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writes:Well, me and my ex's relationship hasen't been going well lately. It all started when i started hanging out with my old friends who can get on people nerves a little bit. And since i've been hanging out with them i guess i've been getting on his nerves lately too. I still like my ex and i want things to work out between us or at least just be friends with him again but i dont want to just ditch my friends completely either. I've been sending him IM's but he never replys, what i want to know is how i can get him to stop ignoring me and just become friends again.
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reader, Lexxie  +, writes (11 May 2010):
Im having a similar problem.. we dated for a year and a half and when it comes down to it he just wont reply to my IM's.. I havent started hanging out with other people or anything at all. It really makes me wonder if he ever cared. But dont lose hope, try talking to a friend of his to see if hes ok. Maybe hes going through something and dealing with the emotions of talking to you may be too much for him. Try to be as supportive as possible and dont give up on him.
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reader, softballplaya  +, writes (26 October 2007):
 i had the same problem too!. okay what you need to do is either get him alone and tell him in person (people give u alot more respect when you show them you got the guts to say it to the face) and explain that you still wanna be friends....or you can just give it some time. for me and my ex to still be friends after the break up it took a few weeks, after some time passes IM him and just act like everythings normal. If he still wont reply after time has passed, then hes not worth ever going back to.
best of luck. God bless!
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reader, Gemini1506 +, writes (26 October 2007):
Tell him at the end of the day you want to remain in contact with him. and you are who you are and your friends are who dey wna be. so its either except that or basically he ent worth it no matter how you feel
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