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writes:I'm 16, I love a girl but I didn't tell her that because I'm not confident about myself. I'm not so tall and handsome. We're saying to each other that we're just good friends, nothing more. Now I want to build a strong image of myself to her holding the position of friendship, that means I want to attract her in 'that way', but being a friend. Then I'll propose her. Now give me some suggestions how I'll do that?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): If you truely 'love' her then you should just tell it to her straight, but if you have doubts and unsure try to give her hints and let her catch on. The last thing you'd want to do is rush into it and blurt 'I Love You' and get stared at, at least confirm that she's intrested in you. Also, it would'nt hurt to take her out to romantic places and such either. It worked for me, and yes, I am dating a girl myself. =) I took the same precautions and got to her heart.
Best of Luck
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reader, rolfen  +, writes (13 October 2008):
 Ask yourself, how can I not tell her that I love her without ruining a chance to go out with her...
Friendship is easy to find... love is much harder to find.
I think you're just making excuses...
Once I was friend with a girl (i tried to hit on her a couple of times but it didnt work). Then I stayed friends but at some point she told me that she loves me. I tried to make it work but the feeling wasnt there... so now we're back to friends... not a big deal.
If she has no feelings for you then she shouldnt mind that... you can just decide to go back to friendship if you want.
If you tell her that and she runs away... it is a sign that she DOES have feelings for you... but she doesnt know how to deal with them.
Be very gentle, tell it in a kind way, tell her you miss her sometimes, and you'd like to spend more time with her if she doesnt mind, and you really love her (not in a crazy i'm mad about you way)... that is my advice...
But in matters of the heart... sometimes it is better to follow your heart. Usually other peoples advice are good and wise, you can take that too, but your heart also knows of a way. Just believe in a happy ending and dont be scared of the unknown, love is an adventure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): dude, i had z same situation, nd i just stayed like that,,,,,
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007): dude just be nice ask your friends if they see her act differrent around you or tell her you just want to know if you can be more than friends than go from their
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (27 October 2007):
 be around for her, care for her, be kind to her [basic rule but you know still got to say it] ask her out as friends and take the friendship slowly...no one really likes moving too quick.
good luck
x
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reader, xxbaybeegal +, writes (26 October 2007):
 Ok so look basically you have a crush on a girl who just wants to be friends with you. what do you do.
1.be good friends with her-stay close to her
2.be there- when she needs help be there to help her
3.invite her to places-ask her if she'd like to go for a drink sometime
after sometime im sure she will recognise the signs your making then be confident and ask her out.
good luck
xx
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