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writes:I fancy my friends' boyfriend. But it's not as simple as that. She Doesn't fancy him much. She said so herself. She Doesn't want to dump him because he's 'sweet'. but i acctually like him properly. i also think he likes me to, but i dont want to do anything about it because my friend will hate me.What Shall I Do? Reply to this Question
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reader, RNaunt  +, writes (26 October 2007):
hmmm, a tough call... i think ur best bet would be to talk with ur friend openly. Just say that you see that she doesn't really feel that strongly about him but that you can't help but feel a certain way for him. let her know that you won't do anything that would risk your friendship with her and that's why you're talking to her about it. if she freaks out after that then i think maybe she's not quite as mature as one might hope and maybe ur not meant to be friends? i don't know, but i wouldn't do anything until you've spoken with ur friend about it - or will DEFINITELY lose her friendship.
good luck and take care!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Talk to your friend about how you are feeling you never know she might be willing to pass him over if she really isn't that keen on him!! Good luck
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reader, rockelle  +, writes (26 October 2007):
 Do you think he is worth losing your friendship? Feelings are one thing but acting on them takes it to another level.
If you are a true friend you will leave him, and find someone just as nice that is not involved with your friend.
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