (20) her parents, her boyfriend (also 20) and her male friend from high school (who again is also 20) Her male friend had been flirting with me all night and when I had gone home, he messages me on ...

Why is my friend's boyfriend being so mean to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - one of my friends has recentally got a boyfriend who i think is very aggroant. he has only talked to me twice and both were mean things. him and my friend constantly give me nasty looks. and today he was telling his friends how ugly and fat i am. ...

It seemed like he liked me. But then nothing? How can I shake off these feelings I developed for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - I really don't know how to explain my situation. Okay, this guy and I have been friends about three months and I went down there to see my sister and this guy and I hooked up at the party she threw. He had spent the night with me and one thing le...

Girl flirting with my boyfriend at party, and then friending him on Facebook.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I were at a birthday party at a house a few weeks ago. We met a mutual friend of one of the birthday girls for the first time, a female about our age. At first she seemed really nice and we were both chatting with her. Then ...

Now that she's got a boyfriend, she doesn't shut up about him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Hello everyone I have a very good friend and she recently got into a relationship with her boyfriend but now that she's with him she doesn't shut up about him! How can I politely tell her to stop talking about him so much. Practically every time we ...

Would you apologise again or just leave things as they are?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - Long story short, I made a bit of an ass of myself at my friend's 40th birthday party at the weekend. We all got together on Saturday and spent the weekend together, I only really know the husband and wife who were giving the party, the other...

Does he actually like me and wants me to stick around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Basically I was seeing a guy I started to like to be honest he's the first guy iv liked for ages. We got on really well I met his family an he told me I'm the first girl he's brought to his familys house since his ex. He was really nice to me did t...

"My feelings haven't changed!" he said. What does he mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - So, went for a Chinese with work colleagues, one man got rather drunk and tried to kiss me at the bus stop, I pulled away and was stunned; gave him a lecture about how we were colleagues etc last night was the first time I've seen him since the ...

I've recently come out and I'm attracted to my friend. Do I tell her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I am quite tom boyish and have become very attracted to my close girl mate. She is very much into men but I can't help my feelings for her. This is very new to me as my relationships have always been with men and recently I have come out to some ...

Is this guy into harmless flirting or is he using Facebook to pick up women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Ok so I know I'm not the only person with this problem!!. I'm dating this guy Who claims to be really into me. He tells me he misses me all the time, Good morning and good night texted everyday and we talk on the phone for hours! We have been on a ...

Me or your cyberwoman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Here goes have asked questions before and it has been helpful. I met a man about two years ago, he is on the shy side and awkward. My daughter is in sports, that is how I met him. He always would come and support her at her games and fundraisers ...

Boyfriend's female friend is always at his house and no one cares about my feelings

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Every week for the past 3 months, whenever I go to my boyfriend's mums there is this girl there. This girl has openly admitted to liking my boyfriend for the past 5 years and purely doesn't like me on the bases I'm going out with him and she isn't. ...

He leaves me goes to ex..rinse, repeat. How can I trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - i feel so lost. i was married and very unhappy, i met a guy at work and at first site it was as if i stopped breathing, i instantly loved him! butterflies fireworks everything! it signified the end of my.marriage as i felt if i was in love with my ...

Why does everyone think that men and women can't be friends?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Ok, so I'm just wondering... I have seen A LOT of posts involving opposite sex friendships... and I have seen A LOT of answers that claim guys and girls can't be friends ... my question is this: films aside, where has this ridiculous idea come from? ...

Relationship Questions. Here are a few to answer or ponder on. What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Hi folks,could you please answer the following questions? 1. Do you agree with this statement? -- "Men do not want female friends. They have their friends, and aren't on the lookout for new females to add to their circle, unless, of cours...

Married friend is mad at me because I told him I won't get messed up with a married guy.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I will make a long story short. I am friends with a married guy. We work together. We are attracted to each other but have not crossed the line. Recently I opened up to him that I was involved with a guy who was married once and...

I am absolutely and completely in love with my male best friend. How do I get over him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - So I'm in my late twenties and I am absolutely and completely in love with my male best friend. Whether he feels the same as me is immaterial at the moment as he is seeing someone else, but I could really do with some tips as to how to get over him. ...

Is it a communication problem? Guys do ask me out, but whenever I date it never leads to much more than the first date.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I am 23 years old, Whenever I'v liked or been attracted to someone,that person has always asked me out.. I'm an attractive girl and these men compliment me a lot,but I don't know why it never leads to relationships! Its just a date and then I f...

