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writes:So I know their are a few threads out here, but I really need some help or stepsI like a couple of girls at my school, and one girl was from my highschool who I'm fond of.I'm a short guy 5'3" and I have a Hispanic accent I've erased my Facebook and I have a phone because I figured I can do better than talking to some girl on a chat.. It is too easy to do anything or too easy to be lied too So I joined student council, I got into college, and I have a high GPA I have a job interview coming up. I figured I could work on my shape and get new clothes to look sharper But what can I do in the mean time?How do I start a conversation?Also if you have any advice good or bad I'm more than willing to listen
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (23 February 2013):
 "Hi".
That's how you start a conversation. You might also follow up with a "How are you today?". And then perhaps tell a little something about what you've been up to today that might be amusing.
It wont always get you anywhere, but if you talk to enough people (women), then eventually you are bound to find someone who is interested in continuing the conversation and maybe take it to the next level. Just don't push it, if she doesn't want to talk any longer let her go. There are other women to talk to.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (23 February 2013):
 Great that ur a face to face guy. Key in on eye contact n body language it speaks volumes to women. Make eye contact smile n wait for her to break it then approach n say hi. Start a convo by something interesting not sports or news. Something like a recommendation or directions or a unique news story like some woman found with 50 cats in her house loool make sumthin up if u have to. Women like creative refreshing convo. When talking to her face her n dont fidget n smile n look at her face. Do not n I repeat do not compliment her on anything esp looks. Or she will immediately think youre a butt kisser wuss or only after IT. Its ok to tease once u break ice n neg a little. Since ur a shorter guy youll have to show her u have a lot of confidence n one way to do that is by bringing up ur height urself in convo so u show her u dont care what others think. U can easily talk like ur my height if u project confidence. Good luck.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (22 February 2013):
My brother in law is Guatemalan and about your height with an accent. He's had to learn that he may not be every woman's type, so you can't take rejection personally. He's had decent success with women because he's not intimidated by them. All races and heights. I can't recommend any lines, I'm not a fan of them. I just talk with a girl when it feels natural, maybe compliment her shoes or something to start a conversation. Don't be afraid to ask them out to coffee if you get the slightest hint they are interested. Coffee is great because it's not a real date, but it can give you enough time to see if you may be compatible with them. Good luck!
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