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She gives me butterflies. is it normal when we think of a particular person for quite some time without even making an effort to think of them?

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Question - (26 February 2013) 5 Answers - (Newest, 3 May 2014)
A male Papua New Guinea age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi friends.

is it normal when we think of a particular person for quite some time without even making an effort to think of them?

I occasionally seem to think of this particular girl I met a couple of times before and she STILL seems to cross my mind - even today.

I get all butterflies in my stomach when I think of her and the thoughts that follow are quiet romantic. Is it telepathy? can we think and feel what another person does even if they're far away?

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A female reader, jamilla United Arab Emirates +, writes (3 May 2014):

hi , i think that's cute!but the only solution to pacify that kind of feeling is for you to blurt it out to her,try to find her in facebook,etc etc and reconnect with her.make friends and know her better,so you would understand y you're feeling that way and u will know if you have a chance.waiting is not a good choice,you have to do something to work out/build a relationship with the one that you like,you'll never how she feels for u unless u try to ask and be connected with her :)

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A female reader, when nothing goes right go left United Kingdom +, writes (26 February 2013):

when nothing goes right go left agony auntI doubt its telepathy but it does seem like you like her and it is normal to get that butterfly feeling and think about her especially if you used to get that feeling when you used to see her. So if you are willing to wait for her then go for it with her and you could try and add her on facebook.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2013):

How wonderful to hear that men can't get a women out of their heads either! I thought it was just us women who dream of the men we meet. And, I don't mean crazy stalker obsessed. I mean that warm fuzzy feeling of a cute/tender/special thing they did or said.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2013):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

That particular girl moved to another country - late dec last yr. I never got the chance to know hr well enaf bt she seemed much interestd but I was caught up with my high demanding job. But she'll be back in 2yrs time - with her family (the usual; mom/dad goes for further studies, everyone goes along with). In addition, I'm not the one initiating all these thoughts, emotional and romantic butterfly in the gut feelings (was kinda telepathic curious so I asked) - not attached in any way.

Thanks n peace:)

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A female reader, sneha09 India +, writes (26 February 2013):

sneha09 agony auntThat's an awesum feelng u no...u shud not let it go..just say her if possible...i dnt no if all get that thing or not but when you get be sure its a true and very hearty feelings.

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