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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

My room mate tries to steal attention from guys that are talking to me. How can I deal with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I'm currently in uni, living with three room-mates (all girls), who I have been friends with since high school. Because we all live in the same all-girls residence, we often do things together- especially residence parties. Recently, my one roommate ...

I am in love with my best mates girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Hekp me. I am in love with my best mates girlfriend but they have only been going out 2 weeks. She is a great person and i really fancy her. But this is my best mate who is a great guy and deserves her. I haven't told them. What do i do, what do i ...

I've been backstabbed at work. What can I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - This isn't about boyfriends but relationships at work, so i am not sure if it counts. My friends have never had this happen to them though so i dont know who to ask for advice. This is basically my problem... I am finding it hard in my new job. ...

I'm getting married next week, do I tell my fiance I have slept with his best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - me and my fiance are getting married next week but i have slept with his best friend, what do i do, ruin there friendship and my wedding or stay quiet...

Can a relationship with someone who values their friends over their girlfriend, really work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I have a friend who Im interested in being more with him, and im pretty sure he likes me back, however Im not sure if it would be a good idea because he has this attitude/beleief that friends always come before girls, so 'bros before hoes' type of ...

Do I tell my married friend I want more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Married friend really not happy with her relationship.Staying for the two children age ten and twelve. Should I tell her that I would like to be more than friends or just leave it? I feel shes interested in me also but neither of us would agree in ...

In my relationship, I miss my family and friends who live a long way away. It's affecting our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - HI I have a wierd guestion ... Don't know where to start. Me and my BF have a great relationship .. I know that he loves me and I love him. He is year younger ... has his whole family here in NY, his friends, job .. his whole entire life ......

Will his girlfriends think I'm immature?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm in an age gap relationship. I am 18, and my boyfriend is in his 20s. Everything is wonderful so far, we've been dating for about 7 months. I've met his family, he's met mine, he's met my friends, everyone gets along, wo...

I helped her with tones of things and we were close. But she came back from vacation as a whole different person!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I think this is my lowest point... hello everyone, i have this friend, and she used to be very nice until she went away on vacation, she came back as a whole different person... we talk over IM and phone for hours, because we went to the same ...

A colleague fancies me, but he knows I love my partner with all my heart, so as a result, he wants to quit his job! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - i am 24 and in a happy relationship with my partner to with im engaged to i work at asda and i have friend called mike we are good mate and have been there for each other at our time of need but resantly i have resived text messages frome him sayin ...

Is it wrong to have the "all or nothing" mentality?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Is it wrong to have the "all or nothing" mentality? Must we remain friends? Is it ok if you have no interest in being a friend to a woman who (place excuse here) and just wants to be friends. We have been close friends for 2 years and now th...

I've met a beautiful new girl... But conversation seems a little arkward! What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Confused about a girl. Ok we'll theres this girl I saw today in my gym class and as soon as I saw her I was like OMG, she was like the prettiest girl I have ever seen. I am very into vampires, and lets just say she looked like a slightly darker ...

If I do the bad guy thing

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I am 21 soon id like to think I know a bit since I had a crap life my girlfriend cheated on me and I gave her a 2nd chance and she cheated on me with 2 guys at the same time why do things like this happen to nice guys. Well I don’t think I am a ...

I've liked this guy for 6 years. What do you do when you find out you like a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Hi, this is a really stupid time to ask this and am stupid for not asking earlier. But hey am still going to ask I've liked a guy for 6years and still think about and might still have some feelings for him, am 14 he's 14 anyways i haven't told him ...

She said she was 'in love with me for that while back there.' What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Hi. I'm in a strange relationship situation. I've been friends with this girl for about an year. I always liked her but never thought she felt the same towards me, so I decided to let it go the way it was and remain friends.. I never told her h...

I can't get enough of the hot sex that my affair gives me! But I feel bad for betraying my bf. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I've got a boyfriend, but recently I had sex with another girl. It was so amazing, I had the best orgasim I have ever had, I enjoyed it so much more than I do with my boyfriend. We've been doing it in secret ever since, just for a bit of fun. W...

He misunderstood what I said, and became rather distant. What should I do so that he will meet me when I travel to B next month?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I have known a guy since November 2004 during my trip to Michigan through a friend. He texted me everyday. As he stayed in Michigan and I was in New York, we could not see each other but only communicate through sms or he will call me once a week. ...

I think my bf has been hanging out with my ex! It's weird, b/c when I introduced them they didn't get along! This is so odd! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Last week a friend of mine told me that my boyfriend has been spending time with my ex-b/f. I asked her if it was true, and she said, yes, she'd seen it several times during the week. I've only introduced my boyfriend to him once, and they ...

My bf and I are on break since last week. I've met a new, older man who is a family friend - should I spend the night with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Im 18, and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (21) for nearly 18 months, i love him very much and i rely on him, as i am not close to anyone in my family, i havent got a job at the moment, as i finished my A-Levels in June and now am ...

