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writes:Last week I e.mailed this guy I'd met vaguely through work colleagues, and asked him out for a drink. He mailed me back and we sent another couple of messages, and he said he'd phone at weekend. He didn't! I e.mailed him 3 days later, very casual, and said if he still wanted to meet for a drink, let me know. The next day he mailed back, and said he'd been away on business, he'd been ill, and that he'd call that night to fix a date. That should have been tonight and the phone hasn't rung.He's had loads of chances to say he didn't want to meet up (he's very recently divorced). Should I call him? I really like him and think we'd get on really well, or does this guy not want to know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): The very recently divorced thing is a bad sign. He needs time to get over that trauma in his life, move on to someone without so much baggage and is ready to date....you may hear from him at a later date if you leave him alone, and maybe by then he will be ready to date you....you don't want a rebound thing anyway, they don't work.
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (26 October 2007):
 Hi there. Dating is funny at our age isn't it? I wouldn't do anymore - you've done enough. Either he's not interested or he got something else (or someone else) that is occupying his mind at the moment. Wait and see what happens. If nothing - keep move forward. Good luck and take care.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (26 October 2007):
 hi.
It seems that he is not man enough to tell you, that he is not interested, the reasons he has given you are very lame, would not bother any more your wasting your time and should be finding some one who does want to go out with you, dont waste your time on people who cant be honest with you, your worth a lot more than that, take care.
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