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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi.. i have been straight all my life.. but lately, i think i'm attracted to my friend, who is also my roommate. i so wanted to kiss her. but then, i know for a fact that she's not gay. i'm scared that she wouldn't kiss me back.. or worse, that i would lose her friendship if i tell her how i feel.. does these feelings make me gay? or is this some kind of an unfulfilled fantasy? i'm in agony..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): hey hey!! my big thanks to the two gents who responded to my agony.
it's been ages.. and im happy to say that last 16th of March 2008.. that sweet heartfelt kiss happened.. turns out she felt the same way i did.. i know, i know.. too good to be true, but we're off to give it a shot. we are both new to this. and as what they always say.. we're goin to play by the ear.. :)
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reader, rcn  +, writes (29 September 2007):
 no it doesn't make you gay. your feelings are normal. look at women, they're beautiful. men look at women, and i've never dated a women who didn't at least look at them and compare against themselves.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 Maybe this is just a phase you are going through, if it is then in time it will pass. I would refrain from trying to kiss your room mate, you said yourself she is not gay and trying to kiss her could cause unessesary complications to your relationship with her. I would just ride it out, over time this fantasy will diminish, time is the healer of all things.
Good luck x
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