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writes: Hekp me. I am in love with my best mates girlfriend but they have only been going out 2 weeks. She is a great person and i really fancy her. But this is my best mate who is a great guy and deserves her. I haven't told them. What do i do, what do i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007): well im having the same problems and his gf likes me back but go for it dude ( oh but make sure ur secretive my m8 thinks im flirtin with his gf im doin more than flirtin ) lol yeah just go for it
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reader, Hope to Help +, writes (1 October 2007):
Your attraction is dangerous and could be destructive all round. The most likely outcome to this should you continue down this path, is that you, your friend and his girlfriend all end up going your separate ways with a great deal of ill feeling. It is possible that your attraction is due to her unavailability, and if you did break them up, and you did start a relationship with his girlfriend, you would be dissapointed once the novelty wore off. I think you would do well to make a more conserted effort to find someone of your own. It is not easy but you have to remind yourself that your friend and his girlfriend are happy and that that happyness also awaits you with someone else that will not destroy your friendship.
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