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writes:I've got a boyfriend, but recently I had sex with another girl. It was so amazing, I had the best orgasim I have ever had, I enjoyed it so much more than I do with my boyfriend.We've been doing it in secret ever since, just for a bit of fun.We don't love each other, were only doing it because of the great sex. I love my boyfriend, but I feel bad about this secret affair. Although me and my boyfriend have been having the best sex ever while I'm having this affair, because I'm so horny.What should I do? I really can't get enough of this girl, but then I feel I'm betraying my boyfriend. I don't want to break up with him because I love him so much, but I don't want to stop this affair because it gives me so much pleasure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): I'm telling you this as 40 years aged male, U R a little promiscuous, well thats ok as long as you have the control, U R young and U can try many other sex fantasies that U might like and you should enjoy them so take it easy...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): One part of me is saying ; tell your BF now, or just move on but what youre doing to him is very wrong. If its wrong for you too then be true to yourself, alas you cant have your cake and eat it.
On the other hand you could always invite him in? (This is the primal male coming out here)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): I would take some time out from both and see how your feelings run because at the moment you are caught between the safety of your boyfriend and the excitement of the affair - I presume the girl knows about your boyfriend? If its just about sex it should be relatively easy to stop. I suggest exploring your own sexuality more before committing to any more relationships as people (your boyfriend) do have feelings and you only have to read other posts on this website to know what a long term devastating affect finding out someone has cheated can have - and your case may be particularly difficult for him. Why not try some sex toys or porn for yourself and indulge in your own fantasies for a while that do not impact on anyone else. This could help you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): Your properly BI. You should really split with both of them, you could find a girl who you love and have a great sex with. But if you want to be with your b/f, split with this girl. You're young, exploring so you shouldn;t be tied down at your age
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (28 September 2007):
 you need to be honest because it is unfair on your boyfriend. he will find out and will feel completely humiliated, not just because you're having an affair but it's with a girl.
you never know, he might like the prospect of a threesum, most guys would give there right arm for it, and if you explain it's only about the sex, he might be understanding. but it's a long shot, a very big long shot but worth the chance?
best of luck
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reader, Pinkbees09  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 Think about it this way, you don't love the girl, you [[hopefully]] love your boyfriend, its an easy decision to make. It's just doing it that's the hard part. You don't have to tell your boyfriend about the girl but just gradually stop seeing her, period. Hope this helps.
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