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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Was he just nervous or not wanting to be with me?Is it a common thing that if you've told your feelings for another guy over msn and that we were very expressive, yet in person he seems nervous (maybe awkward, or defensive)? He seemed so enthusiastic on msn, he even paid and arranged our *date thing*...Is it normal that if you rested your head on his shoulder (while watching a film) that he didn't respond, or object or do anything at all? I've known him for over a year, he is, and was, one of my best friends.Its the first time I can't read his actions. Am I expecting too much? Was he that warm just because he was nervous? He kept his arms folded almost the whole time I spent with him...I'm probably reading too much into this, he would be my first boyfriend (maybe this is why I've never had one before) and I just don't want him to feel awkward...Help, please =]
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (26 October 2007):
 hi.
I do not now why he is acting this way towards you, you've told him how you feel but he does not react to you, and you paying for the date, does not make sense, i think you are going to have to talk to him, try find out what his problem with you is all about, you do not want to be waisting your time and money on him if he is messing you about, ask him face to face babe, thats all you can do, and if he gives you an answer you do not like, them kick him into to touch, and find some one who will show you more respect, good luck.
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