New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in October, 2007, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (11), 2 (5), 3 (9), 4 (11), 5 (7), 6 (4), 7 (6), 8 (7), 9 (3), 10 (8),
11 (11), 12 (1), 13 (5), 14 (3), 15 (4), 16 (4), 17 (6), 18 (6), 19 (8), 20 (1),
22 (6), 23 (5), 24 (4), 25 (5), 26 (12), 27 (4), 28 (8), 29 (5), 30 (7), 31 (5),

Archived questions from: October, 2007 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Do I like him or am I just missing him as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6250 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I have a friend who I am very close to. He has a gf. The other day he told me that he really likes me and finds me really attractive. But i didnt want to get between him and his gf. But recently i havnt been able to see him (i am ill), and i have...

Braces will make me feel worse about my appearance. I feel ugly, what can I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I am a 15 and i regard myself as ugly, i have only ever had one proper boyfriend and i am about to get braces. I know i shouldnt be talking like this but i do have really low self esteem. No one has ever told me i am pretty or beautiful and lets ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - there is a boy in my year (year 10) at my school who i really like, but he likes me as a best mate, not a crush. the problem is, he is the most popular and well known-kid in the school and some people have never heard of me. what do i do? do you ...

My boyfriend wants to be there for girls night out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Any ideas on how I handle this one. I am having a 'girlie' night at my house on Friday with nine old friends and my boyfriend who loves cooking has offered to cook us all a curry, preparing it Thursday and then coming after work on the Friday to do ...

Even though it is just a friendship, since she kept it a secret I am disturbed and want it over

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - 8 months ago I discovered my wife was emailing an old guy friend I had never met that she had known from high school. She had written like 40 emails, all very long, one a day. I was very hurt and mad that she did not even bother telling me as ...

What should I do? I love a fellow student, as well as some of my teachers!! What am I suppose to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - hi, im 15 years old and i need some pro advice. i am atracted to serveral girls and teachers (female) at my school in scotland. mainly all the girls i like are daft anoying, unable to shut up sluts. but one girl who hangs around with the people...

My best friend was going out with a guy for a while. She left him, and me and him had a "thing", but now she wants him back because she's in love with him! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - my best friend was going out with this guy for a while, but then she broke up with him and now she wants 2 get back with him and she is proper in love with him but me and him have got a little "thing" goin on and she is proper into him and i duno ...

He went and told his friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I gave my boyfriend head in the school bathroom and he went and told his friend and she asked me about it i told her no i didn't how do i tell him to not tell our business to anyone?...

Shall I settle for second best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - There is this girl who asked me out i kinda like her but i also like this other girl who will never like me. i am afraid if i say yes to the girl i might break her heart.what do i do?...

A have a serious crush on a guy at work but I'm married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I have been married almost three years, I have a two year old and my relationship with my husband is great. I have a crush on a guy at work. A serious crush. I'm talkin' when I unexpectedly see him, I get flustered and I can't concentrate. When I a...

What does it mean when a girl plays with her hair whilst she's chatting to you?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - Hey What does it mean when a girl plays with her hair whilst she's chatting to you?...

Should I draw his attention to this matter or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Hi to everyone. I have my conscience troubling me and find I'm unable to cope and even sleep! My friend(female) who I didn't liked much, but have been in a certain relations this past year, and I don't know why, simply find it hardly to dump her, I ...

Breaking up, best friends, a teacher that hate me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - My boy friend just broke up with me and I don't why. Everybody told me that I still have fellings for him and one person told me that I was smothering him, but I never hang around him! I also have another inquiry about my best guy friend. I just g...

I am bi-sexual. Should I tell my friend I fancy her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I have known my best friend for about two years now. She knows im bisexual and she doesnt act weird about it. I am single and so is she. I fancy her. I have fanceied her for around about four months. I have tried to give her bits of hints but ...

What does he mean when he says he has fallen for me but doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - hiyyya, i'm really baffled a little help can go a lonnnnng way in makin me feel more LESS confused haha welllll... i've liked this lad for a while and only recently found out that he likes me back! :D massive complication though :( he's been t...

How do I make her feel more included??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - Hi i've just come across this website so i don't know if this is a type of question you can help me with but i'll give it ago. I'm 16 currently at college/6th form. About 5 weeks ago there was a new girl came into our college, she is in nearly a...

