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anonymous
writes:Hey.I'm 15 and I've never been kissed. I've also never had a 'normal' relationship. I was never interested, but it got weird recently seeing loads of girls my age involved in them. I had one once, but it lasted a week and I hated it. This probably sounds trivial, but I dislike talking about any kind of love life because of it. I've never been made to feel pretty by anybody except my two best friends and my family. I know that I'm not ugly. I'm not a model but I usually see myself as quite attractive. It's not arrogance that doesn't attract people to me, because I never tell anybody what I just said. Am I just a late bloomer or do you think it could be something else? I've been accused of commitment phobia, if that helps.Thankyou.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): My first kiss was when I was 16, and I had never really had a real relationship before then. The best advice I can give you, is not to worry about what everyone else your age is doing, do what you want, when you want.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (27 October 2007):
 hi.
good grief what a lot of stress for some one your age, (I wonder if you can tell me what a normal relationship is, because even i do not now that,) you need to chill out babe, calm down go out enjoy yourself, you have plenty of time in your life to do the thing you want to do, wait until your sixteen you will enjoy it more, whats that i see commitment phobia, maybe this is because you have not met the right person yet, who makes you feel special enough to commit to them, thats why i know you do not have a phobia, come on babe lighten up, the watch word for today and every day that follows is: keep cooool, chillll out, and you will enjoy your life a lot more.
hope this helps you, be safe and do not worrying your better than that OK.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): I was the same at your age, I didn't really care about my love life and tried not to worry about it cause I had a it happens when it happens attiude.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): i was a little like you, at your age.
I also felt that people were way ahead of me when it came to relationships, i didn't feel comfortable in them, or in those situations.
You probably feel uncomfortable because you getting presurised into doind what everyone else does.
Dont worry that you havnt been kissed yet, i was 16 when i had my first kiss. You know when your ready as you'll feel completly at ease, don't rush yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Sweetheart your fifteen not thirty if your asking this question when you are you may have something to worry about, right now you definately dont!
So you havent been pressured into having a boyfriend for the sake of it, good for you. When your ready and you meet the right person then you'll know its right. Dont rush your life, relax and live for you, you'll blossom when you do.
good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): You're 15. Be patient. You're too busy bothering what everybody else is doing, we are all different, at your age it's more important to be the same. Chill out a little, think of something else and nature will take its course.
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