Should my friend and I have sex the night we get drunk? We're both virgins and I've never had a bf!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - So me and my best friend steven and i are spending the night at our older friends house this saturday night.both of our parents think we're spending the night at someone elses house.We're gonna drink,and get drunk,he's my best friend in the whole ...

My ex has started speaking to me again, and I'm replying to her. But am I just headed for MORE heartache?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - My question is this: My ex has started speaking to me again, and I'm replying. But am I just headed for more heartache? I posted a question just yesterday telling how miserable I was (Because yesterday, I really was miserable over the situation...

I'm attracted to my roommate even though I've been straight my whole life! What should I do? Am I gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - hi.. i have been straight all my life.. but lately, i think i'm attracted to my friend, who is also my roommate. i so wanted to kiss her. but then, i know for a fact that she's not gay. i'm scared that she wouldn't kiss me back.. or worse, that i ...

I think I love my straight friend! How can I tell if she likes me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - i like my friend but shes straight. i like one of my friends, we have become really close i am bi. but no one knows that im bi i started to have strong feelings for this friend for about a year. i think its love because i cant stop thinking about he...

I told my FWB that I'm being tested for cancer and he left! Just how shallow is a FWB situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Here's one for you women in friends with benefits situations - Guys just how shallow is a FWB situation? I recently told my "good friend" of 9 months that I had to be tested for cancer and he emailed me that it was a good time for him to disappear...

I want to know if my ex and I can have a relationship again; he asked his friend who I had a casual relationship with to stop flirting w/ me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6255 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I can't seem to get over my first love, Andy. We split five years ago and one year later we began hanging out again but he would not take me back. Two years ago he moved in with Leigh, a good male friend of mine. Leigh and I had an ongoing ...

My friend and I like the same guy, but she never talks w/ him! Should I say hi instead and tell him he's hot?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - im 11 years old and i really like this guy kyle i mean like hes really cute and nice but the problem is that my friend likes him to and im trying to be supportive of her but she just wont say hi to him and i really like him and hes 2 of my friends ...

Still have feelings for my ex... Was it best that we remained friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6255 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend on and off for over a year and i fell in love with him. We split up and i tried to move on, still having feelings for him. I'm currently in a relationship with 1 of his best mates but i stil miss my ex and think about him ...

Is there anything wrong with spending the night with your best friend in the world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Is it so wrong for 2 best friends who have known each other all their lives to sleep in the same bed and have a cuddle just somehting like 1 night a week at the most? Because me and my best friend do this and it is only fore a cuddle and to sleep ...

My ex wants to be sex buddies

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i broke up because he didnt want a relationship, as we will be movin away to university next year. it was so hard for me, but we have kept very close. Three Months on. He told me he misses havin me around, still loves me, and st...

It is so painful to be friends with my ex, but I really want her back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - OK here goes. Me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago and i feel im doing everything to push her further and further away. We were together for four years. She recently started university and she told me she had just kissed one guy but loves th...

Today is the day I want to tell my friend how much I care for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Its been a long time coming and i have decided today is the day that i'm gona tell my 'good friend' (as he calls us) that i have feelings for him. but i dont know how to start it off. we have known each othe since aug 2006 and we become really go...

It seems as if I wind up in many bad relationships. How do I break this vicious cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - It seems as if I wind up in many bad relationships. First, it was just the friends that liked to cause a little trouble. Then, friends that project a certain image they want in a friend on me and when I don't fit to what they want, I'm insulted. ...

We have a great relationship, but lately I feel he's growing further away from me! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Ok so i guess i should start by saying that my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 10months now. Things were a bit strange to start off with; we were best friends before. Anyway, we have a great relationship but lately i feel he's grow...

My boyfriend of 3 years have moved away to University. He's getting on better with the girls than the guys. I'm so worried!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I'm 18 and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years has moved away 2 uni. we're each others first love and used to see each other everyday.we were unseperable. now he's moved away im finding it so difficult. everytime i speak to him (which isnt that often) ...

Deep feelings for my female best friend! Could we ever have something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6257 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Me and my best friend who's a girl have been mates since we were little n we are now both 16. I have had deep feelings for her for ages and by that i mean years you wouldn't believe how in love with her i am. I stop at hers alot of weekends soetimes ...

I have issues with self-confidence, and I get jealous when my girlfriend and her friends talk about hot guys. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Hey - I'm a schoolkid and I think I have serious self confidence issues about the way I look etc. I have a girlfriend who I really love, its just... She talks to her friends and stuff about who in our year is fit/hot etc, and I kind of get the ...

I want him to know that I like him, without telling him. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6251 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I really like this guy and have done for a year. My friends call me a flirt so if I flirt with him he'll just think i'm being myself. Sometimes i think he flirts with me but maybe thats how he is. I want him to know i like him without me accualy ...

My friend has just had a baby who might not make it. How can I comfort her and tell her I'm here for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - My co-worker friend just had a baby 3 months early and nobody knows if he is going to pull through. I messaged her through our company email (she just moved, so this is the only way I could contact her; don't know her new contact info!) letting her ...

Why has my friend changed so much and keeps blocking me out?