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My boyfriend of 3 years have moved away to University. He's getting on better with the girls than the guys. I'm so worried!

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Question - (26 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm 18 and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years has moved away 2 uni. we're each others first love and used to see each other everyday.we were unseperable. now he's moved away im finding it so difficult. everytime i speak to him (which isnt that often) he's telling me how much of a good time he's having. He also mentioned that he was getting along with the girls more than the guys, this worried me. I dont no wot to do, i dont no if i can go on like this for 4 years (i havnt seen him yet n probably wont see him for another month).I'm starting to dream about other guys aswell, am i just looking for comfort or is there more to it than that?

Im feeling really left behind wot do u think i should do? do u think he'll end up cheating?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008):

Hey :)

I am in the exactly same situation as you and I find it so hard to! All over his facebook is photos of him and girls!

I know I can trust him.. I just can't trust other girls!

I'm seeing my boyfriend after a long month..

things are gettin easier though :)

after you see eachother it gets lots better!

Just make sure you tell him how you feel and maybe say your a bit worried.. this will make you feel better gettin off your chest.. he's probably worried about you to!

Please update me how it goes :)

x

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A female reader, superbunny United Kingdom +, writes (26 September 2007):

superbunny agony auntYou're just used to feeling really close to him, honey! Now he's been torn away you're bound to be feeling all insecure and jealous of girls he's with. Well, I'd look at it this way: if he's out with the lads - they'll be out on the pull, if he's out with the girls - they'll be out for some fun! :] x

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