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Do I like him or am I just missing him as a friend?

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Question - (31 October 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a friend who I am very close to. He has a gf.

The other day he told me that he really likes me and finds me really attractive. But i didnt want to get between him and his gf.

But recently i havnt been able to see him (i am ill), and i have really missed him, and he is all i can think about.

I have always found him attractive, but never thought of it as ne thing. But now i think it might be something stronger.

Do i like him or am I just missing him as a friend???

If i do like him, what do i do because he has a gf

thankyou

XxX

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007):

well im going through the sort of sae promb but myn is that io fancy him he has a gf he sed when he dumps her hell go out with me but i dont see a chance but good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007):

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The only thing we mostly talk about is us. I havent really met his gf but i know who she is any other suggestions???

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007):

Hi there,

I'm sure u like him.Becoz of the fact u think bout him a lot.He also has a gf and he may want to discuss some things with u which he cant share with others and his gf.He knows 4 sure that u like him a lot and this liking can convert into love very soon.Make sure if he is really commited to his gf.If yes then back off(can b friends with him though) becoz it will cause u a lot of pain later on,if not then u have a gud chance.You didnt tell wat u guyz generlly talk about....if he talks a lot bout his gf and his problems with her then he might be just b considering u as a gud friend to share his problems.If u c tht he is avoiding his gf to meet you.....then there r 2 reasonsp...he might be liking u or he might b playing with u.Dont think bout him 2 much before u know the actual fact.Tell him that u want to meet his gf ie if u havent.If he avoids or says no then he is most likely playing with u.

b careful

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007):

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Thankyou for the comment tellulah, really means a lot,

i just wanted to know that i've made the right decision. Ill take ur advice

Thnkyou

XxX

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (1 November 2007):

TELLULAH agony auntHi,

You are right to not get involved while he has a girlfriend. I would just give it a bit of time and see what happens, but it sounds like you are rather more fond of him than just as a friend.

Hope you feel better soon XX

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