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writes:I thank anyone who responds to my question. My question is why is that you can have someone of the opposite sex as a wonderful friend and after you get involved with them and it does not work out...you lose a friend. I am never able to be friends with someone I once loved and have lost friends that way. It kind of makes you wonder..why bother in the first place. Does anyone else have a take on this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): you answered your own question. They were a friend at the start. Why? Because you wern't sexually attacted to them. There is fewer more insults to a man than to say he is friendship material, and not mating material.
Friends, lovers never the twain shall meet.
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reader, im desperate for a baby  +, writes (25 October 2007):
 ive done that before gone out with a best friend and now i hardly talk to him, ivefigured out that its not the best thing to do , find someone that aint your friend it will work out better
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): Well there is a lesson to be learned here. Dont have one of your friends as a date! You dont state how old you are. But in the future you will meet someone and hopefully be friends with them first and then become a couple. But if you are dating blokes from within your group of friends then it is destined not to work.
take care
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reader, need help here i am +, writes (25 October 2007):
ive been through exactly the same thing as you ive been out with one of my friends but then it didnt work out. at first we didnt talk but i just left him to be his own worst enemy all you have to do is let him come crawling back to youdont speak to him for a while and he will soon need you for somethiong mabey even just for compfort but if he is being stupid just leave him hell soon relaise that hes in the wrong and start to speak to tou again but in future take time to think who exactly your giving your love to yours sincerly need help here i am
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (25 October 2007):
 okay put it this way people feel different things. and if a person likes someone else in a way that is not reciprocated it can make them feel upset and confused. this is usually why friendships are broken [thats the way i see things anyway] which is why u get the feelings you have got right now.
hope that made sense and helped
sparkii x
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