Is he kidding or is he serious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - Hi There's this guy at work, (just a friend) who say he would like to ask me out, but that i'm too good looking and would make him work like a mule to keep me. So it wouldn't be worth it, because I would eventually end up with some handsome gu...

Is he playing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Hi all, thanks for reading this. I've been dating a guy casually since January of this year. We're not exclusive. We hang out in the same social circle. He says he doesn't want anyone to know we're dating, because I once dated someone else in the ...

Now that roommate and I live separately, time to try a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - I'm having a difficult time interpreting a friends' actions. She and I lived together for some time and before I moved out for law school we had become particularly close/flirtatious. I had never thought it was a good idea to pursue anything ...

Why would someone choose to live like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - I am at my wit's end. My roommate/ex-boyfriend has had terrible hygiene for as long as I can remember. He has not showered in over two months. Many people cannot fathom going that long without a shower, but I am not exaggerating when I say it has ...

How do I bring up this subject to him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - HELP!!! i divorced my husband 3 years ago because it wasn't working out, we had been together since we were at school and always stayed in touch. Recently we have started seeing more of each other as friends but things are getting very close. We ...

She says she likes me as a friend, but she's not continuing that relationship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - Hi, I met this girl who is a orpan,adopted by a holland couple when she was a yr old.She was adopted from bombay(india).She had come to India for around 14 dayz.When we had gone out for the 1st time we talked a lot about our cultures and stuff li...

My girl is acting weird. Does she want me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - My girl is acting funny. Last night on the phone I tried to fix our relationship problem, but she said she was "too tired" to keep talking. I called her back shortly after words, because my mom unplugged the phone because we went over the hour time ...

I moved to a friend's house so that my ex who abused me wouldn't find me. Now my friend is acting controlling, how to I save our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

28 October 2007 (?) - i dont know where to start with my problem i was abused by my partner six weeks ago and the police were called. i havent seen my ex partner since that day and dont intend to again the problem is i was scared to be on my own and moved out to a male ...

My crush has a gf, who I think doesn't deserves him! Should I forget him or wait?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - MY friend has a question, and doens't have an acconnt, soo she is using mine: So i like a Guy, He's everything that i've always wanted in a guy, hes Sweet, Funny, Outgoing, fun, and just someone to talk to, hes my One of my bestfriends. we've ...

Is nsa sex ok with my friend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - I just split up with my boyfriend and i have been in touch with a lad from school who i always had a soft spot for but we were good friends. We have just been talking and he was someone who didnt no my ex so it was nice to talk. im not ready fo...

Is he giving me space or ignoring me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up about 3 months ago now. It's his 21st birthday in 2 days and I feel like I have to acknowledge him in some way, but don't want to look desparate. We'd been going out for 2 years, and were friends before that. He'd ...

Do I let him know I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - i need serious help. Ive liked someone for 3 years its been on and off but now he says he doesn't fancy me anymore. For months ive said i dont like him incase it ruins our friendship or he thinks he is better than me. But yesterday i got drunk with ...

Best friends,..or more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (M) - My best friend is a girl. I have feelings for her for quite some time. Anyway, we came to a point where i can openly tell her that i love her. She also tells me the same thing. Thing is, we are more than just friends. We are very physically and ...

I'm at a loss. I want my boyfriend to love and respect me as he once did. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i have bn together for a yr n 4months i love him to death and i no he loves me too.lately tho it seems that all we do nemore is fight. he used to call me all the time c wat i was doing, but that doesnt happen nemore, i have to ...

Do I tell him I'm a virgin or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - Hello, I was wondering if anybody could help me? I am 20 (almost 21) years old and at university. I am still a virgin, mainly because I am very shy around guys and have always got cold feet whenever I got close to getting intimate with a guy. But ...

Long story - I need advice please...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - Okay, here is what I need advice on. I've been seeing this girl for almost 2 years. the last 8 weeks has been the hardest. She has a friend that lives in San Fransisco. 8 weeks ago she goes up to hang out with her friend. She likes to go out to ...

How can I tell her I love her without ruining our friendship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - I'm 16, I love a girl but I didn't tell her that because I'm not confident about myself. I'm not so tall and handsome. We're saying to each other that we're just good friends, nothing more. Now I want to build a strong image of myself to her ...