I introduced the girl to my best friend. Now they are together. Trouble is I have fallen in love with the girl. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

26 February 2013 (M) - I'm 17 years old, male, and I've been best friends with this guy since elementary school. Lately I've gone insane with envy for certain aspects of his life. A key component, his relationship with his girlfriend, whom I've fallen in love with ove...

She gives me butterflies. is it normal when we think of a particular person for quite some time without even making an effort to think of them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3846 days ago

26 February 2013 (M) - Hi friends. is it normal when we think of a particular person for quite some time without even making an effort to think of them? I occasionally seem to think of this particular girl I met a couple of times before and she STILL seems to cross my ...

Is my Italian penpal starting to like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Good afternoon, I have a pen pal from Italy almost 6 months ago. I am from US but a Latin emigrant. I am 22 and he is 23. I really really like him and his exact words in his last email were: "Every time I read your plans I admire you more and mo...

My life is a mess and I can't talk to girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

26 February 2013 (M) - Ever since I'v hit puberty(15) I can't socialize, I've become very nervous and have no self-esteem. I can't even walk past strangers with some feelings of discomfort. And I can't take my eyes off hot women, but yet if they tryed to talk to me my mi...

My g/f broke up with me saying she needs to find herself but wants to be friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - Hi,I'm 20 years old and me and my girlfriend were dating for 3 years. She left me yesterday telling me that she wants to be my friend again and that she needs to find her own identity.Please help.I really want to get her back....

Should I try to continue this workplace friendship after he got sacked or quit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Hi I've got a friend at work, well we recently started chatting as of jan. I would go down to his class room(he's a teacher) and we would chat on his free afternoons about music and other random stuff, we were both into steampunk, he without my kn...

I'm straight. My gay male friend gets holier than thou when I talk dating a guy. What can I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I'm pretty much stuck in a situation where I feel like a total Fag Hag. Most of my friends are gay. I absolutely adore all of my friends, and see them as amazing people who just happen to be gay. It's my gay friends who like to socialize an...

I really like this guy. He did message me. All things considered, does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Ok i met this libra guy and we hooked up. He just start to travel and have no plan yet. He asked me if i have a bf and if i want one. i said i don't really know because i'm going away in 5 months. we clicked it of he's really sweet and charmi...

Are we Platonic or not? While telling me he's a "Player", now he wants me to meet his sister.Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - If your guy friend wants you to meet his sister(after 9 months) is my relationship with my guy friend platonic or not? Why am I confused? It's because he has been saying that she wants to meet me, and now he's actually putting something to...

I am her best friend, but I also know she cheats.How can I be her friend without having to keep her secrets?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Hello everyone. I am a romantic. I believe in love and everything it entails. However, my best friend know I have known for eleven years, is a cheater. I know it isn't my life and it's hers. I also know that it is her decision and hers al...

Should I forget about my wife's past with my friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

24 February 2013 (M) - When my wife and I got together she just come out a brief relationship with a friend of mine,he was known as a bit of a player i was relatively inexperienced at sex where my wife was very experienced and very good at sex,when I asked my wife about ...

We have to sneak around because of my boyfriend's best friend. Do I just drop both of them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

24 February 2013 (?) - i have a man i have been seeing for a three months ..i would not say we are in a relationship because neither one of us has committed however we talk on the phone everyday and i see him often. To make the story simpler though i will call him my ...

Please can someone explain this man's behaviour to me? So confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I really need the advice of someone objective! Basically I really liked this guy, and he told me he liked me too (more than once). He used to message me, offer to walk me places and would talk to me whenever he got the chance telling me how b...

Reats me like princess but says doesn't love me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4279 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - my friend treats me like his girl, like a princess, spends millions on me but he wont commit. he says he doesnt believe in love. i tell him i love him and he stays quiet. i should be thankful for what he does but i feel like im hanging in mid. and ...

I am frustrated my girlfriend can't meet me this weekend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

24 February 2013 (M) - I been seeing this girl. We are really close and she tells me she likes me. Well I know anyway the way we spend our time together. We meet once a week and she never changes her plans if for example she is meeting friends and I ask to meet. ...

