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*achakaRoni
writes: I need a guys opinion for this one, please.I have this guy, we were fuck buddies or at least thats what we still are meant to be but we dont have sex any more. Ive known him a year but from june-august I didnt see him as I went to austria for a few months and then when I got back I started to see someone else. Then he wanted to see me, but not for sex. he took me out places- which he didnt used to. he says he enjoys spending time with me and he fancies me. the other week he even said "what if, hypothetically, Im not saying its going to happen I wanted things to be exclusive?" and also one night after we had a nice time he hugged me and we kissed good night- which he doesnt usually do.And then last night when I asked why we dont have sex after a few questions he said "is it really important?" well if we are meant to be fuck buddies, I would say it is. So what I want to know guys, is what does this mean?Thanks in advancexxx Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Sandman +, writes (26 September 2007):
Yeah, sounds like he wants a relationship to go along with the sex.
So the question then becomes do you continue on and have a meaningful relationship with your casual sex partner - or do you dump him and find a new fuck buddy?
Hope this helps.
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reader, woodsc21 +, writes (26 September 2007):
It means that he wants to take your alls friendship/relationship past the sex only stage. He cares for you, and maybe during your alls time having sex feels that he loves you. He most likely wants to date you and wants to know how you feel about him.
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