Was he just nervous or not wanting to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6266 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - Was he just nervous or not wanting to be with me? Is it a common thing that if you've told your feelings for another guy over msn and that we were very expressive, yet in person he seems nervous (maybe awkward, or defensive)? He seemed so enthus...

Am I just a late bloomer or do you think it could be something else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - Hey. I'm 15 and I've never been kissed. I've also never had a 'normal' relationship. I was never interested, but it got weird recently seeing loads of girls my age involved in them. I had one once, but it lasted a week and I hated it. This prob...

I want to get too know him, but I feel so arkward! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6266 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - I've been noticing that a guy I met recently has been acting more flirtatious with me. When we speak online, we're fairly familiar with each other, we make jokes, and we're generally flirty with one another. I was afraid that me being in second-year ...

My best friends mum

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - i live in glasgow,scotland and i am 31, i want to shag my best freinds mum but i dont know how to go about it she has great big tits. my freind lives away from home so it's just her living herself, one time i was at my freinds own house at ...

How can I get off with him without upsetting my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - I fancy my friends' boyfriend. But it's not as simple as that. She Doesn't fancy him much. She said so herself. She Doesn't want to dump him because he's 'sweet'. but i acctually like him properly. i also think he likes me to, but i dont want to do ...

How do I avoid losing my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - okay well i have a little problem atm. Im 17 and theres this girl 15 lets call her lucy, who i have known all my life. we have always been so close, and she comes to me when she has a problem and she can also keep me smiling even when im down. and ...

I'm not getting any younger, where can I meet someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - Friend's tell me I should try to get out and have fun but god at my age I don't really know where to go..Thinking about just taking more classes this semester. I mean I work in a bar and am in college, I find when I am home,I clean and worry about ...

I broke up with my boyfriend who cheated on me, Is it bad for me to have feelings for his best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years!!! uhh i know, I am now 25. I come to find that he continously chaeted on me throughout the entire relationship. I moved to fla with him so he could go to school and all. I had absolutly no idea. He ...

I want to meet up with this guy, is he blowing me off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - Last week I e.mailed this guy I'd met vaguely through work colleagues, and asked him out for a drink. He mailed me back and we sent another couple of messages, and he said he'd phone at weekend. He didn't! I e.mailed him 3 days later, very ...

I still want to be friends with my ex, but he ignores me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - Well, me and my ex's relationship hasen't been going well lately. It all started when i started hanging out with my old friends who can get on people nerves a little bit. And since i've been hanging out with them i guess i've been getting on his ...

When I date friends and it doesn't work out, I lose them as friends! It makes me wonder, why bother in the first place.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - I thank anyone who responds to my question. My question is why is that you can have someone of the opposite sex as a wonderful friend and after you get involved with them and it does not work out...you lose a friend. I am never able to be friends ...

Is this such a big deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - so a few months ago i was at a party with a bunch of friends, we were celebrating the birthday of another friend. some drinking went on, and one friend really likes to talk while she's tipsy. so she had one on one talks with all of us. i didnt ...

At first my guy wouldn't commit, now he says he will, what are his intentions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - Ive been friends with this guy for a while now, but we only became close friends recently. We went out on a few dates and at first he said he wanted to wait before making the commitment of going into a relationship, I said I understood because he ...

He knows how to make a girl feel wanted when he wants, last time we met though he called me very nasty names. Should I get back with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - hiya xxxx i'm 14 and i just wanna know if there's chance of me nd my ex gettin bk togetha!!!!! i was seein him for about 3 months or sumthin which is quiet a long time but nayway we split up about 3 days ago and i was the one who ened it and have...

Are we more than friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - well im 15 and there is this guy who i have known all my life (hes 17). I love millions as a friend, and almst like a brother. The other day i was a bit upset and so he was cuddling up to me and comforting me and then kissed the top of my head, al...

Three is a crowd

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - Since i have been little me and my 2 best friends have always been a group of 3, we were always inseparable and everything we did would be together. i guess 3 is a tricky number butwe always got over it and no one got left out, if they did it never...

Is there more than I'm seeing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - Im 15 and there is this guy (17) who i have known all my life. I trust him more than anyone and he is closer to me than my best friends. Our families are really close, which is great and we often go away together, but we have always only been fri...