How can I tell if a girl with a boyfriend also likes me? NO intention of making a move as she has a Bf.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

24 February 2013 (M) - When I first met this girl over a year ago, I asked her out but she told me she has a boyfriend. She was really nice about it though and said we could hang out and be friends. I was ok with that because I just wanted to get to know her. Over th...

He broke my hear, yet he won't leave me alone. What are my options in this situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of two years decided a week before christmas break was over and he went back to school that he wanted a break because he feels we are too young to be tied down. He's in his second year of college and I get that he feels that he hasn'...

How can I progress this? And, how do I ask the younger brother out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Hi Everyone. I am stuck. Properly stuck. My story is this. Two brothers. When I met the elder, he liked me and wanted to date me, but I decided he wasn't the guy for me. We set up a bit of a flirtation but only that. He has a girlf...

I really like this boy. Should I let him give me guitar lessons? Will it ruin a chance of a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - I really, really like someone in my class. He's so lovely to everyone and he seems really perfect to me. Me and him are both extremely musical. He comes from a musical family, (I'm friends with his twin sister who is also extremely musical), and I ...

After reading my boyfriend's messages he doesn't think I'm hot enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over half a year, today I checked his Facebook not because I don't trust him. Jus because he told me of an old friend who messaged him recently from Spain, I was interested and so decided to read it, I ...

Should I leave my boyfriend because of his addiction to cyber sex?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - Hello Dear Cupids I discovered my boyfriend had been emailing female contacts he has on yahoo and also paltalk, to talk about sex. I discovered after I checked his computer after he had repeatedly clicked off the screen quickly when I came in t...

Am I the most beautiful girl in my BFs life? Not according to his Facebook messages ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - Help I am having self esteem issues now. A couple of weeks back I got a hold of my boyfriends Facebook messages (we made an agreement that we would delete both of ours months ago). Anyway, when I read the messages I saw things that were sweet that ...

Any advice on how to make close friendships? I seem to be left out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - I am 27, have never really had a close group of friends and it upsets me that that's the case. I've had friends over the years of course, but only ever one or two at a time and often they have been born out of convenience, ie we were the only 2 ...

I resent my girlfriend because she's hot and I'm not!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - I'm a horrible person. I have a really great friend. She is by far the kindest and most sincere and loyal friend I have ever had. She's such a true friend that I truley.think if it came down to it she would throw herself in front of a car to save my ...

I'm afraid my boyfriend's flirty friend will take him away from me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 3 years. He has a female friend who is constantly flirting with him in front of me, and they have a close friendship. I am trying to keep my mouth shut, because I don't know if I can talk to them both ...

Did I ruin things? How can I get things back to the way we were at the start, flirting and saying nice things to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - Dating advice needed! Recently my school talent show was on and I took part in it! I became really close to this boy, the DJ, and I slowly started to love him. We got so close at the show and I was disappointed when it was over because I thought we ...

Am I the fall back girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - hello aunts and uncles, please bear with me as this is a long story.. I'm not sure where to begin with this, basically 7 years I ago I started talking to someone via an Internet site, at the time we had both come out of bad relationships bu...

I love my guy, but recently he started insulting me a lot, and we fight. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 10 months now. Initially it was all great between us. We were like the completely in love couple. But in the past few months things have gone haywire. We have started fighting a lot. Its majorly over this guy wh...

What's your opinion on his actions on Facebook? we are dating but he "likes" girls on FB.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I noticed theres a girl that my boyfriend works with and he "likes" a lot of her photos on facebook. Should i ignore it or ask why does he always like her photos and tell him i dont like it? (even though it may start a fight) I dont "like" or comme...

That are some good opening words to start a conversation with a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (M) - So I know their are a few threads out here, but I really need some help or steps I like a couple of girls at my school, and one girl was from my highschool who I'm fond of. I'm a short guy 5'3" and I have a Hispanic accent I've erased my Faceboo...

Based on the rules in my workplace: If we just go out on a date here and there, would that be what they call a relationship? Could our employment be terminated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

22 February 2013 (M) - I work at a private school. There are rules of conduct for the staff. One of the rules is relationships are not permitted between staff. I am very attracted to a co worker and I can tell she has a serious interest in me. I know why these rules ...

I'm feeling isolated, lonely and I'm going stir crazy. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I moved from a big city to a very small town to be with my fiance. In my fiances line of work, he can't talk about anyone or his work because of privacy laws, so there is never any work talk from him. Due to his position he can't really become fr...