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I think my bf has been hanging out with my ex! It's weird, b/c when I introduced them they didn't get along! This is so odd! What do I do?

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Question - (28 September 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Last week a friend of mine told me that my boyfriend has been spending time with my ex-b/f.

I asked her if it was true, and she said, yes, she'd seen it several times during the week.

I've only introduced my boyfriend to him once, and they were frosty with one another at the time.

I tried phoning him, but every time I do phone him, I get through to answerphone or no reply.

One night I tried to get him to spend time with me by seducing him with a romantic night in at my house, but he just said "he had stuff to do!"

I've tried to talk to him about it, but he's just showing no interest in me.

He's supposed to be moving into mine in two weeks - what should I do about this situation??

It's an odd situation and I just don't know what to do about it!

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A male reader, Dr T Ireland +, writes (29 September 2007):

hmmm... did you and previous BF not end on good terms?

Either he knows something that your current BF didnt want to hear (but asked about before he committed to moving in with you) or maybe XBF wants you back and is getting the competition out of the way?

Without ego ask yourself which is it?

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A female reader, lovejunkie Canada +, writes (28 September 2007):

lovejunkie agony auntIs he gay?

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A female reader, towapa United Kingdom +, writes (28 September 2007):

towapa agony auntWeird. Maybe your ex has told your current boyfriend some stuff about you, that's why he kind of blanking you out? I think you need to talk to him about him hanging out with your ex, otherwise you'd never find out on what's going on with him!

Take care.

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